The Mind Hack That Makes a Libra Text You First
One of the things you’ve likely noticed if your heart is set on a Libra man is that he is so indecisive.
One minute he chases you, the next he pulls back. This can be exciting when you’re receiving so much attention and admiration from him…
But when he slows down, your anxiety may start to spike. Ironically, this is because his anxiety is triggered, too.
A Libra man will overthink things, especially his attraction. But without clear communication, you may wonder if you’ve gone too far and now he’s scared away from the relationship.
It’s best to let him text you first, but when you love a Libra man and he’s gone into distance mode, you may feel compelled to try to reach out to him again… and again…
And this is a mistake. You have to understand the key mind hack that will make him text you first. You’ve got to give him a chance to become emboldened to chase you again. He needs time to work through his indecisiveness and then pursue you again. But how do you do that?
Think of a cat.
If you show too much interest, the cat wants nothing to do with you. He’ll run into the other room and wait until you start to ignore him. As soon as you are busy with something new, say doing work on your laptop or reading a book, the cat will silently tiptoe back into the room and demand to have your full attention.
Because you created space for the cat to come to you.
The same is true for a Libra man. You’ve got to make him feel like he isn’t losing his freedom. This may mean toning it down for a while, or at least not initiating contact. For a few days to a week, act aloof. Don’t be rude, though, if he contacts you, do respond.
But don’t go out of your way to pay extra attention to him.
Also, just like with the cat, start to engage in something that interests you. Keep yourself busy with other projects, interests and tasks that really take your mind off him. Especially intellectual projects that will arouse his curiosity.
As he starts to approach you again, be friendly and flirty, and encourage him to take the lead. As you’re enjoying your evening together, be the first to cut things short in a polite way.
Think of the story of Cinderella. Her midnight deadline led her to cut her romantic evening with Prince Charming short. Because of this, he was compelled to have to chase her in order to find her again.
If she hadn’t known that her Fairy Godmother’s spell would end promptly at midnight, maybe they would have danced all night, talking and laughing and getting to know each other…
And the next morning, he would have had less of a compulsion to go out in pursuit of her. If he’s a Libra man, at least, he would have had less motivation to chase her. He would have instead felt flooded with anxiety, contemplating whether this relationship would start to impede on his freedom and whether she is the “right” choice.
Amazing! Very accurate description and spot on description of zodiac signs.
This is definitely helpful to understand the other person you are dealing with on such a different level.
Thank you Anna
Use this mind hack to get him from getting too comfortable in the relationship. Though it sounds counter intuitive, when a Libra man is too comfortable, he starts to overanalyze the relationship. It’s best to keep him thinking he has to pursue you.
Don’t chase him first no matter how tempting. When he contacts you first, flirt with him and be playful and fun, but don’t pour your heart out. Keep your interactions brief at first. In addition, try to encourage him to set the tone. This empowers him to be more decisive.
Do you have the patience and endurance to hack a Libra man’s psychology and get him to chase you?
I bet you do, it may just take some adjustments from what you expect him to do.
In most circumstances, this trick works like a charm. He will again seem more interested in the conversation.
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