What To Do When A Libra Man Disappears After Intimacy

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Are you completely in the dark about your Libra man who disappears after intimacy? Discover why a Libra man pulls away all of a sudden...

Hello, my lovelies! When a Libra man disappears after intimacy it can be absolutely breathtakingly devastating. Especially because sex with a Libra man can so incredible. This man is definitely the King of Romance and sensuality.

Have you noticed your Libra man pulling away once you have been intimate with him? That absolutely sucks and I know most women have been in this position. It can leave you reeling and feeling like you made a big mistake by sleeping with him in the first place. 

Please don’t beat yourself up over this. His actions are definitely more of a reflection on him than they are on you. He is the one who is acting badly. Are you currently experiencing this with your Libra man and want to know how to solve it?

Then keep on reading to find out what you need to do when you suspect a Libra man is pulling away after you have been intimate with him.

When A Libra Man Disappears After Intimacy, It Makes You Wondering…

One of the most common situations you might find yourself in is that after you have had sex with a Libra man, he disappears. It is radio silence from his end… This is extremely hurtful and can make you question what you did wrong.

Listen to me carefully, you did nothing wrong! He is the one being an idiot, but the reasons he might be doing this aren’t on you, it is on him and his lack of maturity.

However, be sure that you haven’t put too much pressure on him after sex, because he might not be in the mood to rush into things with you yet.

The further you push him, the further he is going to run away and think that you aren’t actually ready for an adult relationship. It is best for you to just lean back and mirror his actions.

Let’s explore the possible reasons why a Libra man might disappear after being intimate with you:

4 Reasons Why A Libra Man Disappears After Intimacy

1. He Is Emotionally Unavailable

Although most Libra men tend to be quite emotional creatures and they are most definitely relationship-orientated. Some of them can definitely be quite emotionally unavailable at best. They think they want a relationship but then they run away from it. 

The thing you need to know about your Libra man is that he is a highly intellectual person. He uses his mind to determine all his decisions in life, but unfortunately, he can be quite indecisive at best of times.

He might have thought that being intimate with you is what he wanted, but as soon as you guys did it, he experienced a wave of regret and is now unsure about how he feels about you and is scared that he has made the wrong decision by sleeping with you.

This is because he actually unsure if he wants a romantic relationship in the first place. He can get swept away by the idea of romance and intimacy, but once he has actually experienced it, it can sometimes freak him out because he is so emotionally unavailable.

2. He Is Upset With You

Libra men can sometimes be very sensitive people. All they really want in their life is peace, balance, and harmony, so it can be difficult for them to deal with feeling resentment towards their partner.

One of the Libra men negative personality traits is that they tend to be a little passive aggressive and this is definitely very true. They will harbour a lot of unexpressed upset emotions towards you and not share how they are feeling as they are scared of rocking the boat and making the situation worse.

However, they put a strain on the relationship by not expressing to you how they really feel about something you did. This is why a Libra man will still have sex with you, but then become a little weird and pull away afterwards.

They want to experience that feeling of closeness and intimacy with you, but when it is all over, they might struggle with how much resentment they feel towards you and this is why they pull away.

You might have done something to upset him but instead of dealing with it directly, he punishes you without saying a word and communicating properly.

3. He Realizes That He Doesn’t Have Feelings 

It happens to most guys at least once in their life where they build up so much excitement and anticipation about wanting to be with a woman, finally gets to sleep with her, and then realizes that he doesn’t actually have feelings for her.

This might be the reason why your Libra man has pulled away after intimacy. He may have thought that he is really into you and that he has deep feelings for you, but then when things get physical, it may not be the case.

Sex tends to give Libra men a lot of clarity about what it is they are actually feeling. These guys often don’t know how they really feel about a woman until they have slept with them. And unfortunately, Libra men are such charmers that it is easy for them to get in bed with most women.

They can sell a woman a really great fantasy, but sometimes they themselves don’t even believe what they are selling. This is why a Libra man pulls away and disappears after intimacy. He oversold himself and has trouble dealing with the consequences.

You may also want to read: The Most Common Libra Man Weakness In Love

4. He Has Feelings For Someone Else

I have mentioned before how indecisive a Libra man can be, and sometimes he has trouble making his mind up about who he has feelings for in his life. The thing you need to remember about him is that he is a social butterfly and has no trouble finding a date.

This man is usually quite popular as many women tend to find Libra men charming and very attractive. So it is definitely possible that your Libra man already has a couple of options in the picture. It could be an ex or a woman he has just met.

But, he possibly has been confused about who he likes more. Unfortunately, he may have been using sex as a way to gauge who he has feelings for more and this might be the very reason why he has pulled back after intimacy.

This may have made him realize that he likes someone else more and thus it has given him the clarity he desires. This isn’t fair on you as you probably have real feelings for him, but this is a reality in modern dating.

Could Sleeping With A Libra Man Too Soon Ruin Your Shot At Love?

Libra men are real charmers, and even though some of these guys prefer to have an emotional connection with someone before getting intimate with them, there are some Libra men who don’t care are just in it for sex.

Unfortunately, Libra men are such charmers they know exactly what they need to say to a woman to make her melt. It is really effortless for a Libra man to get a woman to fall for him, but this doesn’t necessarily mean that he feels the same way. 

This is why you should be quite careful when sleeping with a Libra man on the first date because you haven’t spent enough time with him yet to create a true bond and connection. So it is definitely possible that if you sleep with a Libra man too soon that it could ruin your shot at love. 

It is always best to first take your time to get to know him and try not to be fooled by his charms, I know how seductive they can be, so please be careful.

What To Do When A Libra Man Pulls Away After Sex

When a Libra man pulls away after sex, the best thing you can do is to just step back yourself and realize that his actions have no reflection on you. The most empowering thing you can do is to keep you dignity and not chase after him.

Pull back all your energy and just focus on yourself because if you obsess over him you are only going to push him away even further. It is possible that he is trying to process what has happened between you.

Men often need space after sex, it is like their brains don’t work until after they have sex and then they are suddenly stuck with the consequences of their actions. The only thing you should do in this position is step back yourself, be patient, and give him some space. 

If you chase after him you are going to make him believe that he made the right decision by pulling away from him. Keep your own dignity in check, that is what is most important.

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How Do You Know When A Libra Man Is No Longer Interested?

When a Libra man is no longer interested, he will no longer be warm, charming, and sweet towards you. In fact, a Libra man can actually be quite cold, aloof, and distant when he isn’t interested in you anymore.

This change in behaviour will definitely come as a shock. You’ll wonder where the caring and kind version of him has gone, and instead you will be met with coldness and clear disinterest on his part. It will be very obvious.

You also get the Libra guy who will keep telling you that nothing is wrong, even though you can feel him slipping further and further away. Learn more about a Libra man hot and cold actions.

FAQs About Libra Man Disappearing Act

Libra Man Stopped Texting Me After We Slept Together: What Can I Do?

Immediately stop texting your Libra man. If you have been texting him incessantly you are only going to be pushing him away. Get away from your phone and keep yourself busy and occupied. You don’t want to chase him at all. Take a step back, breathe and try to calm your nervous system.

Do things that you enjoy to help you get him off your mind. You don’t want to be obsessing over him. There is nothing you can do about it, so don’t chase him, just be patient and let him come to you instead.

This video discusses more on a Libra man disappearing act:

Will Libra Man Come Back After Ghosting?

Libra men can sometimes be very confusing. One minute they are so warm and loving, and then the next they can be pretty aloof and distant. When a Libra man ghosts, there is a chance for him to come back but this depends on your actions.

If you keep texting him and are looking for validation from him, then you are just going to push him further away. The best thing you can do is to go silent yourself and make him wonder what happened to you. Remember that mystery is always a good thing for a man to feel towards you.

Do Libra Men Lose Interest Quickly?

Libra men can definitely be quite fickle, the reason for this is that they are usually quite indecisive. They always think that they are making the wrong decision and that is why they tend to go back and forth.

This can often be perceived as them losing interest quickly, but the main reason this happens is because they are unsure. They want to know that they did the right thing, and if it feels like they didn’t, it can be devastating for them.

They do lose interest quickly, but likely not for the reasons you think and it is often just a reflection of them and what their state of mind is. Try not to take anything personally with a Libra man because it usually isn’t.

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Is Your Libra Man Avoiding Commitment?

Does your Libra man pull away or get quiet when you’ve just had a deep emotional connection? Does he seem to disappear just when you thought he was getting closer? Have you felt confused by his hot and cold behavior?

If so, then he might have an avoidant attachment style.

He could be Dismissive Avoidant and completely terrified of commitment… Or he could be Fearful Avoidant and REALLY want commitment… But get scared when he feels himself getting closer to you.

If he has either one of these attachment styles, you’re going to end up feeling extremely confused at times.

And both are caused by childhood trauma.

When you can see the scared little boy inside him that had to shut down his feelings if he’s dismissive avoidant… Or have a parent not provide his needs consistently if he’s fearful avoidant…

It can make it easier to have empathy and compassion for his confusing and frustrating behavior. But that won’t fix it.

And while advice on attachment styles can be helpful… What you really need to stop this frustrating hot and cold cycle is to understand him better.

Thankfully, there is a simple system to TRULY understand how he ticks based on his astrology.

It will stop him from pulling back when you begin feeling closer. And it will accomplish this in only 30 days.

So no more crying yourself to sleep when a Libra man pulls away… No more feeling incredibly confused. And no more wondering what in the heck is going on with him…

Even if he has an avoidant attachment style.

Go here now to turn things around with your Libra man in 30 days or less.



About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

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