Will a Libra man come back after no contact, or is his silence a sign he’s done for good? Many women lie awake at night wondering if their Libra guy will ever reach out again — because while Libra men are caring and romantic, they can also be walking contradictions.
Your Libra man might shower you with affection one moment and then disappear the next. When he goes quiet, it doesn’t always mean the relationship is over. Often, he just needs space to restore balance. Still, there are steps you can take to gently encourage him to return without chasing him away.
If we haven’t met yet, I’m Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer and author of Libra Man Secrets. For more than two decades, I’ve helped women understand the confusing signals Libra men send, and how to reconnect with them after silence. The truth is, you can get a Libra man back after no contact — when you know how to push the right romantic buttons.
1. Refresh Your Self-Care Routines
One of the first things you can do when your Libra man goes quiet is to focus on self-care. Libra men can be empathetic and sweet, yet they are also appearance-driven. If you are tired, stressed, and angry, it will show in your body language and appearance. This can be a turn off for a Libra guy not to mention being unhealthy for you!
Hit the spa, get a massage and refresh your skin care routine. Try a new hairstyle or make adjustments to your wellness habits that fulfill your body and soul and a Libra man will take note.
He’ll fall for you all over again when you change your appearance. Leaving a Libra man alone works if you take the time to improve your health and looks.
2. Pursue a Social Cause
Another way to get a Libra man to come back when he’s been quiet is to get involved in a social mission. If you delve into a cause related to improving society, your Libra man will want to be back by your side fighting for justice.
You can make a Libra man want to reconnect when you show him you are conscientious and have an innate sense of social responsibility.
Men born under this sign are turned off by women who only think about material ambitions. When you show him you are committed to giving back and helping to improve your community, you can reignite a Libra’s passion.
3. Avoid Chasing Him
One of the biggest mistakes even the smartest women make in relation to their Libra guys is to get too eager to get them back. You may be used to debating with this intellectual sign. But when a Libra man has had enough and needs space, no amount of rationalization and diplomacy will coax him out of his silence.
Instead, give him some room to breathe. Do Libra men come back after a breakup if you give them time?
Trust yourself and have faith, even when it seems like he’s being stubborn. When your Libra man hasn’t heard from you in a few days he will come back. If a man born under this sign has feelings for you still- and this indecisive sign is likely to still love you even when he’s quiet- he will want to reconnect after he’s had space for himself.
4. Surround Yourself With Friends
Don’t isolate at home when your Libra man goes quiet. Surround yourself with friends and update your social media feeds with photos out and about surrounded by admirers and loved ones.
If your Libra man is distant, don’t wait around for him to come back. Men born under this sign need balance. They feel overwhelmed if you rely on them for companionship. If a Libra man sees that you are popular and busy with numerous friends, he will feel jealous and want you back. But more importantly, he’ll feel like he’s missing out. This makes him want you back.
5. Express Yourself Through the Arts
Now that you have some time on your hands while your Libra man is sorting out his feelings, put your energy to good use. Channel your emotions and intuition and explore your artistic talents.
Delve into painting, take a drawing class, or learn a craft. Dust off the guitar and practice again, then make it known that you are being creative.
Share your interest in the humanities online and demonstrate some of your talents through the use of videos or photos on social media. You can get his attention when you explore the arts, something near and dear to the heart of a Libra guy.
6. Socialize with His Closest Friends
When your Libra guy goes quiet, catch up with your mutual friends. If you spend time with his inner circle without focusing on him, you can stay on his mind from a distance. Don’t pressure your friends to be a go-between, instead, keep the conversation light, friendly, and enjoyable.
Your friends will unknowingly do the heavy lifting for you. When they see your Libra guy again, they won’t be able to resist mentioning that they saw you and how great you looked, how many exciting things you have going on in your life, and how they think you are their perfect match…
Let your mutual friends help motivate your Libra guy when he fades into the background, but do this indirectly, don’t make it clear you have an agenda. A Libra man always comes back if his friends can’t stop talking about how much they like you.
7. Be Friendly and Compassionate
Will a Libra man always come back after a breakup? There are some secret tactics to improving your odds. If you lead with empathy and remind your Libra man you are compassionate, he won’t be able to resist your sensitive nature. You can make a Libra guy long for you if he sees that you are friendly and kind to strangers.
Remind him that you are a gentle soul with a loving and affectionate personality. If you don’t see him regularly, treat his mutual friends with kindness and warmth and they will remind him that they always thought you were a good match. With a Libra guy, politeness and loyalty go a long way, even from a distance.
When you’re in the middle of silence, it’s easy to spiral into fear and wonder will a Libra man come back after no contact or if he’s truly gone for good. The truth is, Libra men often withdraw to regain balance, but that doesn’t mean they’ve stopped caring. Many times, they just need the right spark to tip the scales back in your favor.
What to do next…
If you’re tired of guessing, my brand-new program Does He Love Me? reveals the hidden signs of true love and shows you exactly how to know if your Libra man is ready to return. And if you’ve ever wondered will a Libra man come back after no contact, this guide will give you clarity and peace of mind.
You might also find my Her Compatibility guide helpful if you want to see how your unique bond with a Libra plays out.
And my fun Astrology Attraction Quiz is a great way to uncover how men of every sign — including Libra — see you and what keeps them hooked.
Before you go, I’d love to know have you ever gone through a period of no contact with your Libra man?
Did he come back once he had space, or did his silence stretch longer than you expected?
Share your story — it might be exactly what another woman needs to hear.
With love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
