Being Friends With Benefits With Libra Man: What To Expect?

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Falling for your Libra friend with benefits? It’s common to get infatuated with this charming and handsome sign, so don’t feel alone! Here are some things to consider when being fwb with a Libra man.

In my Astrology practice, I am often asked by my clients how to go from being friends with benefits to an exclusive relationship. It’s not easy dealing with the world of modern dating! How do you know when to push and when to lean back? Libra man friends with benefits, is it a common thing?

Of course, it makes it all the harder when you’re falling in love with a Libra guy. This is known as the love sign, after all! Women generally fall head over heels for the Libra man, with his flirtatious and romantic nature. Plus, he’s usually great in the bedroom, right?

Luckily, the Libra guy is the type to want and crave a committed relationship. He loves a one-on-one connection, and though he might go through a phase of casual relationships, the Libra man likes having a girlfriend. In fact, this man is very seldom even single!

So, these are a few ways you can make it happen with him.

Do Libra Men Like Being In A Casual Relationship?

A Libra man is a social and easy-going person. A rational, charming, and balanced man who enjoys social events, clubbing, dating, etc. He enjoys flexibility and freedom. If he hasn’t found a woman who interests him enough to form close bonds, he will not be open to being in a relationship and will not be trying to commit to any specific path in the relationship.

He would prefer to have a “friends with benefits’ ‘ type of situation or have an offer for an open relationship. Libra men are very indecisive, and until they realize what they want, this gives them the variety and excitement they crave.

So yes, he definitely enjoys having these types of setups. He can have sex with a friend in whom he has some trust while he flirts around with other ladies. He has no consequences or ties to worry about.

Libra will have strong boundaries about sex and intimacy. However, he prioritizes mutual respect and emotional connection, even if his relationships are casual.

3 Signs A Libra Man Just Wants To Be Friends

In case your Libra man wants only friendship, you need to know what signs to look out for to recognize this in his behavior:

1. He Brings Up Other Women In Conversation

When a Libra just wants to be friends with you, you will hear him mentioning other women in your presence. He will not find this awkward, but rather normal. You might even learn if one of them is his date or someone he has feelings for. 

He might do this unconsciously because he sees you as a friend and thinks you’re just having a conversation. Even if he believes you have feelings for him, he may think that involving another woman in your conversation will let you know he is not interested in you.  

2. He Never Gets Jealous Around You

If you mention other men in the presence of a Libra man, he will never get jealous if he is not interested in you. He’ll have a very indifferent reaction or feel happy for you because you are dating someone else. 

Jealousy is usually a good indicator that a Libra man has feelings for you, so when there isn’t any jealousy, chances are good that he doesn’t really have feelings for you and just wants to be friends. 

3. He Doesn’t Flirt With You

The Libra man is charming. He knows how to flirt and use his words to make you go crazy for him.  You’ll definitely know if is flirting with you.

If he never flirts with you, this is a strong indicator that he only wants friendship. He will put boundaries and will make you aware that he will not develop deeper feelings for you.

What To Do If A Libra Man Just Wants To Be Friends?

It can be very disappointing when you come to realize that your Libra man only wants to be friends when you want more. There are a couple of things you can do. 

You can accept this and try to move on and forget about your feelings for him because your friendship with him is more important to you. Or, you could always try your best to seduce him, but this may lead to you feeling even more heartbroken.

In case you want change the gear and make him fall in love with you, then make sure to check out my Libra Man 30-Day Love Challenge <<

How To Know If A Libra Man Just Wants To Hook Up

All men are the same, even Libra men, and there are always a few signs you can look out for to help you understand that a Libra man just wants to hook up with you and nothing more. Here are the signs to look out for:

He Tries To Get In Your Pants Without Getting To Know You First

If he’s trying to get you into bed and he has only just met you! He’s only trying to get into your pants. With this in mind, you can be sure he is NOT into you but is just leaving the space open for intimacy. So please be careful when you try to form some sort of bond with a Libra man.

Not all of them will just dive into bed with anyone, but many of them actually will. They love to look around before they actually decide to settle in.

He Tells You Directly

A Libra man communicates openly. He will tell you directly about how he feels about you and what his expectations are for his connection with you. He might be indecisive at first, now knowing what he is looking for, but if a Libra man is only into sex, he is going to say so. 

He’ll let you know that he isn’t interested in anything more and he won’t be able to give you what you want if you are looking for a relationship with him. He can be very direct and honest. A Libra man just wants to hook up when he tells you straight. Believe him!

You Only Hear From Him When He Wants To Hook Up

As I mentioned above, he has good communication skills. He thinks through. Usually, he is stuck to his phone constantly texting and keeping in contact with people. He loves to chat and communicate. 

However, if you only hear from your Libra man when he wants to hook up, chances are, that is all he is interested in getting from you. He is keeping you at arm’s length for a reason. This is the classic case of a Libra man friends with benefits scenario. 

How To Go From Friends With Benefits To An Exclusive Relationship With Your Libra Man

1. Simply Ask Him

This might seem scary—and definitely uncomfortable—but the easiest way to move from Friends with Benefits to an exclusive relationship with the Libra man is simply to ask him. After a sweet moment (in the bedroom or out of it), ask him what he thinks of being exclusive.

Don’t play too many games, and avoid being confrontational about them, too. Libra men don’t like conflict, and they don’t like being forced. But they do enjoy a sexy negotiation, and they love to be flattered. You never know; he’s probably thinking the exact same thing!

2. Create A Mental Connection

Libra is an air Zodiac sign, which means that they value intellectual connection even more than a physical connection. Sure, you might be friends with benefits, but he probably really just loves to talk to you and share his ideas and thoughts with you!

If you want to move into a relationship with him, make the effort to create a mental connection with him. Text him, phone him, or talk to him. Ask him what he thinks and engage in a debate with him. Once you’re in his mind, you’ll definitely be in his heart, too!

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3. Share Your Activities And Passions With Him

If you really want to upgrade from “friends with benefits” to an exclusive relationship, start sharing your passions with him. Meet outside the bedroom and enjoy an activity together, which will show him how great it is to have someone to have fun with!

Even if you don’t physically share your passions with him, you can always talk about them with him. Ask him what his passions are and what he likes to do in his spare time. Maybe it’s something like gaming (where you can join in) or cooking (also an easy home activity to do together) that can create a bond that’s just physical.

The more you do it, the more he will come to see that having a woman by his side is not so scary after all!

4. Get To Know The Rest Of His Life

What else does your Libra fella like to do? Who are his parents? Does he have kids? An ex? His relationships are very important to him, and finding out about them will bring the two of you that much closer.

Even better is if you can make an effort to meet some of them and create a bond of your own. And of course, it’s not just relationships. It’s helpful to find out what his creative passions are, what he likes to do in his spare time, and what his work day is like.

When you share your lives together, it becomes easier for the two of you to get attached and close!

5. Act Like His Girlfriend

Sometimes, you just need to act like his girlfriend. Bring him some food when you go to his house, check in to see if he had a good meeting or day, and offer your support during a tough time. You can give him a kiss good-bye and set up coffee dates before booty calls.

You might even get him a little gift every now and then, brushing it off as very casual. Build him up, make him feel good, and get the cuddles in! One day, he may just wake up and realize that he would much rather have you as his girlfriend and best friend than just a buddy with benefits!

As they say, “fake it until you make it.”

So, with this all said and done, what’s the right amount of time you should wait before moving into exclusivity? It’s always good to assess each individual situation, and move ahead accordingly.

For example, if either one of you is going through a breakup, you should probably take it slow and realize you may be a rebound. But if you want to preserve the friendship, never let it go on too long. One of you will get attached at some point, and it will hurt the other person hugely to be rejected.

It’s the responsible thing to do to have “the talk” or find other ways of becoming exclusive (not to mention the health risks associated with not being exclusive!). My personal rule of thumb is six months maximum before you either call it quits or move into the next level.

Remember, if a guy really wants you, he will make the effort. You’re in charge of your own boundaries!

Wondering how does a Libra man act when he likes you? << check out here

Will You Get Out Of The Friends With Benefits Phase And Get Serious? — Based On Your Sign

If you want more from your Libra man you’ll have to do it the old fashioned way of trying to actually date him and let him get to know you. Yes, it is possible to move from being friends with benefits to an exclusive relationship.

Every sign reacts completely differently to a friends with benefits situation. Some signs prefer relationships, while others hate commitment. Who is the most likely to change a friend with benefits set up with a Libra? Keep on reading to find out who is most likely to get serious:

Libra Man & Aries Woman Friends With Benefits

Her intensity can overwhelm a Libra man; she is too strong for him. 50% is their connection score. This type of relationship can have two possibilities: two of them can make it or break it!

Libra Man & Taurus Woman Friends With Benefits

With a connection score of 70%, a Taurus woman can bring stability into a Libra man’s life, so ‘friends with benefits’ situations are rarely seen with this combination. The Taurus woman is famous for long-term planning, and she would not settle for anything that was not a serious relationship.

Libra Man & Gemini Woman Friends With Benefits

With the connection score of 75%, they will slowly move away from being friends with benefits; if any of them want to keep this status, then they will most likely remain friends with benefits. Could it be exclusive? Yes, it could if they both want it!

Libra Man & Cancer Woman Friends With Benefits

Both signs are extremely balanced, but this is not a good combination for an exclusive relationship. With a connection score of 45%, they have a great chance of keeping it casual, but close bonding will more likely happen with other zodiac combinations.

Libra Man & Leo Woman Friends With Benefits

A Leo woman is stunning and wants attention; she could be possessive and jealous. If this is too much for a Libra man, he will not be able to handle it. A connection score of 60% could be enough to get them out of the “fwb’ situation.

Libra Man & Virgo Woman Friends With Benefits

Intellectually, they are a match for something more, but physically, they are not so aligned. Their connection score is 60%, and they won’t settle to be friends with benefits, so the chances of elevating this to exclusivity are very high if they are both willing.

Libra Man & Libra Woman Friends With Benefits

Connection score: 90%. Great match, they seek partners for long-term relationships and would move quickly from being friends with benefits to exclusivity. They can both compromise and seek lifelong partners in each other.

Libra Man & Scorpio Woman Friends With Benefits

Not likely to work out. They can keep the friends with benefits status because a Scorpio woman is too intense for a balanced Libra man. Their connection score is 40%. Even if they moved to be exclusive partners, the relationship would be challenged.

Libra Man & Sagittarius Woman Friends With Benefits

Very likely to make it! With a connection score of 70%, I know a lot of married couples with this Zodiac sign combination. With similar goals and desires in life, they will swiftly move from being friends with benefits to a serious relationship, but only if they both want it.

Libra Man & Capricorn Woman Friends With Benefits

This combination has the lowest success rate, with a connection score of nearly 20%. The “Friends with Benefits” setting could be enough for both of them, but chances of elevating it to the next level are slim. This is a difficult match with obstacles that are hard to overcome.

Libra Man & Aquarius Woman Friends With Benefits

They can connect well in the bedroom, so staying as friends with benefits will be more likely to work out between them. With a connection score of 40%, Aquarius woman and Libra man are sexually compatible, but when it comes to matters of the heart, they both tend to clash.

Libra Man & Pisces Woman Friends With Benefits

You will be surprised, but this is one of the best combinations for both sexual chemistry and a long-term relationship. Their connection score is 80%, and they are both willing to seek a soulmate in each other. If they start as friends with benefits, most likely they will move quickly to a serious relationship setting.

Is Your Libra Man (Still) Avoiding Commitment?

Are you tired of feeling like you’re on an emotional rollercoaster with your Libra man?

One moment he’s all in, the next he’s pulling away and leaving you feeling confused and alone.

If you’ve been wondering why he can’t seem to commit or stay consistent in your relationship, it could be because of his attachment style.

Libra men with an Avoidant Attachment Style may struggle to commit due to childhood trauma, making it difficult for them to form deep emotional connections.

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Wishing you all the luck in the Universe,

Anna Kovach


P.S. Not all men are turned on by the same things.

You need to see EXACTLY what turns your Libra man on based on his specific astrology.

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About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

  • I have feelings for a Libra man, I’m a Gemini woman. He used to flirt with me, now he doesn’t. He still follows me on Facebook and Instagram..that’s where I met him. I’ve known him for 4 years.I don’t understand him at all.