Are you really in deep when it comes to a Libra guy? He’s charmed himself into your life, but now what do you do? You want to get closer but you are afraid you’ll chase him off.
Well, I have got some really interesting information for you when it comes to drawing in a Libra man for good. Keep reading to learn exactly how to blossom a relationship with a Libra man into a full-fledged love.
Invite Him To Fun Group Activities
If you’re only seeing or talking to a Libra man rather than a serious relationship, you should invite him to do fun things with your friends or mutual friends.
Many Libra men are quite social and love doing things with a group of friends. Doing this shows him that you’re totally alright with being in this type of setting. This works in your favor!
If there is an activity that you know he likes, try to lean it more toward that. Ask his friends, your friends, and set up a fun time going tubing down a river or fishing.
You have so many options and activities that will allow you to be in your element around your friends and that shows him the real you in the safety of having others around.
He loves to see you laugh and having a great time with those that know you best. Doing it with his friends invited just adds extra points for you. He will think of how considerate you’re being.
Surely you can squeeze in some one-on-one time with him at some point during the outing. Camping would definitely make it easier to do that as well, so it’s something to keep in mind!
Use Your Creativity To Impress Him
If you are the artistic type, then you should definitely share that about you. Whether you’re a writer, painter, sketcher, tattooist, or musician, he wants to see this!
He loves a woman who is creative enough to live her life with passion and beauty. He’s one that loves beauty in all forms. You can even make him something.
Libra man will be completely flattered and floored if you write him a poem, paint him a picture, or use your other talented gifts. He will be impressed and will want more.
Any form of artwork to express yourself turns him on. Yes, I’m serious! Artwork shows your passion and desire that resides inside you.
When he looks at the things you can do or the music you can make, he will feel moved which essentially feeds his soul. To do that is to win over a Libra man’s love.
Adoration Is The Key To The Libra Man’s Heart
The Libra man wants to be with someone who lifts him up and makes him feel good about himself. He needs inspiration and someone who can inspire him. This helps when you’re trying to figure out how to blossom a relationship with a Libra man.
Libra man wants to hear you whisper sweet nothing in his ear. This is especially true when the things you say are about him. Open up the can of compliments.
Tell him how handsome he looks. He loves “classic” love. He’s old fashioned so that means you need to try to court him.
Yes, I’m aware that it’s normally the man that does the courting, but with a Libra, things are a little different. He needs a woman to take charge so that he knows she really does love him.
Try to dazzle him by staring straight in his eyes when you talk to him. He needs to feel he’s your focus when he’s spending time with you. You may even catch him blushing when you do this!
And that’s a good thing! It will make him feel like a giddy school boy. Don’t do it too much though, because an excess may come off as a little creepy.
You just need to show him you want him and that in the moment, he’s what is important to you. Libra men want to feel desired and appreciated. You can do this with your “come hither” stare.
Show Confidence & Independence
You’ve probably heard the phrase “desperation is a stinky cologne” right? Well, it’s also true that confidence and independences is very alluring for a man; especially a Libra!
Self worth falls into this category. A woman who is taking care of business, passionate about her life and her goals are what is incredibly sexy to a Libra. He’s awestruck and inspired by you.
To do this, you’ve got to keep the drive for your passions up. Don’t drop the ball because you’re desperate to spend time with him. That will throw him off and cause issues for you.
Being busy is something he’ll enjoy from you. Don’t always have time for him. If you sit around waiting on him, you’re going to get hurt. He isn’t the kind of guy that likes that type of relationship.
The Libra man is independent and wants a partner who doesn’t rely on him for entertainment or life. Keep your friends, keep enjoying things with other people, keep working hard.
Trust me when I tell you that when you keep your life busy as it was before you met him, he’ll be far more impressed with you than if you start slowing down. He doesn’t want you to be at his beck and call. He’s not that type of guy.
Show him you don’t need him but you want him, and you’d like to have him as a priority in your life but not the only priority. This is definitely important when you’re learning how to make a relationship blossom with a Libra man.
Read next: 7 Signs Libra Man Wants To Commit To You
Take Your Time, No Pressure
Libra men do not like to be pressured. It’s really a good idea for you to just take it nice and easy. Take each day as it comes. Try not to plan too far in advanced with plans.
If you want to do stuff with him, give him at least a week or two notice. I say this because Libra men are living a somewhat “scheduled” life. They actually do make lists and keep calendars.
No, I’m not kidding. If not a calendar then they are using an organizer. They have to in order to make sure they don’t miss anything. They’re sticklers when it comes to this.
It’s better to try to get scheduled in with him than to try to push him into being spontaneous. Spontaneity isn’t a big one with Libra man. He can do it, but not very often.
He likes surprises but not if it’s going throw his schedule off. Please respect his need for scheduling. If you cannot then he may think you’re not the right one for him.
If you do respect it, you can go so much further. Sometimes his being busy puts you on the back burner for a couple weeks but if you can wait him out, you’ll find he takes you on very sweet dates.
Pressuring him to get more serious will cause him to clam up. He needs time to sort through his feelings and figure out if you’re the one for him. He cannot do that in a short time span.
Take it slow, take it easy, and make sure you ask him to pencil you in. He’ll chuckle about it but he will also do what you’ve asked. Give it a try and watch how you improve your relationship in no time!
Talk To Him About Your Relationship Goals
It is not wrong to tell him that you’d like to develop into something more in time. If you put it in that way, he’ll be more open to listen and consider what you have suggested.
If you don’t talk to him, he will keep you confused. He isn’t doing it on purpose, but most of the time he’s confused as well. He’s indecisive and may have a hard time choosing.
To ease this burden for your Libra man, take caution in how you talk to him. You need to let him know you’d like to form a stronger bond. If you say it logically like that, you’ll receive better results!
He will tell you what he’s up for and what he needs more time with. He loves it if you come at him with logic than talking to him when you’re emotional. He doesn’t deal too well with emotional situations.
As difficult as it may seem, you have to stay on the same page with him. If he says he wants to get to know you more then perhaps after awhile you can ask for exclusivity while you wait.
If he isn’t talking to anyone else then he may actually agree to this. This will help ease the worry that he is talking to someone else. Libra isn’t good at juggling.
Again, tell him what you want but keep it low key. This is how you get a relationship to blossom with a Libra man.
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Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,
This is so true.
My Libra guy can be confusing but he is a mixture of sweet, reticent, chatty & withdrawn all at the same time.
I am very much in love with him. 9 months now. At times I am uncertain how he feels…
You have done a detailed reading for me in September. I will get you to do another one in January.
Thank you Anna! Merry Christmas!
I love your insight on the Libra man! I am in love with a Libra man. I am a Gemini woman, and this is the best relationship I have ever been in. He is romantic, sweet, fun and thoughtful. We have so much in common it is scary. He has been very upfront from the beginning that he wants a committed relationship from me. I have been the one that stands back a little bit. He has not been confusing at all!
Hi Laura Templet!
How wonderful! I am so glad to hear that things are going so well between you and your Libra man. If you’ve found the recipe for success then keep going with it so that it stays that way. If you ever need anymore tips, please check out my guides on Libra Man Secrets. I wish you all the best!