Libra men are the lovers of the Zodiac! These romantic spirits just adore being in a relationship and getting closer to a woman. But what are the signs a Libra man is falling in love with you? The thing is, you might not be able to tell how he feels because he is so charming and flirtatious. What if he’s just being friendly?
Libra men are shy – so you won’t often get one of them to be direct about their feelings. This is because they prefer a passive approach when it comes to love and dating. So, how exactly can you be sure that a Libra man is falling in love with you?
It isn’t always simple, but there are definitely some tell-tale signs that a Libra man is in love. Be sure to continue reading to find out what you can expect from a Libra man’s behavior when he is in love!
Libra Man In Love — How Does He Act When In Love?
You may ask first, “Why is the Libra man shy around me?” That’s just how he is when he really likes someone. The signs of a Libra man in love are actually pretty visible if you’re paying attention.
When the Libra man falls in love, he acts as though he’s a young schoolboy. He has a hard time talking, he’s nervous and even shy. When he likes someone, he’s a bit more laid back. When he’s falling in love, he’s more bashful.
He will appear nervous and not sure of what he should do. When he looks you in the eye, you’ll see something you wouldn’t notice otherwise. He has this “I’m going to melt” type of look.
This look he gives is undeniable. He is in love and his eyes will reflect it. If he hasn’t said it yet but gives you this look like he’s a boy that’s madly in love… trust it. He is there! Just give him some time to open up and tell you.
When a Libra man feels safe enough with you, he will tell you that he loves you. In the meantime, he’s going to act like a giddy schoolboy. It’s the most adorable thing you will ever see.
When a man looks like a young boy who is going gaga over a woman, it’s pretty darned cute. You’ll find it irresistible and you’ll know for sure what you’re dealing with. Just look into his eyes and see how he responds.
Now you’ll be able to tell your friends your Libra man is shy around me because… They’ll think it’s absolutely adorable! The signs of a Libra man in love are easy to look for and feel.
11 Clear Signs A Libra Man Is Falling In Love With You
1. He Sacrifices Time To Be With You
When a Libra man is falling in love with you, he’s actually going to want to spend more quality time with you. He will initiate dates and phone calls. He will also make it a point to contact you daily whether by phone or by text.
Libra men are highly independent and love spending lots of time apart from their partner. However, when he’s falling in love he’s feeling high on life so he’s going to be more flexible for quality time.
He might want to be with you quite a bit in the beginning because he’s truly excited and it’s something new to him. Just be aware that later when he’s totally committed to you, he’s going to calm down a bit.
He’ll go back to wanting to have a bit of time apart. You two will have to find a way to compromise how much time you will spend together and when. It’s not impossible so don’t worry!
Just know that he will reach out more, he will call more, text more, and ask you to spend time with him. He may want to take you out to eat somewhere nice or take you shopping.
He may also invite you to his house so he can cook for you. These are gestures of love and giving you his precious time. He’s totally in love with you when you can see he’s going out of his way like this.
2. He Opens Up & Tells You His Secrets
When a Libra man falls in love, he tends to talk to his woman as though she’s his best friend. In fact, he typically will make her his best friend and confidant. That means he will tell you all his deeper secrets.
He wouldn’t be a Libra though if he told you everything. He will tell you more than most people know though and he’ll tell you his feelings. This is a surefire sign a Libra man is falling in love with you.
He will tell you about his life, his past, what he wants, and where he sees himself going. He will also often include you in his future plans. Pay attention because the things he says will reveal a lot about how he feels.
When he discusses anything that includes you, he sees you in his future and also means he’s feeling very deeply for you. This is an excellent sign that you should pay close attention to.
A Libra man may also want to know everything about you when he’s falling for you. He wants to know where you came from, who you are, as well as what your dreams and aspirations are, as he’ll want to know what your intention is with him.
Basically, he’s looking into the compatibility between the two of you, and he wants to make sure that your future with him is possible and will be something that you’ll both treasure for the road ahead.
Trust in him to tell you where he’s at in his life, in his head, and in his heart. The Libra man isn’t one for holding back when he knows he feels something. He’s also not one to say things he doesn’t mean.
3. He Integrates You Into His Life
When a Libra man is falling for you, he’ll want to spend time with you as often as possible. You’ll find him suggesting going out to eat, going to movies, or doing whatever it is that you both enjoy together.
He’ll want lots of time to snuggle with you and show you on a physical level how he feels about you. Again, Libra will normally tell you flat out that he loves you when he feels comfortable and able to do so.
In the meantime, he’ll show you as best as he can how he feels. He will tell you that he wants to be exclusive with you or he’ll ask you if you’re seeing anyone. When you say no, he’ll say he isn’t either.
When you hear that, you’re the only one and that means all eyes are on you. He isn’t going out with any other women and he intends to build something strong with you.
Provided the trust is there and growing, he’ll tell you how much he cares until he feels ready to reveal that he actually does love you. It will feel very random.
However, trust him when he finally speaks the words because he doesn’t say them unless he truly means them. This is one of the signs that a Libra man is in love, so honey, embrace it!
4. He Keeps In Contact Often
The Libra man isn’t very subtle when he’s texting you and calling you as often as he can. That may only be a couple of times a day, but if he’s texting you every single day without fail, then he’s feeling deeply for you.
Many Libra men suck at texting or keeping in contact regularly but when they’re falling in love, they are on top of it and will make sure to stay in touch. It’s important to have you in their daily life.
This is one of the few signs that a Libra man is falling in love. These signs are actually quite obvious, so as long as you’re paying attention, you’ll get it and embrace his feelings for you.
Basically, he will put in the work and effort it takes to love you and to keep you with him. He’s not one to beat around the bush when he feels so much for someone.
He will make himself quite clear if he’s in love with you or not. If he’s blowing you off and blowing off plans, you might want to question him. If he’s taking initiative to keep in contact then you mean something important to him.
5. He Wants To Help You
When a Libra man is falling in love, he will want to help you with your problems or issues. He may give you really sound advice that you couldn’t get from anyone else.
He has the innate ability to see two sides to every story. If you’re having problems with someone or a legal matter, ask him for his advice. He’ll look at both sides of the coin and give you a sensible answer.
Many Libra men are judges or lawyers because of their ability to discern the truth and fight for justice. Don’t hesitate to reach out to your Libra man with an issue. He’ll love telling you what you can do.
Do be aware, because this is a major sign that he is falling in love. If he isn’t in love, he will only reach out with his own self-interest in mind. There is a big difference here that you will be able to see if you know what you’re looking for.
6. He Tries To Please You
If you’ve met a Libra, then you probably know that they care deeply about what people think of them. This means that they always try to put their best foot forward and make everyone around them feel happy.
They’re people-pleasers – they just can’t help it! When you notice that your Libra man is going out of his way to make you happy then this is an amazing sign that he has very strong feelings for you. When your happiness becomes his happiness, you know you have him hooked!
He’s quite empathetic and if he comes to your rescue when you need him it is a strong indication that your Libra man is falling in love with you. A Libra man will do whatever it takes to make his partner happy.
He wants to be in your life on a deeper level and feels like he is being useful. Knowing that he can be there for you gives him a feeling of connection and helps him build intimacy with you. He just loves being your knight in shining armor.
This behavior might annoy some of you ladies who are quite independent, but for those of you who love a man coming to your beck and call, this is just perfect!
7. He Involves You In His Plans
Have you noticed your Libra guy always involving you in his plans? If that is the case then there is a very good chance that he has strong feelings for you. If he speaks about the future with you or assumes that you’ll be coming to a social event with him then take solace in the fact that he definitely sees you as more than just a friend.
A Libra man takes his relationships extremely seriously. To him, love is what makes the world go round. And this is why when a Libra man is falling in love, he will consider you in all of his plans because you have become his Universe.
When a Libra man is falling in love, he wants to spend every moment with the woman in his life. And this is why he is likely to involve you in all of his plans; he wants you by his side and to experience as much of life with you. This man is all about shared experiences and making memories together.
8. He Compliments You
I am sure you have heard that Libra men tend to be flatterers. These guys are definitely charming and have a way with words so you might be a little skeptical when you hear him dishing out compliments, but if this is something that happens often, then best believe he is falling for you!
This is because he wants you to feel good. He wants you to think of him as someone who lifts up your spirit and that he notices all the little things about you that make you special as a woman.
He knows that women respond well to positive reinforcement and when he is in love with you, he wants to be the reason why you smile. Remember to return the favor though; there is nothing a Libra man loves more than a compliment.
Here’s a secret tip for you: if you compliment a Libra man about something, and you notice him doing this particular thing more it means that he wants to please you and make you happy. A sure sign that he is super into you!
9. He Suggests Commitment Or Exclusivity
When the Libra man suggests becoming exclusive or more serious, he’s totally “in”. It also means that he’s very into being with you. He’s given it a ton of thought and is ready to settle in with you.
Libra men think things over many times before they actually decide. When he finally reaches the point of decision, that’s when he’ll reach out and tell you how he feels and what he wants.
You will need to be patient for him to get to this point but once he does then you’ll know for sure he’s in love with you. He may actually go ahead and lock it down by telling you he is in love with you.
He could be having a normal phone conversation with you and casually slip in there “I do love you”. When it happens it will probably seem shocking but you’ll be very happy.
After he says it to you then you’re free to say it back. If you don’t, it will hurt his feelings badly. He will feel a sense of rejection. Don’t lead him on. Unless you’re ready to fall in love, you need to let him know.
Otherwise, he’s a pretty obvious guy when he’s falling in love. He doesn’t hide it and he doesn’t mind being very open with it. Enjoy the Libra man when he falls for you because he’s a charming romantic guy.
10. He Is Looking For Your Reaction
When a Libra man is in love with you, you’ll see subtle changes in how he handles group dynamics. A Libra is often known as a people pleaser due to their desire for peace.
Despite this, if he is in love with someone then you may notice him looking only to make sure that they are at peace. At that moment, the other people around are not as important to him.
He is going to catch your eye to gauge your reaction after someone else comments. If he thinks something was funny, he is going to look to you to see if you thought it was funny too before he laughs.
If a Libra sees you even subtly upset over something that someone said, you can tell he is in love if he goes against his easy-going nature within the group by calling out the offender.
11. He Gets Emotional About The One He Loves
A Libra man in love is definitely going to get gooey. He can’t help it, he just loves love. He sees the ones he loves as being the pinnacle of perfection and he would do anything to protect the one he loves. This is where his full personality shines.
So, a Libra man may be pretty cool around others, but around the one he loves, he will be saying things with a lot more meaning.
He might say things like, “I don’t know what I would have done if I had never met you” or “I can’t imagine my life without you anymore.” Phrases like this or equally sentimental things will be sure signs that the Libra man has officially caught the feels.
A Libra man can be difficult to gauge just because he can be a notorious flirt. So just remember, a Libra man IN LOVE is going to be way more authentic in his dealings.
Are Libra Men Shy When They Like Someone?
It is unusual to hear that Libra man is shy because they’re actually social butterflies who love to be around people. But of course, there are always exceptions to this rule and no one can fit into a box, regardless of how hard we want them to fit.
Some Libra guys are just shy when you first meet them, but as you get to know them you will quickly notice them coming out of their shells and chatting up a storm. Libra men are usually only shy when they’re afraid of leaving the wrong impression.
They understand that appearances are everything, and because he is stressing so much about how he is coming across, he might be shyer than usual. But just be patient with him and you will notice him warming up to you in no time.
A Libra man is especially shy when he starts getting feelings for a woman because he really wants to get to know her and impress her. This might stress him out quite a bit because he doesn’t want to put the wrong foot forward.
Why Are Libra Men Shy When Falling In Love?
You might notice your Libra man becoming shyer as you get to know him and grow into your relationship. However, is this shyness something else? From my experience as a Relationship Astrologer, it is very rare to find a Libra man who is shy, especially after a significant time spent with a woman.
I often believe that this “shyness” is actually caution. The thing is with Libra men, they are looking for the most perfect partner. They are looking for that one true love and have incredibly high standards.
He is secretly scoping things out and checking to see if you are actually the right woman to be by his side. Love is a very big deal to him and he doesn’t want to take a chance on someone who isn’t right for him.
Reading this information might freak you out, but I really don’t want you to think of this in that way. If you notice him getting a little shyer or even retreating a bit, give him the space to figure things out!
Show him that you’re a worthy woman and that you can be patient and that it doesn’t bother you that he’s gone shy! Why would it? You don’t need him to make you happy!
End Anxiety About Your Libra Man…
It can be SO painful to worry about how to make things work with a Libra man who won’t commit.
I know. I’ve been there with many of my friends dating Libra guys.
I remember my very close friend crying herself to sleep at night, worried that her man would never commit to her. She lost sleep, time, and even work hours, all because she couldn’t figure out how to capture his heart and get him to commit.
As a friend, it was hard to watch her go through that. But I knew how good he was for her, and I didn’t want her to give up on him.
Even when our other friends were telling her to move on, I could see that he was the most incredible man she had ever met.
How could she just give up on that?
But it wasn’t easy. It took a LOT of work.
She had to learn how to speak a different language… his love language <<
And it worked!!
So if you are ready to sleep like a baby… Knowing your Libra man is MADLY in love with you… And never feel anxious about him again…