9 Questions To Ask A Libra Man

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
It’s not hard to fall for a Libra man – he’s all about commitment, compromise, sharing, and pleasure! However, you might be wondering what questions to ask a Libra man to get him all yours.

Questions to ask a Libra man are not hard to choose. When it comes to astrology, this sign is all about commitment, compromise, sharing, and pleasure! It’s not hard to get him to fall in love – he’s built for love!

However, this is a man in demand, so how can you get his heart to be all yours? How can you make sure he sticks around? Asking the right questions can be one way to get a Libra man’s heart to melt. So, here are some of the best ones gathered from my years of experience as a relationship astrologer. 

Just one tip before you dive in: remember that Libra is an air Zodiac sign, so they love to talk. Any good quality conversation will get right into his heart. Choose your words wisely and show him how smart you are!

Keep reading to learn about questions to ask a Libra man…

First Things First, What Do Libra Men Like To Talk About?

A Libra man likes meaningful and deep conversations. When he’s interested, he’ll want to talk to you all of the time, and when he is free, he will try to see you as often as he possibly can, so choose your topics wisely. It can be just about anything; he will have a say in whatever you bring on!

Libras surely have one of the most specific love languages of the zodiac, and you’ll need some time to get around it and understand it completely. 

However, when he feels a real and genuine connection with a woman, it is often a lot easier for him to break down his facade and be a little deeper and a lot more real.

This is when the Libra man will take a much greater interest in your life, as he really figures out who you are and what makes you tick. He will want that deeper connection with you, and he knows he needs to let his guard down to create it. 

He will share genuine interest in your passions and who you are at your core, and he will remember certain things about you, so he will want to talk about you, your life, your hopes, and your dreams.

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Ask Him What He Likes In A Woman

Suppose you are still wondering what to talk about with a Libra man. And without a doubt, it has to be her intelligence. But, instead of guessing his preferences in women, the best way would be to simply ask him. The sexiest part of a woman is her brain, according to Libra men. 

Women who are able to communicate clearly without too much mystery are easy for a Libra man to deal with, as they find emotional vagueness confusing. Just be straightforward with your Libra man. He’ll appreciate it!

Just remember that talking is a surefire way to the heart of a Libra man. He’s one of those guys who loves establishing a mental connection before a physical one, though he has no problem in the sensual world, either!

Here’s more about what Libra man likes and dislikes in a woman.

Ask Him What He Wants In A Relationship

This is one man who you don’t have to be shy with. His favorite thing is relationships, after all. He loves to talk about and think about love, and he’s the type of guy who will be open to talking about what he wants from his ideal romantic situation. 

Go ahead – ask him what his perfect relationship looks like. His perfect woman, the perfect date. What he values in love and what he most desires. Just talking about it will set his heart on fire, and it will help to figure out if you’re a good match. It’s a win-win! 

Ask Him What He Prefers: Kissing Or Hugging

For the record, Libra men are the best kissers of the zodiac and this topic will raise his interest. Libra doesn’t want a sloppy or fast kiss and there is an opportunity to elaborate about this topic.

Also, hugging sometimes goes without saying, but kisses and hugs are not to be done in public. Libra will enjoy the topic, especially if he likes you and you are already making a step toward him and he will recognize it.

Don’t be shy, just ask about these preferences. I believe he will be amazed by the question. Libra likes to commemorate special occasions with a kiss and hugs just follow up.

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Ask Him About His Education

First of all, this is one of the important questions to ask a Libra man. It will clearly show that you are an educated person yourself, which will be a huge turn-on in his mind, but more than this, your question will delight him.

In those moments, you could even think that your conversation moved away from romance to a business meeting, but you’ll be wrong for sure. He will now think highly of you, not just because you possess some high intellectual traits, but also because you think carefully about your future, which can become his future soon.

No matter what type of career he is involved with, he will always be into those financial issues, carefully planning and creating strategies, even if he doesn’t possess wealth right now.

If he’s not doing this or he is not even interested in these types of subjects, then you will know for sure that you are dealing with the immature type of a Libra man or someone who is not capable of taking care of his future family.

Ask Him About His Close Friends 

All relationships are important to the Libra man – not just his romantic ones. It’s likely he has a few very close friends amongst his greater social circle. He’ll love that you’re asking who they are and what the friendship is based on. 

Of course, share about your friends too, and tell him why they mean so much to you. Discussing your closest relationships will bring that warm and fuzzy feeling to you both! 

A Libra man does have a couple of flaws, and one of them is the fact that he can be pretty surface-level at times. It can be quite difficult for him to go very deep with people.

However, when he feels a real and genuine connection with a woman, it is often a lot easier for him to break down his facade and be a little deeper and a lot more real.

Take a much greater interest in his friends and see why they are a significant part of his life. He will want that deeper connection with you, and he knows he needs to let his guard down to create it. 

Ask more questions about people around him, and he will express genuine interest in being a part of your life.

Ask Him For Help With A Decision

Although Libra guys are sometimes a bit useless at making decisions for themselves, they can be amazing at helping you to make a decision. Plus, they get to feel important and needed in your life, which can only open up more opportunities for a closer connection. 

Find something that has been bugging you, that you may not have been able to see clearly on. Bring it up with your Libra crush and ask him to help you explore the options that you have. Guaranteed, he will help you make an excellent decision.  This is another win-win situation for you both!

Flirting with him, talking about all relationships – including friendships, asking him about his creative inspirations, having him help you solve a problem, and having a friendly debate are all excellent questions and ways to get him to fall a little deeper in love with you! 

Remember, most Libra men just love to talk, anyway, so it’s not hard to get close. Don’t be scared to show him how sharp-minded you are, as he thrives on a strong mental connection. 

Keep things as light and fluffy as possible. Libra men don’t like any kind of unpleasantness or confrontational vibes, and he doesn’t go deep unless you are very close! He wants beauty and harmony in his life and will go out of his way to avoid the opposite. 

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Ask Him About Love And Trust

To tell the honest truth, a Libra just loves to talk. They can talk about anything under the sun, given half the chance. They really enjoy picking your brain and developing a strong intellectual connection. In fact, as much as they are visually turned on, they are mentally turned on – if not more so! 

If you’re the type of girl that they feel they can hold a stimulating conversation about love and trust and what trust means to you,  his heart will be yours in no time at all. He wants to know that you’re smart and able to hold your own when it comes to the realm of the mind.

Trust is a very essential component in Libra man’s life. He is looking for balance and harmony in the relationship and he will not be able to form close bonds with you if he is not able to trust you. 

So just pick a topic about what love means to you and flow with it. He will easily pick up what you’re putting down. Easy as that! 

Ask Him About Dancing

This is another surprise coming from your mouth and now he will probably be in shock and thinking that you must be one of a kind when you can read his mind and soul so easily. Here, with a Libra man, you can’t find the latest hip hop bands, loud parties, and easy girls. Everything has to be golden, old, and with style.

Ballroom dancing is in fact, the best fun he could ever imagine in his life because all the steps are done according to the dancing protocols, everybody is dressed appropriately and manners are considered as a social must. He feels safe in this kind of environment and more than just this, he feels great while waltzing or dancing the Foxtrot.

9. Ask Him About His Creative Side In Relationships

Being ruled by the creative planet Venus, most Libra men have a very artistic and creative side to them. They love beauty in all shapes and art forms, and some of them may even collect art. 

So, go ahead and find out what their favorite art pieces may be and how would bring them closer to their lady love. Who their favorite artists are – music or otherwise. If he loves having common interests in relationships.  Discuss the latest pop culture and find out if they do any artistic work themselves. There’s nothing to get the juices flowing and the heart pounding like discussing pretty things with a tasteful Libra man! 

All Libras love a good debate. They are masters at seeing both sides of a story, and you’ll find their ideas incredibly stimulating. They really enjoy the back and forth of banter, and they’ll just love a woman who can keep up with their sharp minds! 

Find a topic – any topic, no matter how triggering – and watch how the diplomatic Libra man artfully disarms the tension and provides a stimulating, thought-provoking conversation. 

What NOT To Ask A Libra Man

One of the best things you can do to get a Libra man to fall for you is to simply allow him to talk and ask you questions. Be open and honest with him, and don’t be scared to tell him if you’re unsure about anything. 

However, there are certain questions you need to avoid, such as asking him about his ex for instance. Libra men have a dry sense of humor, and they love facts.

Do your research before engaging with these men, and don’t try to talk to them about romance novels, TV soap operas, or stuff you heard on Facebook. If you seem shallow and uninformed, he will write you off and move on.

Also, don’t ask him why he is so slow or if he ever joined a fight. He hates gossiping and any questions related to his indecisiveness should be avoided. With some signs, it’s wisest to dole out information slowly so they don’t lose interest. Not so with Libra! Don’t be shy about sharing with this guy. He loves chatting, and once he gets going, he makes for a great conversational partner!

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If You Listen To Dating Coaches, You Can Lose Your Libra Man Forever…

Over the years, I’ve had a lot of my clients send me advice they got from dating coaches. They wanted to know if it would work with their Libra man.

And I literally wanted to scream with frustration.


Because most dating advice definitely will NOT work if you use it with a Libra.

You see, Libra men are VERY different from men of other signs. And if you use standard dating advice with Libra, it can backfire. He might disappear forever and you’ll never hear from him again.

I don’t want that to happen to you. Especially when it is SO easy to draw him to you and get him to connect deeply with your heart.

You just need to know the specific phrases to tell him <<

So he’ll NEVER want to lose you. He’ll be wrapped around your finger… And it won’t take him long to put a ring on that finger either.

These phrases are the EXACT thing you need to turn everything around with him.

So… for heaven’s sake… DON’T listen to normal dating coaches! They give out the same advice for ALL men… which is absolutely insane.

Because your wonderful Libra is NOT like other men… at ALL.

Click here to find out the specific things your Libra man needs to hear to melt his heart <<

Sending you love, 

Your sister and relationship astrologer,

Anna Kovach

About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.