If you’re sniffing out information on how to get a Libra man to settle down with you then you probably have some questions! Why is this process taking so long? Is he just telling me what I want to hear? How can I show him that it’s safe to stay with me for a long time?
I’m a long-time Relationship Astrologer who has seen women struggle to get a Libra man to settle down time and time again. That fair and beautiful mind of theirs can inadvertently drive you up a wall!
I am so blessed to be able to share my four greatest tips and tricks for getting the Libra man to recognize that you’re his forever love and it’s safe to settle down.
Buckle in and keep reading to find out my greatest advice on the matter of securing your Libra man to you.
Keep The Peace
Libra men are gentle people who seek to be ultra-friendly and to be like by all. To a Libra, very few things are worth making a stand for if they offend someone else. In fact, they’ll do just about anything to avoid conflict… this is why they desire a partner who is calm and collected.
In order to make the Libra man feel comfortable settling down into a relationship, you need to make them feel as if partnering with you will be 99% peaceful. They cannot stand fighting and will look for any other way around it. The Libra man is not content in a relationship where there is a lot of tension.
I advise that you find any way to make the Libra man feel harmonious with you. They’ll enjoy spending pleasant time with you where you are laughing and in love. The harder moments can be difficult for anyone, but most especially the Libra man. Avoid them at all costs!
Hear What He’s Really Saying
Libras are ruled by the planet Venus, planet of love, grace, and conviviality. People with heavy Libra placements are gifted in the ways of charm, but not so good at communicating their real emotions. In an attempt to make everyone else happy, the Libra will sacrifice properly communicating their needs!
You may even believe the Libra has no needs, but this is not true. The Libra guises his needs and usually won’t be forthright about what he really thinks. This is why with Libras you need to be a subtle kind of detective and be able to read between the lines of what they’re saying.
If you make a suggestion and the Libra says: “It’s up to you! I’m good with whatever,” realize that there is a chance that the Libra is really saying: “I don’t want to do that, but I don’t want to shoot you down.” I advise that you always ask twice when you’re unsure if they’re being honest about what they really want.
It’s important to know that the Libra is the type who wants you to be happy to keep the peace. They also may believe that forgoing their own needs is the way to give you that peace. In reality, you likely will be happiest when you know they’re happy! Communicate this in the clearest way that you can to the Libra.
When he knows that you’re willing to hear his truth and that you understand his nature well enough to make doubly sure that he’s fully expressing his needs, you’re inviting him to settle in and get comfortable with you… and he might just take you up on it!
Turn Fights Into Talks
Maybe you’re asking, how am I supposed to go through my whole relationship without having a fight? Well, you really can’t! But most of the time, there is a better way to portray the information that you need to address with the Libra so he feels the love more than the strain.
It will always behoove you to not act out of anger with the Libra, since this will have them shut down. You’ll need to find a system that is less combative (fire sign women, tune in right now!). You need to think carefully about how you’ll approach the topic that you need to bring up.
Instead of being angry, bring it up in casual conversation. This keeps the Libra’s guard down since he never got the opportunity to become defensive when it’s snuck in like this. If you play it right, this technique will work to get your point across without spooking the Libra.
If the Libra is able to see that you’re looking for gentle ways to make your grievances known then he’ll be inclined to want to stay with you and settle in! You’ll find that this way you’re making the Libra calm, something he is always searching for. You’ll have an instant ‘in’ to the motivations of the Libra!
Read next: 5 Ways To Get A Libra Man To Open Up To You
Be Patient With His Decision Making
The Libra’s symbol is the scales of justice. This is a good representation of the mind of a Libra! Always intelligent, incredibly fair, and also totally impossible when making decisions!
You’ll notice the Libra ponder for a long time on what to say and do. He’s mentally weighing the pros and cons all the time. This makes him keen and smart, which is a total turn on. However, this also means that deciding anything takes a long… long… long time.
This is partially why you’ll find him deferring to you to make the decisions. He perceives that the length of time that it takes for him to make decisions is somehow holding you back and making you upset.
It’s important to let him know that you can be patient. This alleviates tension on him and gives him freedom to come to his full truth in order to make his decisions.
This is also why you may find that his decision to settle down with you takes a long time. He is ensuring that you can offer him what he needs and that he can offer you what you need. The scales are in full swing!
When you don’t pressure him to come to any conclusions too soon and give him space to find the right answer, you’re tipping the scales in your favor (pun totally intended)! He’ll be far more likely to settle down with you and stay for the long haul!
Have you or are you dating a Libra man? How did you show them that settling down with you is the best option? You’ve got to fill me in in the comment section below!
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Wishing you all the luck in the Universe,