8 Biggest Libra Man Turn Offs

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Libra men don’t leave a relationship very easily. These are some of the top turn-offs that may push a Libra man to leave a great woman...

What are Libra man turn offs? Most of the time, it’s for personal reasons, but sometimes it can be about you, too. Although Libra men are the types to try to stick it out, find the best in your relationship, and make compromises, there is a line that they have to draw. So, what are some of the turn-offs that make a Libra man leave a great woman?

To learn what turns off a Libra man, you need to know that Libra is the sign of love when it comes to astrology. And, in my experience as a relationship astrologer, these men don’t leave a relationship very easily—at all. A typical Libra is willing to find a peaceful middle ground and a way that works for everyone.

Of course, there are certain turn-offs, however, that can push a Libra man over the edge. Astrology can be our helper and guide in times of a new relationship, when we are still figuring out who the person is.

However, it’s also a wonderful tool for when we have been in a long-standing relationship and need a little bit of enlightenment as to where we may be going wrong. Knowing what we know, we can get back on track, turn it around, and save our relationship from going downhill!

These are some of the top turn-offs that may push a Libra man to leave a great woman, so keep reading to find out more.

What Turns Off A Libra Man?

A Libran man really doesn’t like conflict, as he is someone who loves to keep the peace. Harmony is very important to him, and he doesn’t want to be with anyone who disrupts his peace.

This means that when the woman he dates can’t get along with his friends and family, it is usually a big red flag for him, as these connections are the most important in his life.

He is also a bit of an intellectual, and if he doesn’t feel that there is a mental connection with a woman, it makes him lose interest very quickly. He wants that spark to be there so he can have interesting conversations with her.

Here’s what turns a Libra man off:

5 Biggest Libra Man Turn Offs In A Woman

1. A Woman Who Welcomes Conflict

This is one of the biggest turn-offs for Libra man. Let’s say you are a fire sign like Aries, Sagittarius or Leo. Or perhaps you’re not one of these, but you’re still a fiery woman. Libra men, although attracted to all that passion, can struggle with a lady who isn’t afraid of conflict, and sees it as a healthy part of any relationship.

If a Libra man could have his way, there would never be any fights. That’s not realistic, of course, but he will go to great lengths to avoid confrontation. He may even pretend like there is no problem, allowing resentment to build up.

There’s nothing at all wrong with being a woman who welcomes conflict. But this may be too much of a turn-off for him. Instead, can you find a way to have a conversation and negotiate? This will deal with a problem whilst not having the intense heat that comes with arguments.

Read next: Libra Man Confused About His Feelings — Why Is He So Complicated?

2. Not Getting Along With His Friends And Family

Libra is one of the most social signs in the zodiac. They treasure their social relationships, their family relationships – all relationships, really. Of course, you are always his number one priority, but he does have other people he cares deeply about.

You may be a great woman, but perhaps you just don’t click with his friends. Maybe his friends irritate you, or you have nothing in common. And, perhaps you just don’t have energy to give to people whom you have no common interest with. That’s perfectly okay – but it may not be okay with your Libra guy.

He expects you to try, the way he does. The thing is, Libra men can struggle to understand why some people just can’t get along. Just because he gets along with everyone else, doesn’t mean that you can! Don’t be too hard on yourself – maybe try again, and do your very best to find a way to welcome his people into your life.

3. Lack Of Mental Connection

Libra is an air sign, which means that mental connection is very important to them. They love to talk, and share ideas and opinions. Most of all, Libra men love to debate. They always see both sides of a story, which is why they are called the mediators of the zodiac.

However, you may be a lady who prefers physical and emotional connection over talking all day and all night. There’s nothing wrong with you, of course. People are just built differently, needing and wanting different things. However, it can be a turn-off for a Libra man when the woman he’s interested in doesn’t want to chat and share ideas as much as he does.

Here’s how to tell if a Libra man is not into you <<

4. A Woman Who Doesn’t Care For Her Looks

Here’s the thing: Libra men really, really care about looks. They are ruled by the planet Venus, which is the planet of beauty, harmony and creativity. He may be low-key about it, or very obvious. He likes his ladies to be wearing beautiful things, and have impeccable makeup and a good perfume.

Even if he’s not a makeup man, he still expects you to take care of yourself and groom regularly. And, maybe, you’re just not that kind of girl! Maybe you prefer getting up in the morning and throwing on some comfortable sweatpants and a cute t-shirt. Sadly, that won’t fly with a Libra guy, and he’s likely to find it a bit of a turn-off, in all honesty.

Learn more about what kind of women do Libra men like <<

5. An Unwillingness To Compromise

One of the biggest turn-offs for a Libra man is a woman who isn’t willing to compromise or find the middle ground with him. Compromise is a tricky thing – some say it’s the key ingredient, and some say that you should never compromise on certain things, if at all.

Libra, however, takes the former stance. This is the sign of balance, after all! However, you may be the type of woman that feels it necessary not to do that. Maybe there are certain values, beliefs or other topics that you hold so dear that you’ll just never give ground.

This doesn’t make you a bad person – and it doesn’t make him a bad person for doing the opposite, either. But it can cause issues in your relationship, and ultimately, it may be too much of a turn-off for your Libra fella.

Can you try and find certain things to compromise on? Are there any topics where you are willing to give way? Perhaps the real deal to make here is that you will compromise some of the time (there is always a way when it comes to love!). 

Remember, never to feel bad about yourself if you can’t live up to Libra standards! Always keep in mind that their standards are really high, and it can be impossible for any lady to be perfect. And remind your Libra fella of that too, regularly! This will help him to also relax and not put too much pressure on the relationship itself.

If your relationship is still in its early stages, try not to pretend you are something that you are not. Hiding, for example, an assertive personality will only come back to haunt you in the long run!

Things That Turn A Libra Man Off In Bed

6. A Woman Who Is Dominant In Bed

In the bedroom, a Libra man is very romantic, and he dislikes an aggressive and dominant woman. He is a cuddling type who loves foreplay; any aggressive behavior is a huge turn-off for him.

A Libra man likes a feminine woman who is sensible and carries her sensibility in a very subtle way. A woman who is loud and doesn’t articulate her behavior easily turns him off. Any woman who exercises power and control over him in the bedroom will not capture a Libra man’s heart.

A Libra man considers this behavior unhealthy, and not respecting his boundaries about love and intimacy is not something he clicks with.

If you want some hot and playful moves to excite him and drive him crazy in bed, make sure you get my 27 Dirty Phrases for Libra Man. You’ll thank me later, girl!

7. A Woman Who Avoids Foreplay

When in bed, a Libra man is not in a hurry. He wants to take things slow. If his lady has a lack of desire for sex and therefore wants to get things done fast, her Libra man will lose interest in her.

If foreplay is uncomfortable for her, that usually indicates a clear sign that she is not in the mood for sex, which can make her Libra man feel rejected and unwanted.

She needs to be comfortable communicating her sexual needs to her Libra partner. The very first thing I want to mention when it comes to a Libra man and his sexuality is communication. You cannot sleep with him without being open and honest. You’ve got to tell him how you really feel.

While it may feel uncomfortable to tell him that you’re not into foreplay, otherwise he won’t know, and he’ll keep going at it as though nothing is wrong, and you will be put off, and eventually he will be put off as well.

8. When He Feels Unwanted

A Libra man wants to be wanted. That’s the bottom line. You can certainly show him in other ways other than sexually that you find him desirable, loveable, and someone you want to spend your life with.

If you don’t tell him that, he won’t read between the lines and could potentially feel unwanted and undesired by you, which is also a huge turn-off for a Libra man.

If you fail to tell him he’s amazing in the sack and you love being with him intimately, he will not be able to satisfy your needs and may feel you are acting repulsive toward him. He will not understand these signs and will not be aiming to please you.

Is Being Too Available A Turn Off For A Libra Man?

In order to answer this question, I cannot emphasize enough that a Libra man is unlike any other man. He is in touch with his feminine side, and he can be very emotional.

Libra men can occasionally be needy and need a lot of affection and attention. This is why when a woman is too available, it doesn’t really bother the Libra man that much. In fact, he probably enjoys it a fair bit.

He needs a woman who can keep the peace and tell him how she feels without being too emotional about it. He won’t mind her availability as long as she is not clingy.

This is why it is very important to really know and understand your Libra man, and you need to know when it is the best time to give him some space and let him come to you.

Read next: How To Make A Libra Man Miss You Like Crazy

How To Get A Libra Man Turned On Again

The Libra man himself is very witty and intelligent. He won’t relate well to a woman who does not possess these qualities. He wants to be able to hold conversations that are deep and lasting.

He’ll also want to be able to make a woman laugh. It would really be nice if she could make him laugh too. A couple that can laugh together is one that will succeed against rough odds.

To impress him, show him how smart, independent, and funny you are. He’ll love it and want to get to know you more. There is nothing more attractive than a woman who has confidence and is quite humorous.

Also, he wants to feel important in your life. Tell him that he is important and how much you appreciate him. He will be delighted! He wants a woman who is independent but appreciates what he does for and with her.

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xoxo, Anna


P.S. Not all men are turned on by the same things. 

You need to see EXACTLY what turns your Libra man on based on his specific astrology. 

If you use the same approach with a Libra as you’d use with a Gemini, he could get up and leave instead of getting all hot and bothered.

Don’t make that mistake! 

See the SPECIFIC things YOUR man craves here now. 

About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.