What Not To Say To A Libra Man (7 Annoying Things)

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
The Libra man would love to think that nothing could ever bother him, but I disagree. Read on for the definitive list of what not to say to a Libra man.

Is what you’re saying turning him off? Watch out! Libra men are super-sensitive to the words you speak, so choosing them carefully is oh-so-important if you want him to stick around, but there are some things not to say to a Libra man.

Libra is an air sign; did you know that? Did you know that air signs, of all the signs, are the most talkative and communicative of all? Words are like gold to these men, and they listen to what you have to say with a magnifying glass, never missing a thing you say.

This is why, ladies, you need to be ever so careful of the words that you speak with him. It’s not that he takes offense very easily; it’s just that he could all too easily be put off by what you’re saying, and you really don’t want that, now do you?

Knowing what not to say can make the biggest difference when you are in the throes of a romance with a sexy Libra fella and want to impress him and keep him around.

Knowledge is power, as they say, so let’s get started on the top seven things you should never say to the Libra guy:

7 Things You Should NEVER Say To A Libra Man

Here is a list of seven things you should avoid saying to a Libra man to prevent annoying him:

1. “Compromise Isn’t My Thing”

Some of us are not the types to want to find the middle ground. Maybe there are certain issues that are just an absolute no-go for you, or have been up until this point. For example, maybe you’ve been quite strong when it comes to living in a certain area, for whatever reason. 

However, if you tell your Libra man, who is always willing to negotiate on anything, that compromise isn’t really your thing, well, he may just decide to take his attention elsewhere not long after you let him know! 

You see, Libra is a sign that will bend over backwards for their partners, and although they can also have strong values, they do believe that a truly great relationship is when two people are always open to compromising.  

So, if you are the more stubborn type, it’s best that you review and try your very best to be a little more adaptable if you want to keep this relationship going! 

2. “I’m Not That Romantic”

You may say this to your Libra man to try and let him know that he doesn’t have to spoil you and make a big fuss over you – you could just be trying to be nice. 

However, this could totally backfire on you, as Libra is the most romantic sign of all! They thrive in a relationship where there are flowers and special songs and dancing under the stars. Their hearts beat a little faster when they see a romantic note from you, or receive a sweet surprise gift.  

Don’t tell your Libra guy that you’re not romantic, even if you aren’t. A little white lie really never hurts anyone, and who doesn’t like to be spoiled, after all? 

3. “You Can’t Flirt With Her”

Are you the possessive type? Uh-oh! You can bet your bottom dollar that your Libra man, as soon as he hears about that, could get scared and run in the opposite direction. 

You see, Libra men are extremely flirtatious and charming. They often have women just falling over their feet around them, with their gorgeous smiles that melt even the hardest of hearts. They thrive on the attention that they get, and it’s (mostly) innocent. 

If you’re going to be the type of woman to get jealous and insecure at some flirting, it really is best that you either find another guy who’s more like you and perhaps more introverted, or swallow your feelings. It’s not easy but reassure yourself that he chose you, after all, out of all the girls out there!  

A bonus is that he will never hold it against you to flirt, either. Libra men don’t have double standards, luckily. 

4. “I Prefer Quiet Times Together Over Talking”

Some of us are the quiet types. The idea of having someone around to be alone with may really appeal to you. The image of you reading a book while your partner putters around doing their own thing may be the height of romance for you! 

However, Libra is a sign that thrives on talking and communication. If you tell him that you’re more the type to enjoy quiet times over talking, well, he could be pretty disappointed. He wants someone he can exchange ideas and opinions with rather than silent evenings. 

You can always compromise if it sounds terrible to chat all day and all night – you can suggest things your way one day, his way the next – Libra men are always open to meeting in the middle!

You may also want to read: My Long Distance Libra Man Is Ignoring Me, How To Win Him From Distance?

5. “I Don’t Have An Open Mind About This Topic”

Maybe there’s a certain topic you just can’t stand talking about, or are very stubborn around. Of course, we all have certain beliefs and ideas that we feel loyal to. However, Libra men need to be around a woman that’s willing to at least see their point of view. 

If you tell him that you just don’t have an open mind around a certain topic, then you may be setting yourself up for failure when it comes to this relationship. Try your best to see where he’s coming from, and he will appreciate the effort! 

6. “I’m More Of An Introvert”

The funny thing that I’ve noticed as a relationship astrologer, is the fact that introverts and extroverts are often attracted to each other. One likes being around people, and the other prefers their own company.

Libras tend to be the more extroverted type of guy, usually with quite a few close friends that he cares about. He loves to go out and do dinners, see people, and get out into the world. 

If you say to him that you’re more of an introvert, he may get a little worried that he will not see his people as often anymore! You can’t help being that way, so the best tactic here is to find a balance (he loves balance!) between his way of life and yours. 

7. “It’s Just You And Me, No One Else”

It may feel quite romantic to let your Libra man know that it’s just you and him, against the world. As relationship-orientated as he is, this might make him feel a little bit suffocated or even claustrophobic. 

Libra men are not the types that want to barricade their front doors and never see anyone again once they have you around! So, as much as you may want to shut the rest of the world out, the family, the friends and other women, try to resist the temptation. 

Instead, say to him how much you love spending one time with him, and organize the most romantic dates ever so that you draw closer together, naturally. 

7 Phrases You Should Never Say To A Libra Man You Love

Knowing what not to do and say to a Libra man can save you from unnecessary conflicts and hurt feelings. Here are some of the things not to say to a Libra:

  1. “You are so boring and predictable.”
  2. “You said something else yesterday.”
  3. “Why can’t you just be like everyone else?”
  4. “Don’t overthink.”
  5. “It is your fault”
  6. “Don’t assume you always know the best.”
  7. “For once in your life, pick a side!”

Watch the video below to get some more insights on what a Libra man really hates to hear:

Tips On How To Communicate With Your Libra Man When You Are Upset

The Libra man is calm, collected, and typically not quick to anger. When you communicate with your Libra man when you are upset, it is important to approach the conversation with understanding and openness. Try not to rush the conversation, and make sure that you are actually in the right frame of mind to have a calm and constructive discussion.

Don’t blame or criticize him. Be honest and direct, but avoid conflict, and don’t raise your voice. The good news is that Libra may not hold things back and pile them up like he would normally.

Libra doesn’t like to confront his feelings when someone makes him upset. He waits until he’s had enough, then retreats, but sometimes he may blurt out what he thinks right then and there instead of holding it in.

Remember that Libra men value balance and harmony, so avoid saying anything that diminishes or restricts those qualities. Why not mess with a Libra? You don’t want to make him feel like you are trying to change his line of thought.

When you are upset, it’s important to choose your words carefully and avoid saying things that may trigger defensiveness or resentment in a Libra man. It is best if you both are in a calm and receptive state before engaging in any serious conversation.

Always try to keep an open-mind to his perspective and ideas. Remember to be patient and understanding, giving him the space he needs to explore and grow. Overall, the key to communicating with a Libra man is to approach conversations with understanding, respect, and an open mind.

If You Listen To Dating Coaches, You Can Lose Your Libra Man Forever…

Over the years, I’ve had a lot of my clients send me advice they got from dating coaches. They wanted to know if it would work with their Libra man.

And I literally wanted to scream with frustration.


Because most dating advice definitely will NOT work if you use it with a Libra.

You see, Libra men are VERY different from men of other signs. And if you use standard dating advice with Libra, it can backfire. He might disappear forever and you’ll never hear from him again.

I don’t want that to happen to you. Especially when it is SO easy to draw him to you and get him to connect deeply with your heart.

You just need to know the specific phrases to tell him <<

So he’ll NEVER want to lose you. He’ll be wrapped around your finger… And it won’t take him long to put a ring on that finger either.

These phrases are the EXACT thing you need to turn everything around with him.

So… for heaven’s sake… DON’T listen to normal dating coaches! They give out the same advice for ALL men… which is absolutely insane.

Because your wonderful Libra is NOT like other men… at ALL.

Click here to find out the specific things your Libra man needs to hear to melt his heart <<



About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.