You’ve had to end the relationship with the Libra you were with. It was probably heavenly while it lasted, but at a certain point, someone lost steam or had different priorities. This is typical, but still hurts when it happens.
There was so much about the Libra that you might have loved. They have that effect on people. So how do you get over this guy who had your heart now that it is all over?
Well, astrology can give us some clues when it comes to how to cope with losses like this. Keep reading for my advice, as a Relationship Astrologer, on how to get over a heartbreak like losing your Libra guy.
5 Steps for Getting Over a Libra Man
1. Practice Self Love
A Libra is one of the most caring people in a relationship of the whole Zodiac. They live for relationships, and a Libra feels most themselves when they are involved in a relationship.
As a result, you likely felt so loved and special with him. He made you feel good so effortlessly. This feeling is so addictive that you likely now are really struggling not having someone there to love you like that.
So, what does one do when the emotional rug is pulled out from beneath your feet unexpectedly? Where do you get that love now?
In times like these, I have found that the best solution is to love yourself more than you ever loved your ex. This fills the void even better than he ever would have in the first place.
This is why I urge you to do whatever it takes to feel love for yourself. I suggest journaling about what you love about yourself, using positive affirmations, and investing time in doing what you love.
2. Treat Yourself
A Libra man is typically conscious of the stress levels of his partner. He needed peaceful feelings to get along in the relationship and so he likely went out of his way to get you feeling good.
Since this is an aspect you may be missing now, it is important to meet this need in a new, healthy way.
This is why I suggest making yourself and your needs your new priority. Hopefully you are working on cultivating better emotions about yourself, but you should also be putting it into action.
So, make sure that you are spending time and money on yourself in order to not feel deprived.
Go take yourself out to nice dinners, take yourself to a movie, go get a facial or a manicure. Whatever is going to keep you feeling pampered and appreciated is what you need to be doing for yourself.
3. Dress Up For Yourself
Libras are extremely aesthetically preoccupied; this is a well-known fact. Their ruling planet, Venus, has a lot to do with all that is beautiful and this rubs off onto Libra.
They likely enjoyed seeing you dressing your best and having your makeup looking gorgeous and hair done up.
Now that they are not here, it can feel like there is not a point to trying to look good anymore. You may ask yourself, what’s the point?
I’m here to tell you that there is a point, and it is to prove to yourself that this was never about making him find you attractive. This is now all about looking good for yourself.
I’m telling you that this is now the time to buy outfits because you think they are beautiful, not because he did. Put makeup on because it makes you feel like a million bucks. And do your hair beautifully, just because you like it that way.
This is your permission slip to be as bold and beautiful alone as you felt in the relationship.
4. Be Honest About Your Feelings
Libras, as sweet as they can be, have their downsides. They are so into being peaceful that they can have a lot of issues bringing up problems that are glaring.
I’m sure that you noticed this when you were with him. He was huge on coasting along and pretending that things are okay even if they aren’t.
This is by far one of the most infuriating things about a Libra. They are simply so nonconfrontational that their problems grow and grow until it is too late to do anything about it.
This in fact may have been why you too ended things. As a Relationship Astrologer, I can see It happening. My good advice to you is to give yourself permission to be deeply honest with yourself about your feelings.
If you are enraged, then be honest about that and really feel that rage.
If you are devastated, then deeply feel that devastation until there is no more of it left in you.
If you are sad, then be as sad as you need to be.
I have found that it never does any good to deny your emotions. You may have felt obligated to put on the façade that you felt okay in the relationship even if you weren’t feeling okay.
So, take my prior advice as well and take up journaling! This is going to assist in processing some of these emotions that you’re feeling.
More than anything, just make sure that you are being forthcoming with yourself on what you’re feeling. You don’t have to feel any specific emotion unless it is genuinely your own.
5. Do Not Seek A New Partner Right Away
Because you were likely so invested in your Libra ex (you wouldn’t be reading this article if you weren’t struggling), I have to urge you to take my advice and really feel through these emotions.
I say this because it is of the utmost importance to ensure that you are fully healed from this loss before pursuing a new relationship.
This is a key step to making sure that any future love interests get to see the best side of you and not just the remnants of who you were when the Libra left you.
So, take your time and really take care of your own needs first. I know that the temptation to hop right into another relationship to numb the pain is very real, but you need to stay strong and heal on your own first.
This is some tough love advice from someone who has seen how these things work. I hope with all my heart that you heal from this, love.
Have you broken up with a Libra? How did you forget him and move on?
Wishing you all the love in the Universe,