What happens when you ghost a Libra man? Should you risk this tactic, or will it turn him off?
If you’re like many women, you might try too hard to cater to your Libra man. Perhaps you’ve heard a thing or two about Libra’s sensitivity, leaving you afraid to pull away. But this is a critical mistake.
Sometimes, knowing when to shut down can make or break your relationship with a Libra man. If your Libra guy becomes sluggish, following the No Contact Rule can bring the motivation he needs to reignite his passion.
If we haven’t met, I’m Anna Kovach. For decades, I’ve used my gifts as a Relationship Astrologer to help women worldwide improve their relationships with Libra men. Women just like you, who crave romance, and are ready for serious commitment.
I’ve learned how to turn the tables on a Libra man when he’s stuck in his notorious uncertainty phase. A No Contact Rule can be just what you need, but it is not for every situation.
1. It cures his indecisiveness
While Libra men can be extra sensitive to being ignored, leaving a Libra man alone is also the best tactic to use when he is being indecisive.
He is famous for being unable to make up his mind and no matter how much he loves you, a Libra man may become wishy-washy when faced with a decision to settle down.
You can jumpstart a relationship with a Libra man when he starts to slow down if you stop contacting him for just a few days. It doesn’t take long to get a Libra man to realize he’s making a big mistake by overthinking his relationship with you. After a two to three days of silence, if you don’t hear from him, give him a week.
A Libra man who is interested in you won’t be able to go longer without reaching out.
2. It helps him avoid boredom
A No Contact Rule can help a Libra man refocus when he becomes bored. It’s inevitable that an air sign like Libra will occasionally lose interest and become distant. When he seems unenthusiastic about your relationship, you can win his heart all over again by temporarily acting too busy for him.
Don’t rush to respond when he texts you. Avoid initiating contact and let your Libra man come to you. Wait to hear from him first and don’t chase him. Within a short time, he’ll miss you and want to know what you’ve been up to. If you see signs a Libra man is playing you, it’s time to cool off and let him come to you rather than contacting him first.
A Libra man always comes back when you don’t panic and cool off.
3. He won’t take you for granted
If you strategically follow a No Contact Rule with a Libra man after a breakup, you can ensure he won’t make the mistake of taking you for granted. Libra can be affectionate and loving, but he also comes to see his partner as an extension of himself. He can expect that you’ll just always be there and the relationship may become mundane.
When this happens, his desire may seem to die down. He needs reminders that you are an ideal match for him. Absence can help a Libra man recall the many reasons he fell for you in the first place. Invoke his passion by taking a strategic step back.
4. He becomes more motivated
A Libra man can benefit from some time away even if he doesn’t initiate it. Knowing how to follow a No Contact Rule with a Libra guy without making him feel abandoned can be essential. Give him enough breathing room to make him miss you.
After a brief hiatus, a Libra man chases you again. He may need a week or two, but he won’t stay gone for long. He will work harder to get your attention if you are less available. Show him you value yourself enough to make him work for your attention.
5. He stops sending mixed signals
You’ll know a No Contact Rule worked when a Libra guy stops sending mixed signals. This might take some practice and yoru Libra guy may not respond ideally the first time. You may need to slow down and text him less for a few days before he gets the hint.
When a Libra man becomes more focused on you, he stops being indecisive. He needs time to commit and can become serious about you when he sees that you aren’t always waiting for him. A Libra man always comes back if you show him you respect yourself too much to chase him.
6. He makes you a priority
One of the benefits of sparingly and strategically following a No Contact Rule when a Libra guy wavers is that it motivates him to make you a priority. His attention may wander but nothing brings his focus back like realizing he’s pushed you away.
Libra men seek comfort and companionship in partnerships. When you aren’t by his side or when he doesn’t hear from you, a Libra guy inevitably panics. Avoid making him anxious for no reason, yet if he’s losing sight of his priorities, you can get him to become serious again by pulling away temporarily.
7. It activates his fear of missing out
Taking a step away and making him sit with the silence you once filled with eager texts can give a Libra man the space he needs to suddenly become afraid that he’s missing out. He may assume you are enjoying yourself and possibly even meeting other charming men, and this thought will unsettle him.
Making a Libra man nervous about losing you can be more beneficial than you realize. Activate his fear of missing out by stepping back and making him come to you.
When you put a No Contact Rule into place with a Libra man, only use this tactic when he starts to become ambivalent. Avoid using this rule to make him jealous or play with his mind when everything is going well.
If your Libra man is pulling away, the worst thing you can do is chase him.
The best thing? Show him what life without you really feels like. When you give him the right kind of space, his feelings have room to grow stronger and he’ll realize what he’s losing.
The No Contact Rule is powerful, but only if you use it the right way. The 30-Day Challenge will guide you through each step so you never feel lost or alone in the process, and so you know exactly how to get his attention back.
Once you’ve tried it out, let me know how he responds. I can’t wait to hear from you!
What about you? Have you ever tried the No Contact Rule with your Libra man?
Did it work the way you hoped, or did you struggle to stay strong?
Do you feel like this strategy could help you right now?
Share your thoughts in the comments! I love hearing your experiences and guiding you through these moments.
With love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
