Dating A Libra Man – How To Get His Attention And Win Him Over

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
How do you make yourself more attractive to the Libra man? You may want to keep reading to find out some important secrets on how to date a Libra man.

Dating a Libra man can be super fun, but there is nothing more painful than when it feels like he is only half-interested. So how do you get a Libra man’s attention? And how can you win a Libra man over if he doesn’t really seem that keen?

Well, it is definitely way less intimidating or difficult than you might think. Libra men are romantics; they love love, and really enjoy being in a relationship with a woman. Experiencing life through someone else’s eyes is everything a Libra man could ever want.

So how can you change a Libra man’s mind and make him see how worthy you actually are? Keep on reading to find out some of my very useful tips and tricks on how to get a Libra man’s attention.

How To Attract The Libra Man

There is more to attracting a Libra man than just the initial lure. You’ve got to do things that will keep his interest growing and want to get to know you better. How do you do that? Here are some things to keep in mind:

  • Look your best when you’re going to meet up with him. You always want to look like you’re going somewhere important or that you might bump into someone important. That impresses him!
  • Capture his attention with your beauty and sense of warmth. The Libra man loves a woman who looks amazing and acts very charming toward him.
  • Give him nice compliments. It doesn’t matter if it’s on his looks, talents, humor, laugh, smile, or anything else you can think of. He’ll be like an attention sponge with you.
  • Flirtation goes a long way with Libra. Naturally, the Libra guy wants you to flirt with him. It makes him feel alive and sexy. It makes him feel desired by you.
  • Physical contact is important. Simple gestures such as touching or massaging his hand will work. Make eye contact while you talk to him as well. He will feel your desire for him which will turn him on.
  • Invite him to do something you know he likes. Even if you’re only on a friend level so far, invite him out to do something that you know he’ll enjoy. It will impress him that you’ve paid attention to him.

These are all very easy ways you can work toward getting him to find more interest in you. It may take a bit of time but if you’re patient, it should pay off unless he just really has no interest at all. Hopefully, he does and takes the hint.

What Libra Man Looks For In A Woman

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To know how to act or how to be, you probably need to know what exactly the Libra man is looking for in a woman. He does have picky desires but if you know what they are, you may win this battle!

The Libra man has specific desires and so he’s trying to find that one woman that will fulfill those for him and will keep him happy. He’s high maintenance so it’s a hard task.

When I say high maintenance, I mainly mean emotionally. He needs attention and desire otherwise he fades into the background. He may even disappear if he’s not getting his daily nutrients of your love.

Here are some of the most important qualities that the Libra man is looking for in the partner of his dreams:

  • Intelligence and class – A woman with a brain that can outwit many will turn him on. She should be well educated and worldly. She should also be very classy with her behavior and style of dress.
  • Mystery and allure – A Libra man wants a woman he can learn about over time. It’s more exciting for him to not know everything about her upfront. Her allure will come from her being someone he can’t easily read.
  • Generous compliments – The Libra guy desires to have a partner who will always shower him with adoration for who he is and what he is able to do. He wants a woman who is giving in all ways to suit his desire.
  • A calm temperament – The Libra man needs and wants a woman who will discuss her discord in a peaceful and benign way. Talk to him with rationale and calmness.
  • Low stress and low key – A Libra man does well with a woman who won’t try to outshine him or steal his spotlight. He needs a woman who doesn’t stress him out and also doesn’t allow stress to eat her alive either.
  • Romance and maturity – Sometimes Libra men will go for older women who have it all together because they know how to be romantic and they’re certainly mature.
  • Patience and honesty – No one likes to be lied to, and the Libra man is no different. Speak up if you have a problem but do it with patience instead of flooding him with strong emotion. Rationale works far better.

These are some of the things that the Libra man is looking for in a woman. I mentioned maturity and romance; younger women know how to romance or can learn. Maturity is something that comes with each individual person.

He doesn’t always go for an older woman. He loves beauty and youth too. The thing is, he may find that when the woman he chose because of her looks ends up being immature and not what he’s looking for.

His shallow side wants to go for younger beautiful women because they’re eye candy that pleases him. They’re sexy and make him look good. When he wants to settle down though, he needs more than looks and sexuality.

It may take him a while to figure that out. This is why patience is something he has to have when he’s developing a love relationship, otherwise, it may bite him in the rear.

How To Flirt With A Libra Man

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There are some very useful and practical tools you need to know when flirting with a Libra man. He’s a charmer and loves to use wit to express his attraction to a woman. So, a lady who can get his mind racing is perfect for him.

Here are some of the many ways you can flirt with a Libra man to get his attention:

  • It’s all in the eyes – Libra men love to flirt, especially with a woman who is super confident and comfortable in her own skin. When you see a Libra man that you like, be sure to look him straight in the eyes and give him a smile. This will make him realize that you’re interested and give him the guts to come pursue you.
  • Be a little silly – Libra men have a very good sense of humor. They love to have a good time and be with people who have positive energy. This is why they adore it when a woman is relaxed and can laugh at herself. Make jokes with him and let him see that you don’t take yourself too seriously.
  • Give him a compliment – Libra men tend to be a little vain. What other people think of them is super important. They like to feel validated and get attention from people, especially women. You should definitely compliment your Libra man if you are trying to flirt with him to make him feel good about himself. He’ll associate you with positive feelings.

What Not To Do With A Libra Man

There are some very important things that you need to keep in mind when you tangle with a Libra man. You need to understand what he doesn’t like and won’t put up with so that you don’t make those mistakes.

I have a few things to share with you that just may help you get the gist of what is unacceptable to the Libra man’s desires. They can help you save some trouble for your future with him.

Here are some things you don’t want to do if you’re trying to win your Libra man:

  • An out-of-control temper – Do not ever approach your Libra man in anger or with an extreme emotional outburst of energy. He will not listen and he will not absorb what you are telling him. Wait until you’re calm before you discuss things.
  • Push or pressure him – The Libra man responds very badly to pressure. He will back off or become very cold if you do. That’s the last thing you want. Take your time and be patient.
  • Pretend you don’t care – It’s never a wise idea to act like what he’s done or said doesn’t bother you. It will make him think you don’t care for him and ultimately, it will cause him to leave the relationship.
  • Suggestions or criticisms – The Libra man has his own way of doing things and even if you suggest something for his benefit, he’ll see it as criticism which will cause him to hold a grudge, only to later come out in a very unsavory fashion.
  • Bouts of jealousy or possessiveness – Libra men themselves aren’t typically jealous or possessive. They think you should be free even when you’re in a relationship. If you accuse him of anything, he will resent you. Treat him like an object and he will probably walk away.

These are some very basic things that you really should try to avoid if you’re working on building a strong baseline with your Libra guy. If you avoid them then maybe he’ll become more interested and possibly even fall in love with you.

Read next: Libra Man Traits – Get to Know Him Better than Himself


Libra men are so sexy and this is why they are so sought after. They make really good partners and are fantastic at relationships. Any woman who has ever been in a relationship with a Libra man can attest to this. He loves love – all he needs is a little bit of encouragement and a push and it should be easy to win him over.

Making a Libra man fall in love with you is pretty simple.

He is a straightforward guy who loves to be loved.

Being with a Libra man can be a totally new experience, he is so calm and loving and very attentive.

You have probably never felt like this about anyone!

This man speaks to your soul, and you feel such a deep connection with him.

These men are some of the most desirable in the whole Zodiac.

He is sexy, smart, and incredibly devoted.

So, it makes sense why you are so drawn to your Libra man.

He makes you feel like the most amazing woman in the world!

However, things seem to be going askew with the two of you…

But how can you know what went wrong?

What did you do?

There is so much to uncover when you make your Libra man angry…

It is like he becomes a different person, totally unwilling to forgive you…

It is crucial that you understand what you need to avoid so that you don’t make your Libra man angry…

You love him so much, and this is the last thing you wanted to happen…

It is such a pity that recently it seems like he is trying to actively avoid you…

You once thought he was in love with you, but suddenly he is acting all strange…

Whenever you reach out and try to speak to him you are met with silence or short replies…

The faster he pulls away the more it just breaks your heart…

You just can’t seem to understand why your Libra man keeps ignoring you!

You are sure that you didn’t do something wrong…

And when you ask him, he says it is nothing…

But you know deep down in your gut that this just isn’t true…

Why can’t he just be honest with you so that you can fix it?

He is pulling away, and you know it…

If only there was something you could do to repair the relationship to its former glory…

You would do anything in the world to have your Libra man look at you the way he once did…

You love him with all your heart and you want to fix what is broken…

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There are definitely ways that you can turn all of this around and make your Libra man putty in your hands.

However, you need to be ready to commit to this change because once it has been made, then there is no going back.

There is so much you still have to learn about Libra men and the way they respond to love and romance.

And you deserve to know this information because it can be invaluable in the way you show up in your relationships.

The relationship you have always wanted is at your fingertips…

It just depends on you if you are ready to reach out and grab it!

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Wishing you so much love and happiness.

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.