Every month, the planets change signs and affect our relationships. Depending on the planetary movements, it may be tough to understand the needs and desires of the Libra man. But with my tips based on the monthly energy, you can draw the attention of a Libra man or improve your relationship with one in April 2020.
Whether he tells you or not, April 2020 is a month of self-discovery and cooperation for the Libra man and his relationships.
As a cardinal air sign, the Libra man is naturally sociable, cooperative, and romantic.
But with the transit Sun in Aries highlighting his seventh house of partnerships and marriage, the Libra man may be more impulsive, distant, and independent than usual.
In astrology, the Sun tells us a lot about what the Libra man wants to experience and achieve on an external level.
The Sun shows us things like how other people see him, how he experiences life, how he expresses his personality, and what his current focus is at the moment.
During this transit, he will be most attracted to the partner who is understanding of his need for independence and mutual respect.
If you want to get his attention, let him know that you can hold your own and still be there for him simultaneously.
Show him through action that he doesn’t always have to be the one helping others; tell him that it’s okay to put himself first.
If he’s being moodier or more irritable than usual this month, try not to take it personally.
The impulsive energy of the Sun in his opposite sign of Aries can influence the Libra man to be more quick-tempered and argumentative than usual.
Instead of lashing out, do what he would normally tell you to do and “be calm.”
If you can support his decisions and overlook his impulsive behavior at the beginning of the month, you may notice a change in his mood and behavior by the end of April, especially once the Sun enters Taurus on April 19.
If you want to attract a Libra man in April 2020, make it a priority to encourage equality in your relationship.
Take Him on an Adventure
There is nothing sexier to a Libra man than a charming, intellectual, and well-spoken woman.
With transit Venus in Gemini highlighting his ninth house of mental exploration, higher education, and adventure, the Libra man may be more willing to open his mind to new experiences and exploration.
In astrology, Venus determines what the Libra man will want and need out of a relationship.
Venus shows what he likes, the way he approaches relationships, the way he gives and receives affection, the type of woman he is attracted to, and his emotional relationship to material possessions and money.
During this period, he will be most attracted to the woman who not only intrigues him but who also can expand his mind.
One way to support the Libra man in April 2020 is to encourage his love of culture and adventure. He is turned on by unique and diverse experiences.
Remind yourself that the energy of Gemini is natural, lighthearted, and curious. So take him to a museum or cultural arts center; anywhere he can be exposed to something new.
The ninth house also rules publication and storytelling while Gemini’s influence fosters a love of writing. This may be an excellent time to discover his favorite author or genre in literature.
If he’s interested, try sending him a few of his favorite books or booking him a surprise online or future workshop in an interest of his choice.
He will appreciate your thoughtfulness in April 2020.
Focus on Building Healthy Communication
In astrology, Mercury says a lot about how the Libra man processes, receives, and sends information on an internal and external level.
Mercury shows us how he expresses his emotions, how he processes thoughts, how he perceives life, and what he wants to communicate to the world at the current moment.
When dating a Libra man, one of the social butterflies of the Zodiac, communication is key.
With transit Mercury beginning a new cycle in his opposite sign of Aries, the Libra man may be more impulsive, irrational, and competitive in his communications and speech.
Although the Libra man is very skilled at communication, he may need to make more of an effort to stay calm and balanced.
Doing simple things like listening when he talks, not interrupting him during his speeches, not trivializing or “downplaying” his words and emotions, being supportive and not controlling, etc., are helpful when building healthy communication.
He may not always show it, but the Libra man is very sensitive to others’ opinions about him, especially if he deeply cares for you.
Because of this, he tends to lash out when he feels insecure and threatened, instead of expressing his anger or hurt.
If this happens, soothe his mind by letting him know that it’s okay to feel negative emotions. He doesn’t have to be Mr. Perfect all the time.
As troubling as this all may seem, I’ve found this month is excellent for getting him to build and work on his self-esteem, which will help his ability to express healthy communication.
In relationships, Mars represents how the Libra man desires affection and sex and how he will respond to the expectations set by his Venus.
With transit Mars in Aquarius highlighting his fifth house of romance, passion, and pleasure, the Libra man may be more playful and free-spirited than usual.
During this period, take an emotionally detached/playful approach in love.
With Aquarius being a fixed air sign, it may be helpful to find ways to merge social activity and his gifts, talents, hobbies, etc.
For example, if your Libra man enjoys physical fitness, this would be a great time for you to incorporate a couple of activities that use his love of physical fitness as a path to help, teach, and connect with others in a fun way.
You could do something like help him plan a community health fair, arts festival, or kickball tournament for the fall. It doesn’t have to be complex.
Sexually, the influence of thought-driven Mars in Aquarius arouses the Libra man’s love for an intellectual and spontaneous woman.
He is most attracted to the woman who isn’t afraid to keep things stimulating in the bedroom.
If you stick it out with him in April, I believe there are so many good things to come for you in May. So make sure you stay updated with the blog to see How to Attract a Libra Man in May 2020.
Just remember that the Libra man is full of secrets, so for you to build and maintain the relationship of your dreams, you need to understand him on a fundamental level.
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