What exactly does it mean to have “no contact” when it’s regarding the Libra man? Everything I’ve learned has taught me that this is what you do if you two have ended things and you’re trying to win him back. Keep reading if you’d like to know more about this tactic.
What is the “No Contact” rule?
This is when you’re either trying to get back together with your Libra guy or you’re trying to work past it and move on. It may also be during a “break” with your Libra guy.
It’s hard to call it quits with the Libra man because though there may be problems, he’s still so endearing and charming that he may talk you into staying. If he doesn’t then he’s not truly in love with you in the first place.
No contact means that if you two have ended it, you’ll need to make sure you’re not trying to reach out to him anymore. If you do reach out he’ll get the notion you’re not really done.
While that might seem like a good thing if you’re trying to get him back, you need to actually create space so that he can work through what happened in his own head in order to come back to you clear of baggage.
If he truly does love you, he will absolutely not dig the silence and is very likely to reach out to you. That’s why it’s important to put that silence into effect. It will make him miss you and desire to hear your voice.
When it’s a situation where you need to move on from him because you know it’s not ever going to work, you need to go silent because talking to him at any point will bring your feelings back out and you may want to go back when it’s toxic.
You’ll need to remember why you broke up in the first place. When you do, you have to remind yourself that you’d just be repeating toxic patterns and its better you don’t. Don’t call, don’t text, don’t stay friends on social media, don’t have any contact at all whatsoever.
What Happens When You Do the No Contact Rule With Libra Man?
For one thing, you’re taking back your own control in the situation. You’re letting him know that you’re in charge of yourself and your own destiny. That may actually turn him on and feel you’ve changed for the better.
This time and space allows you to figure out who you are without him, what you want in your life, and what dreams you want to accomplish. Get back in line with yourself.
Perhaps remembering who you are and what you want will give you better perspective as to whether you should even bother giving him another chance or if you should move forward.
Once you feel alive again, you may see things very differently. You may decide you want more out of a relationship than you were getting or you may just want someone very different from him.
You will definitely get some very interesting introspection when you go silent with the Libra man. You will see who you really are and who he really is. Cater to yourself instead of him for a change. See what you’ve been missing!
Changes or Getting Over It
In the time of going silent, you’ll learn about yourself, you’ll learn if you really do want him or if you just felt you needed someone. Figure out what you want in a partner and if he fits that criterion.
It may push him to be more responsible and more attentive to you. That’s provided he’s still in love with you and actually wants to salvage what you had. If he doesn’t, he will probably be alright with the silence.
This silence allows you to depend on yourself and not on anyone else. This is a gift! One of the things Libra man wants in a match is a woman who is independent and doesn’t need him in any way shape or form.
That being said, perhaps time apart will help you see this and help you to become an independent woman. It may also force him to look at who you really are rather than what he wanted you to be.
This reflection is good for you both. Of course if you’re trying to get over him and move on then this silence will be key to doing exactly that. You will start seeing the world differently.
Whether you’re doing this to get your Libra guy back, to figure yourself out, or to get over him; you need to get healthy. You need it emotionally, spiritually, and literally in the physical sense.
Work on self care, do exercise, work at your dreams and goals, and find time to do things like meditation or yoga. Do things that feed your soul, your mind, and your heart.
Taking excellent self care will help you to come to a conclusion whether that means letting him go entirely or just finding peace of mind so that when you do talk to him again, you can help find solutions that will work for you both.
You’ll be more willing and open to find common ground and compromise. Enjoy your new found freedom by spending time with friends or by yourself even if you do get back together with him.
Enjoy your life to the fullest and it will be easier to enjoy life with your Libra man or it will allow you to enjoy being single again. No matter which way you look at it, you’re going to win!
It’s up to you to decide which direction you’re going in. Whatever changes you make in yourself will benefit you whether you end up back with your Libra or if you walk away on a brand new path.
Embrace the silence and do great things with it!
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Wishing you all the luck of the universe
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,