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Libra Man in Bed: What to Do If He Can’t Keep up with You

Libra men in bed are quite an experience. Are you in love with a Libra man but his libido just isn’t matching yours? Do you find you want it far more than he does? Sex with a Libra man is a cerebral experience so you’ve got to reach them via their brain or their sex won’t match.

Libra man in bed is not something you can forget. The Libra man sex drive isn’t either really. If you want to learn more about Libra men in bed are then you may want to keep reading for some tips that may help you.

Difference in Age

Libra man in his youth has a very strong sex drive. As he gets older however, he tends to lose a bit of that. He becomes obsessed with his career and his dreams thus putting sex on the back burner.

When he’s in love, he’ll enjoy the sexual experience but he may not want to do it quite as often as his partner. If you as his partner, are younger than he is or are in your “prime”, the Libra man who is 40 or older may have a difficult time keeping up.

You’ve got to inspire him to want to have more sex with you. Try doing your very best to make sure all other aspects of your relationship are intact and things are going well.

With Libra being a thinker, he ties his thoughts into how he responds sexually. If you two argue often or have issues between you that are unresolved, he may be carrying that around which makes him not quite so frisky.

That being said, age difference could be an issue between the two of you. If you’re a woman in your prime, the Libra man may fall short. If you’re a younger woman and dating an older Libra man, he may not live up to what you need.

All you can really do in either of these cases is try to appeal to his senses. Show up or approach him in a trench coat with nothing on underneath. If you drove all the way to his place like that with high heels on and nude under the coat, he won’t be able to resist.

You’ve got to tempt him more and turn on his mind. Send him racy text messages or social media messages. Send risqué photos of yourself to him days before you see him. He’ll get the idea.

The older Libra man may need some help in the sex department. With age comes lower testosterone and if he doesn’t go get help, he’ll find sex to be unimportant. Libra man sex drive may not be as high as it once was.

Be More Aggressive

Young beautiful couple on a bed - Libra man in bed

If you find that your Libra man just isn’t putting in the effort or has a low sex drive. Perhaps he’s just too shy and doesn’t know how to approach you to let you know he’s in the mood.

Typically you’ll be in the mood before he will and in that case, you need to let him know. Rub on his inner thigh, give him a nice tasty wet kiss, and caress him to show him what you have in mind.

Much of the time, the Libra man doesn’t bust the first move and doesn’t know for sure when a woman wants sex unless she lets him know. Telling him outright probably won’t do much. It’s better if you show him.

Do something random and off the wall so that he gets very excited. When you’re sitting together watching television or a movie, unzip his pants and start heading down there with your mouth. He’s likely not going to stop you.

Most men love blow jobs and Libra man is no different. However, if he’s not into you or harbors some resentment toward you for some reason, he will shut that “turn off button” on.

He mentally has the ability to override what his penis wants or thinks. Sad but true and in that case, there isn’t a whole lot you can do. Though give it a shot and see what happens when trying to have Sex with a Libra man.

It’s likely that if you initiate the sex more, he’ll be willing to give it up. If you’re a bit of a nymphomaniac then I’m not entirely sure what you could do to get Libra to give it up more. That may be an issue that has no solution.

Read next: How to Keep a Libra Man Interested – a Few Easy Steps

Herbal Teas or other Stimulants

Naturally if your Libra man wants to be more sexual with you but finds it difficult, you may suggest to him herbal teas that will raise libido or various other over the counter products he can try.

Of course he can also go to his doctor and tell him he needs more of a libido and he can get sent home with something that will fix him right up and give you all the pleasure you could ever desire.

Just remember that his mind has to be in on it or it won’t do a whole lot of good. Make sure that everything is good between you two and that he’s not carrying around any feelings that are unappealing.

Libra holds his feelings in and doesn’t often tell you he’s upset with you when he is. He’ll rack it up until one day he just lets you have it all at once. It won’t be pretty and you won’t be expecting it.

If everything is good between you two though but have a lack of sex with him, you can suggest pumping things up a bit. If he loves you and is normally otherwise turned on by you, he probably will be willing to give it a try.

When Libra man is truly in love, he wants to make sure his woman is very well pleased in bed and therefore is willing to do whatever he has to so that you’ll feel fulfilled with him in and out of the bedroom.

If he cannot perform with his lower half, he will certainly give you pleasure with his mouth. That’s something that he doesn’t mind doing if he knows he’s not really into having intercourse.

Simply talk to your Libra man. He will want to know what is going on with you and try to keep up with you as much as he can. Whatever you do though, don’t EVER make him feel bad for not having sex.

This will absolutely make him feel you’re being critical and he will hold onto this resentment. Be loving, sweet, and understanding to win his affection. The Libra man’s sex drive is normal but as he gets older it can decrease.

Also keep in mind that stimulants can also help the older Libra man to revive his libido. It’s worth a shot! Libra man in bed can be a beautiful experience provided he goes through the motions of making the most of it.

Libra men in bed can be a highly pleasurable experience. It really depends on your connection with him and how much he’s willing to do for you personally in the bedroom. Libra man sex drive can be low but you can help him raise it.

If you’re just scratching the surface as far as Sex with a Libra man, you should really learn all you can about his sign. It may help you in the long run. Click here for more details on him! 

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Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach