Libra men are a lot of fun and great to be with in a relationship, but these guys are also pretty fickle and struggle to make up their minds. Which makes it difficult to know the signs a Libra man is not into you…
One minute he will be super friendly and all into you, and then the next you won’t hear from him for ages. It is so confusing. However, there are some very definite signs that a Libra man is not interested in you.
When a Libra man doesn’t answer texts it is one of those guaranteed signs he is not interested in you because this man really loves to communicate and connect, so when he is avoiding you, something is definitely up!
Are you unsure if a Libra man is into you or not? Then you have come to the right place. Keep on reading to find out all the signs a Libra man is not into you so that you can stop wasting your time:
What Makes A Libra Man Not Interested In A Woman?
Libra men just love to be in relationships. Nothing adds more value to their lives than finding a partner they can really connect with, however, certain things just really turn a Libra man off and make him not interested any longer.
He really doesn’t like conflict as he is someone who loves to keep the peace. Harmony is very important to him and he doesn’t want to be with anyone who is disruptive to his peace.
This means that when the woman he dates can’t get along with his friends and family, it usually is a big red flag for him as these connections are the most important in his life.
He is also a bit of an intellectual and if he doesn’t feel that there is a mental connection with a woman, it makes him lose interest very quickly. He wants that spark to be there to have interesting conversations with her.
Another thing that makes a Libra man lose interest is when the woman he dates stops caring about her looks. Truth be told, Libra men are quite vain and care about the way they look, so if she doesn’t it can make him find her less attractive.
These are just some of the things that might come up if a Libra man has lost interest in a woman. Do you think any of these reasons might be why you have noticed your Libra man pull away?
7 Obvious Signs A Libra Man Is Not Into You
1. When A Libra Man Ignores Your Text
When a Libra man never initiates contact it is usually quite a big sign that he is not interested in you, because when a Libra man is interested in a woman he will do absolutely anything to be in contact with you.
You need to remember that the Libra man is an Air sign and communication means absolutely everything to him. He wants to stay in contact as much as possible as he feels this strengthens the bond.
So when he isn’t putting in this effort it is often an indication that he isn’t very interested in you. I often get my readers asking me “why is a Libra man ignoring my texts?” and the reason is usually that he simply isn’t interested!
2. Libra Man Talks About Other Women To You
In the case that you’re crushing on him and you’re not actually dating him, he may be oblivious and start talking about other women to you. Like you’re just a good friend he can talk to.
However, he is a private guy so this would be sort of unusual. Unless you’ve been friends for a long time and he just has no clue you like him. Then yes, he’ll open up and talk to you.
It won’t be deep stuff at all but he may mention having interest in some other women where you two work, go to school, or wherever it is that you two became friends at.
So when he’s talking to you about other women, he either has no interest in you romantically or he is oblivious that you even feel anything for him like that or not. If you do, it might be a good idea to speak up and tell him.
Of course, if you’ve been dating him and he inappropriately talks about other women or their appearance, he’s trying to show you a little disrespect in a way so that you’ll write him off and he can easily flee the scene.
3. Libra Man Is Short Tempered With You
In the case that you’ve been with him for awhile and now it seems that you cannot do anything right in his mind, he’s probably done with you. He is not really short tempered.
He will appear as though he does though if he’s really trying to shake you loose from his life. Now in the case that you’re just friends, he may pick up on your vibes and doesn’t want you to get any closer.
If he’s keeping you at arms length and being cynical toward you, there is a good chance that he is showing you he isn’t interested and doesn’t want to go anywhere with your friendship.
He won’t let anyone in who he doesn’t feel close to or wants to be with. This means that if you’re in the friend zone. You’re going to either stay there or he’s going to below you off entirely thus icing you out.
He may act annoyed at anything you do really. The way you eat, the way you talk, the way you twirl your hair, etc. You’ll know because he’ll give you a weird glance like “can you not” type of thing.
Watch his body language. You can easily pick up on when he’s annoyed even if he doesn’t say anything. When he starts being this way around you, it’s because he’s done or just isn’t interested.
When a woman keeps trying to push him into something he doesn’t want, he will absolutely either tell her he doesn’t want it or he will act highly annoyed by anything she does just so she “gets it”.
4. Libra Man Avoids Contact With You
Whether it’s phone calls, text messages, social media messages, or any other type of communication, he’ll pull back or not respond at all. He doesn’t want to be mean but he doesn’t want to send the wrong message either. When a Libra man ignores your text he is trying to make things clear.
He’s a sweet guy but he is still a guy. That means that he’s going to play the pulling back and being a colder maneuver if he thinks it’s not working or if he’s just not into you at all.
Libra men make it clear when they’re interested just as they’re pretty definitive when they don’t like someone. When he’s not interested, he won’t go out of his way to call you, text you, or talk to you.
Whether you were dating him or just interested in him, he’s not going to push anything forward. He’s going to go about his busy life as though you were never in it.
Libra men tend to put lots of focus on themselves and what they want in life. If he’s dodging you, he doesn’t want anything with you. You’ll need to just go ahead and cut your losses or cut the interest in him.
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5. Libra Man Tells You How He Feels
When you confront the Libra man on how you feel and what you want, he will have a hard time with it but he will actually tell you that he isn’t interested in you in that way or doesn’t want a relationship.
It won’t feel good to hear it but it’s often best to ask him what he wants and where he sees things going. That way you get a definitive answer and are not stuck in limbo wondering what signs he gives off if he likes you or doesn’t like you.
Talk to him and get a feel for what is going on in his life, in his head, in his heart, and what he wants. What he wants and what you want may not line up. I get how saddened you will feel to find out Libra man has no interest.
However, it’s best you find out instead of going forward thinking he likes you then getting hurt when you find that he doesn’t. Libra man is slow and will take his time forming a bond that he wants.
6. A Libra Man Is Unreliable
As a general rule, a Libra man is by nature a little fickle and scattered. He tends to be quite indecisive and all over the place. However, when he is in a relationship with someone he really likes, he makes the effort to be a little more grounded and reliable.
If he says he will be somewhere, he will be. But, when a Libra man is not interested in you, he will become unreliable. He will go back on his word and make you question your value in his life.
You will start to lose trust in him as you notice that he keeps going back on his word. You will get this feeling that you can’t rely on him because he never does what he says he will.
This is a major sign that he doesn’t consider you as someone important in his life otherwise he wouldn’t do this.
7. A Libra Man Bootycalls You
Libra men are relationship orientated, and although that might be true, they also have a naughty side in which they know that they are very charming and can make women swoon.
So, this can make it pretty confusing when you hear from a Libra man, but it seems like it is only for sex. This is often an indication that he likes you enough for sex, but not for an actual relationship.
Have you noticed you only hear from him when he wants to get laid? This is usually a major red flag that he isn’t actually interested in you otherwise he would make the effort to spend time with you even if sex wasn’t on the table!
When My Libra Man Doesn’t Answer Texts — Is He Losing Interest Or Too Busy For Me?
A Libra man not texting back is usually a cause for concern as this man really loves communication, especially if it is with his sweetheart. He likes to stay in touch with the woman he has a relationship with.
When a Libra man doesn’t answer texts, it is a little worrying. He might be confused about where the relationship is heading and need a time-out to figure out what his feelings are.
It is also very possible that he is just busy with work and can’t find the time to respond to you. I wouldn’t be concerned if it has just been a couple of hours, but if it has been a couple of days, something is clearly up!
Give him some space and stop double texting him! If he is man enough he should come back to you with a valid reason, and if he doesn’t then you know he isn’t someone you need to waste your time on any longer. You deserve better!
3 More Signs A Libra Man Has Lost Interest
1. A Libra Man Doesn’t Compliment You
Seeing as Venus is the ruler of Libra, flattery and flirtation come very easily to him. He really knows how to make people feel good and this is why he tends to be such a popular choice as a partner.
He knows how to be a good lover! This is why you should be worried if you never hear compliments from your Libra man. He is clearly not trying to make you feel good or make it obvious that he likes you.
A Libra man will stop at nothing to compliment the woman he likes as he knows it makes her feel good and makes her fall for him even more. He knows what he is doing when you never hear sweet nothings from him.
2. He Is Critical Of You
Usually, Libra men like to keep the peace as balance and harmony are their thing. However, if a Libra man knows you like him and he isn’t interested in you, he can be a little passive aggressive if he is trying to get you off his back.
He will be a little unkind, and even contrary at times. Whatever you say, he will say the opposite. This is a little childish as he clearly doesn’t know how to just be honest and tell you that he isn’t interested.
3. He Never Makes Romantic Gestures
One of the best parts of being with a Libra man is that he is extremely romantic. He will go above and beyond to woo the woman he is interested in. Think massive gestures of adoration. Flowers, gifts, fun dates, the works!
When a Libra man is interested in you he is going to try to make you swoon! However, if there are never any romantic gestures coming your way from him, he probably only sees you as a friend, unfortunately.
By not showing you any romantic gestures he is making it clear that he is not interested in you.
What To Do When A Libra Man Loses Interest
When a Libra man loses interest in you, the last thing you should do is to fight even harder to win his approval. You shouldn’t put in more effort, you should really just lean back and focus on your own stuff.
The harder you try to win him over, the further he is going to run. You will end up surprising him in a big way if you just back off for a bit and show him that you don’t have desperation to be with him.
If you’re mature about things it will make him realize that he might be wrong about you. Put a lot of work and care into yourself. This is an opportunity for you to level up and feel better about yourself.
Appearances are important to a Libra man and if the next time he sees you he notices that you have leveled up and you are looking better than ever, it is going to make him question his decision of not seeing you for who you truly are.
Work on your friendships and hobbies, build confidence, and become a more well-rounded person. You will end up knocking him off his feet and you might even come to realize that you were better off without him anyway.
How To Know When A Libra Man Is Done With You
When a Libra man is done with you it can feel pretty brutal because you understand how amazing it feels to be loved by such a caring and compassionate individual.
When a Libra man pays attention to you, it can feel pretty amazing and this is why it can be quite a shock when you realize his attention is something you can’t get anymore.
He will withdraw from talking to you and there will be a sense of emptiness in your life that leaves a massive gap. The kind person you once knew will become quite cruel and you will question if you even knew him at all.
FAQ On Libra Man Losing Interest
Do Libra Men Lose Interest Quickly?
Libra men can be pretty fickle at times. They are very indecisive and always have a case of FOMO going on. They are a bit like Gemini in that way as it is difficult to keep their attention.
However, relationships are very important to a Libra man. And he knows what he wants and what he wants to feel when he is in a relationship. If you are the right woman for him, he won’t lose interest quickly, but if you aren’t, he’ll be out of your life very soon.
How To Know If A Libra Man Is Playing You?
The Libra man can be a bit of a player if he hasn’t committed to you. He likes to keep his options open and date as many women as he can before he chooses to commit.
Some of the signs a Libra man is playing you is he doesn’t give you attention, you never hear from him unless you contact him first, he never commits to plans or asks you out, and you only see him if it is for sex.
How Does a Libra End A Relationship?
A Libra man is not very good with conflict and confrontation. He is by nature a people-pleaser who tries to keep everyone happy. A Libra man will often stay in his relationships longer than he should because he is afraid to rock the boat.
When he wants to end the relationship he will start to withdraw slowly and become more and more distant. It won’t be easy to connect with him anymore. He is trying to push you away so that you end up being the one who leaves him so that he doesn’t seem like the bad guy.
How Do You Know A Libra Man Is Over You?
When a Libra man is over you it will be fairly obvious. He will no longer keep in touch or check in on you and find out how you are. You will feel like a stranger in his life.
He will also probably be dating someone else and draw very big boundaries to make you understand that he is with someone else now. The connection you once had will disappear.
He will stop paying attention to you and when you reach out to him he is likely to ghost you and give you the cold shoulder. He will become very distant and elusive.
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