Hello my dear, and welcome to the horoscope reading for your Libra man for October. The year is racing to a climax, and you’ll be pleased to know that the transits for this particular week offer the scope for some intensity, passion, emotional connectivity, and there’s also a bit of good luck and spontaneity.
In fact, it is a rather stimulating month on a number of levels, and that’s always good for relationships because it means there’s a variety of energies that you can tap into in order to remold the relationship.ย
What’s important as well, is understanding the power basis of the relationship, tapping into the subtext, the context, the hidden motives and agendas that you and your partner have, and working with those in order to get a better result.
So often, I feel people fail in relationships because they keep on a surface, verbal level without understanding what’s really behind the facade, what’s behind the words, and what lies beneath. I feel this is a great time to uncover what lies beneath and then shift your overall perspective of the relationship to achieve relationship goals.
Hereโs what the stars have in store for a Libra Man this Octoberโฆ
New Moon in Libra – 2nd Octoberย
For a Libra man, it’s a bright and breezy start to the month because the New Moon is in Libra right up front, and it’s conjunct Mercury. The whole idea here is debate, discussions, good conversations, and brainstorming.
However, be aware that this highlights his indecisive side, so this should probably be a phase where everything is on the table in order to debate, work out compromises, and find new information, but perhaps delay final decisions until all relevant information has emerged.ย
It’s also a time when you guys should be getting out, meeting new people, hanging out with friends, and doing new activities. This ensures that you aren’t missing out, that you’re retaining a good breadth of influences in your life, and that you’re not becoming stale or bogged down.
Mercury in Libra is all about exploring options, gaining greater understanding, and seeing both sides of the story. Remember, donโt be stubborn, donโt get boxed into one side of the coinโthereโs always a flipside, so make sure you donโt miss it.
Jupiter Retrograde – 9th of October
This retrograde can be a time where he’s seeking a bit of adventure, but itโs also a time where he doesnโt know what he wants. Libra Man can be hard to please, heโs more likely to run on tangents and can be a bit of a time-waster.
If you’re dating, be careful with the Libra Man right now because he can set you up and then let you down. One moment things feel too good to be true, and the next, you feel totally abandoned and let down.
His enthusiasm tends to well up and then dissipates, or he gets an idea, goes at it, and then suddenly loses momentum as he decides to rush off in a different direction.
Similar to the New Moon and Venus in Sagittarius, this highlights his indecisive and restless nature. The way to handle this is through humor and by not allowing yourself to get on his โhot air balloon,โ because you donโt know when that air will run out.
Mercury enters Scorpio – 14th of October
When Mercury enters Scorpio it squares Pluto as it’s entering, this creates a money-oriented period, but it’s also a time when he can be quite hard-headed and stubborn.
Now is the time to start nailing down some of the options, eliminating what really doesn’t work, and narrowing things down. This is also a time when he’s serious about life and love, so itโs very important to discuss matters in your relationship.
Whether you’ve been casually dating or you’re in a more serious relationship, it’s time to be serious, show high levels of commitment, be a good listener, and make sure you show commitment to relationship goals.
It’s vital that you both get on the same page. Even if youโve been doing your own thing, now is one of those times when you really have to come together, work hard at your relationship, and understand each otherโs personalities better. The core right now is deeper levels of understanding and not looking for quick fixesโso donโt be too quick to sweep things under the carpet.
Venus enters Sagittarius – 18th of October
This placement backs up the New Moon in Libra because itโs all about versatility, fun, variety, and often short-distance travel. This may be a good time to plan a little trip away, or alternatively, go away to see friends and relatives, or have a city break.
Itโs vital that you refresh your life by not sticking to the tried and tested. Explore your options and see this as an exciting phase, like unwrapping all the possibilities. Itโs also another key phase for negotiation and coming up with solutions.
If you’re dating, this is a great time for those of you who are internet dating or in relationships where thereโs a lot of communication. Remember to explore all options for communicatingโuse emojis, memes, videos, voice calls, written emails etc. as itโs all about variety and creativity in communication.
Donโt just say, โWhat are you doing? When will we next meet up?โ Stimulate him with communication. Stimulation is absolutely important for the Libra Man.
Sun enters Scorpio – 23rd of October
This is a great time for affection and quality time together. It’s also a good time to go shopping. A Libra man values gifting as a love language, so to show your affection, give appropriate and thoughtful giftsโnot always expensive – as this excites him and shows your appreciation.
Itโs also a great time for him to shop around and add to his collections, whether itโs art or memorabilia. Take an interest in the things he aspires to collect or own.
This is a time when he can also be a little possessive, so it’s important that thereโs trust in the relationship. Give him good feedback and appear to be a good listener who values his opinions.
A Libra man likes to express himself, and if you value his opinions, he thinks you value him. So pay attention, listen when he talks, and give feedback that shows you care.
Themes for a Libra Man this October 2024โฆ
Communication is a big theme of the month, but it must be multifaceted. It has to be meaningful, reinforce trust, and show your appreciation for him.
On the other hand, it also has to excite and titillate. Communication should be creative on a sexual and affectionate level, and it must be constructive and productive.
Many important things need to be understood better, and decisions must be debated, with relevant information analyzed. So, eyes wide open, get your espressos, and make sure your mind is in the right gear this month.
Magic Motto: “Communication is the key to connection, and trust is built one conversation at a time.”
Magic Text:ย “Hey love, let’s make this month full of adventure, fun chats, and moments that excite us both! Letโs plan something spontaneous soon!”
Do
The moon waxes from the 2nd to the 17th of the month and this two-week period is perfect for new activities, dating, relationship goals and starting any new projects. After the 17th, you have to capitalize on what you have now achieved, reflect and take a grounded, more than a dynamic response.
This is a good time for renewed focus on organization, good routines and health. Service and quality is vital. A great time to address minutia and understand the important details. A good time for his medical matters and dealing with animals. A better time for dietary changes, getting fit and improving health holistically.
Avoid
This is not a good time for friends with benefits relationships, major career moves and new leadership roles. This isn’t the best waxing period for spiritual development and meditation or holistic goals.
He should steer away from idealism and fantasy and stay pragmatic and rational. Facts and evidence are important and he shouldn’t be swayed by emotions or vague feelings. His dreams can be more vivid yet disturbing. New business ventures involving music and theatre may not be successful.
Not a great time for dealing with bureaucracy or large corporations or government departments.
October 2024 Horoscope for a Libra Man (week by week)
Week 1: Pencil in Loveย
This is the week of the New Moon conjunct Mercury, and additionally, there is a grand water trine with Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Cancer, and Saturn in Pisces. This represents a great time to do practical and thoughtful things to enhance romance.
Romance is about inspiration, thoughtfulness, and compassion. Combine those three magic elements, and you have a route to his heart. He is eager to improve his sex life right now, but things have to spark his interest. So, you have to stimulate his imagination.
Itโs also important to take care of practical things like scheduling, making sure you leave enough time to cultivate romance. Donโt rush thingsโorganizing your days better is one of the biggest elements in love. Make time for love.
Week 2: New Sensation Right Now
This is a lucky week for a Libra man because the Sun in Libra trines Jupiter in Gemini, and things are going his way. Itโs an awesome time for him to take chances, particularly in his career, because Mars in Cancer also sextiles Uranus in Taurus.
Encourage him to set goals, think bigger, and use his personality and persuasive power to open doors. This is also a great time to gather momentum in your relationship.
The New Moon was all about renewing communication, and now itโs about doing exciting things that add a little sensation to your life and help you feel alive. Itโs a time for a little bit of travel or hanging out in brand-new places.
Week 3: Deeper Issuesย
Venus is in Scorpio opposite Uranus in Taurus, and the Sun is square Pluto. This can be a time of disagreements over money, or money may become a thorny issue.
Remember that money and power go hand in hand with a Libra man. If he feels heโs earning well and achieving success, he feels a sense of power, this can either boost his ego or make him a little domineering.
If heโs not getting the success he needs, he can become self-destructive. Pay attention to what’s going on beneath the surface and be sensitive to deeper issues.
Week 4: Affirm your Loveย
This week is all about being constructive and patient. Libra Man can be a little difficult to deal with; itโs hard to judge his mood. Sometimes heโs feeling confident and affectionate, and other times he goes into his shell. Try to maintain a balance.
Although Libra is the sign of balance, he can often be out of kilter. This week, heโs lacking a bit of confidence, so itโs important to affirm all the great things about him. Give him encouragement, particularly about the talents that make him unique as a person.
Summary
Youโll want to approach this month with an alert and vibrant attitude toward communication, as so much can be achieved in both new and existing relationships.
You have a wonderful opportunity to demonstrate that you are the right partner by showing him that you can not only excite and stimulate him but also support him through communication.
The message is: be a woman for all seasons in the communication department, and your relationship will thrive with a Libra man.
Make your Libra man OBSESSEDโฆ
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He will go toย extremesย to get herย attentionย and make her happy.
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But isย unableย to get hisย attention.
Whyย is that?
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Sending you much love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach