Libra-Scorpio Man Cusp – Complete Guide To His Personality

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
When you start dating Libra man on the cusp of Scorpio, he’ll still flirt with other women to feel alive and to reassure himself that he’s still attractive

There is an interesting energy that exudes from the men who are born around the Libra and Scorpio cusp. Libras are known for their sociable, charming, and lively natures, while Scorpios are mysterious, intriguing, and intense.

So how do these energies work together? Is this the secret to why Libra-Scorpio cusp men are so sexy? Because they possess the best of both worlds inside of their personalities? Perhaps… Continue reading to find out more about these interesting creatures.

What Dates Are The Libra-Scorpio Cusp?

Are you wondering if your potential love interest is a Libra-Scorpio cusp? Well, the dates for this are between October 18 and October 26, but closer to around October 21 seems to be the most intense expression of this energy.

Is October 23 a Libra Or A Scorpio?

This question is difficult to answer because it all comes down to the particular year you were born as well as what time. The planets are constantly shifting and because of this, it is always difficult to tell what sign someone is when they are born around these dates.

So, it can be quite difficult to tell if you aren’t comfortable straight up asking a man what time he was born. How do you know if he’s a Libra or Scorpio? Well, find out what year he was born – which should be easy if you know how old he is, and if you have the guts to do it, you can always ask him what time he was born.

Libra-Scorpio Cusp Man – Personality And Traits

A Libra-Scorpio cusp man is definitely sexy. He has both the relationship planets ruling him. Who would be attracted to a man who has both Venus and Mars by his side? This gives him a definitive sex appeal.

  • He is sexy
  • He is a man of mystery and intrigue
  • He has an emotional side
  • He is cautious and careful
  • He is exciting to be around
  • He loves being in a relationship

Those words are the best when describing a Libra man on the cusp of Scorpio. Libra is already warm, charming, and easy to be around. Scorpio kicks in a bit more sex appeal and passion. What a mix this man is!

The Libra man is normally calm-tempered and it takes quite a bit to anger him. When he’s on the Scorpio cusp, however; he may react quicker and may respond in a way that is quite emotionally charged.

The Libra man already is quite mysterious on his own accord. Put him on the Scorpio cusp and you may think that you will never get to know who he truly is. He’s secretive and doesn’t like to talk about his personal feelings.

However; if he finds the right woman; he will settle down eventually enough to trust her and open up. Both Libra and Scorpio tend to not trust easily and in fact, a Scorpio cusp will trust even less than Libra.

Libra is very cautious about who he gets involved with and so when he’s on the cusp of Scorpio; he really is super careful and somewhat paranoid at times. However, his logical side will show him that he doesn’t need to be that frightened.

Libra won’t always dive into bed right away with a woman but with Scorpio cusp energy, it may make him want to get that physical fulfillment whether there is a potential relationship there or not.

That being said, the Libra-Scorpio cusp man in bed is something that is very exciting and worth the wait if he does make you hold off. His saucy side will make you crave his touch.

Don’t get me wrong, he wants his life partner but he may not pass up “goodies” along the way. His Scorpio side is very passionate and loves to interact sexually as often as possible.

Typically, when the Libra-Scorpio cusp guy wants to find the right woman, he’ll hold out on the sex for a short time to test her and make sure that she’s loyal to him and someone that he can trust with his heart.

This could be rather time-consuming as Libra himself is already cautious where relationships are concerned. So, it may take a good long while before a Libra-Scorpio cusp man commits.

Even when you start dating him, he’ll still flirt with other women to feel alive and to reassure himself that he’s still attractive. He may act available even if he isn’t and of course, when he gets caught, he acts like a kid with his hand in the cookie jar.

He may not cheat but he will keep his “feelers” out there because until he’s totally positive about who he is committing to, he wants to make sure he’s not missing out on someone else who may be better than who he’s with.

It’s not nice and it’s not right but he knows what he wants and if he doesn’t trust someone then he’s not going to waste his energy or heart on that person. His eyes stay open and will keep watching until he “knows” he has the one.

What Are Libra-Scorpio Cusp Men Like?

A Libra-Scorpio cusp man is quite the guy! He is one of those men who really like to be involved in a relationship. He enjoys relating to others and getting close to a specific woman. He is passionate and intense, but also deeply caring and supportive.

He might be a bit of a flirt, but he’ll never cheat. This goes against his values. He is rather secretive and mysterious and takes his time really getting to know someone. When a Libra-Scorpio man commits to you, you can know he means business and takes the relationship quite seriously.

A Libra-Scorpio Cusp Man In Bed

A Libra-Scorpio Cusp Man In Bed

Ladies – I’m not going to lie to you. This blend between Libra and Scorpio could present you with a guy that offers to have a “friends with benefits” relationship if he isn’t in the frame of mind for serious dating. It will never go further than that if he isn’t ready.

I don’t want you to think there is hope that it will develop into something more. He does this because he wants to have sex with you and keep his options open. He likely will meet someone else later on down the line that will suit him better and then end your “friendship.”

He really enjoys sex and needs a lot of it in his life. He is an extremely sexual being and he can’t imagine a better way for him to enjoy his time. But it takes a really special woman to make him settle down.

So, if you get an offer to do this type of arrangement, I wouldn’t suggest it unless you’re alright with it and don’t mind that eventually, he will break it off. Just don’t let yourself believe you’ll ever be anything more than what you’ve agreed to.

But you can have a lot of fun with him and enjoy some of the best sex you have ever had. This guy certainly knows his way around the bedroom. So, if you’re open to playing and sure you won’t get your heart broken then you should definitely go for it.

I’ve seen far too many ladies get involved with this type of guy and get very hurt by him when he decides to call it off and starts actually dating someone. In fairness, when he means “friends with benefits,” what he really means is “no strings.”

That also means that there is no relationship possible or he doesn’t want a relationship with you in particular. He wants you enough to have sex with you but not to have a normal loving relationship.

He probably cares but not enough to want to be more than friends. Keep that fresh in your mind so that you don’t let his sexy demeanor change your mind. He IS hot between the sheets but is he worth your broken heart? No!

His sexuality is really powerful and he will make you feel fantastic. This is just a warning that being with him can be quite addictive, so don’t get into it if you don’t think you can handle it!

A Libra-Scorpio Cusp Man In Love

It really can be exciting, sexy, and quite heartwarming to date this guy. He will likely be very romantic and physical and will bring out your own inner desire to play. This will be one of the most intense loves you will ever feel.

He is passionate and gets totally absorbed in his relationships. He will make you feel that this relationship is about life and death. It is quite something… don’t say I didn’t warn you because this relationship isn’t for the faint of heart!

He has a way with words and will always know what to say to you to make you stick with him. True enough, he can have a bit of a hot temper. Libra men typically won’t say anything right away when they are upset.

The Libra-Scorpio cusp man, however, will tend to lash out sometimes or want revenge if you’ve caused him hurt. The Libra-Scorpio cusp male is someone who will be puzzling. You won’t always understand him or his motives, but I guess this is also part of the allure.

You will never really know what side of him you will get. The intellectual bookworm who is seeking success or the indecisive guy who doesn’t really ever know what he wants. He is perplexing, that is for sure.

When the Libra-Scorpio cusp man in love starts to open up to you, you’ll know what you have with him. He will absolutely carry fewer secrets and will be a little more decisive. You will know that he has chosen you to be his woman.

You should be the one he bounces thoughts or ideas off of. It will help him to feel more secure as the Libra-Scorpio cusp male may not otherwise feel that strong by himself. Your opinion means the world to him.

The Scorpio side needs to know he can trust you. Libra already does, typically, at least until you break that trust. Otherwise, the Libra-Scorpio cusp man in love will give you the benefit of the doubt.

Since the Libra-Scorpio cusp man in bed is something that you’ll never forget, you’ll probably want him at every turn you can get, and who would blame you really? The passion and pleasure you get to feel with him are on another level.

When the Libra-Scorpio cusp man in love makes it clear that you are the woman he wants, you’ll have to always be sure you show him that you can be trusted and that he’s made the right choice in trusting you.

He will put you on a pedestal and make sure you know that you are his Queen and that he deeply cares for you. Make no mistake… once he decides, he’s in it and he won’t turn his back unless he feels threatened or that it’s not working.

Who Is A Libra-Scorpio Cusp Compatible With?

The fabulous thing about cusp babies is that they carry the energy of two signs with them at all times. This means that there are more opportunities for them to be drawn to a variety of people and it makes compatibility easier.

But the best match for Libra-Scorpio cusp compatibility will probably be an Earth sign to really help balance things out for them. The Earth element will help them feel grounded and more stable and secure because having a Libra-Scorpio cusp can make them overthink and feel too much emotion as well.

You might think that a Libra-Scorpio cusp compatibility with Cancer or Scorpio women would be off the charts. But it might be too much water for the Libra side of the man to handle. He already has too much of his own emotional stuff to work through, so dealing with hers is too much on top of it all. 

Best Matches:

  • Taurus And Capricorn

Good Matches

  • Aries, Leo, Sagittarius, Virgo, Gemini, Libra-Scorpio cusp

Okay Matches:

  • Libra, Aquarius

Worst Matches

  • Cancer, Scorpio

How To Attract A Libra-Scorpio Cusp Man

1. Be Loyal And Honest

A Libra-Scorpio cusp man is someone with high integrity; he is looking for someone who has the same kind of moral compass as him. He needs to know that the woman he is with is someone he can trust and depend on.

He doesn’t want to be with someone who lies or someone who makes him fear that she might cheat. Show him that you are a woman he can depend on in his life.

2. Take Pride In Your Appearance

Your Libra-Scorpio cusp man knows he is sexy, but trust me, he puts a lot of effort into what he looks like. He is at the gym working out and eating healthily. He also invests in the best clothing to make him look and feel good.

He wants to be with a woman who can mirror this. He loves beautiful women who put a lot of effort into their looks. This isn’t because he is shallow, he just likes it when a woman takes pride in herself. It is really sexy for him.

3. Respect His Privacy

The Scorpio side of the Libra-Scorpio cusp man is quite intense and tends to override the openness of his Libra side. This makes him really secretive and private. The last thing he wants is a woman who is nosy.

He is the type of guy who only opens up when he feels like he is ready and he can trust someone. He will never be forced to reveal information when he isn’t ready to. He needs to see that you are someone who is patient and isn’t going to force him to do anything he doesn’t want to.

4. Be Open And Honest About Your Feelings For Him

The Libra-Scorpio cusp man has a low tolerance for games and people who aren’t honest. This is why he respects it so much when there is a woman in his life who can just be open about her feelings for him.

He likes to know where he stands with people and finds it really attractive when a woman can wear her heart on her sleeve and just be forthcoming with her feelings. It shows him that she is empowered and that he doesn’t have to play any games with her. This definitely shows maturity!

5. Don’t Play Hot And Cold With Him

The last thing the Libra-Scorpio man wants is a woman who confuses him and blows hot and cold. I wouldn’t suggest playing hard to get with him because he’ll just take that as a sign that you aren’t actually interested in him.

Mixed signals are the worst thing you can give him. He needs your honesty and loves it when a woman can just be bold and come out and say what she is feeling towards him. A woman who is daring is always going to win over his heart.

Libra-Scorpio cusp men can be complicated creatures, one minute they are up and the next they are down.

This can be quite confusing and leave your head spinning around.

All you truly want is to be in your happy place with your Libra-Scorpio cusp man.

But you never know which mood you are going to find him in.

The Libra-Scorpio cusp man can be really amazing.

He can also be spaced out and may not take care of the mundane duties in your marriage.

If you are a strong woman who can stand up for herself and still be patient with him, then you will have a rewarding marriage.

A Libra-Scorpio cusp man is very caring with his family and will do what he has to in order to make them happy.

He isn’t typically a go-getter and will only accomplish his dreams if a partner will inspire him.

As his wife, you will be his queen, his baby mama, and the woman he turns to when he needs to talk or even to cry.

You’ll be his rock and reason for fighting.

But how do you reach this point?

How do you make him see you as his queen?

Is there anything specific you can do to always put yourself as number one?

Fortunately, I always have a couple of tricks up my sleeve…

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Be a fearless leader who shows her Libra-Scorpio cusp man the way, and you’ll have a worshiper for life.

Be his guiding light and help him move through the world with grace and love.

Don’t be afraid to take the plunge and build this beautiful life together.

The two of you can do anything because you are together.

Enjoy your time with your Libra-Scorpio cusp man! This is a relationship meant for the record books!

But it is up to you to make it happen…

If you truly want to make a breakthrough and make this relationship a success, then you are

going to have to work for it…

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Wishing you all the luck in the Universe.

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

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  • As I’ve heard it said so many times “There is an exception to every rule”, I find that I am often that exception.
    Considering your discourse on the Libra-Scorpio cusp male always keeping his options open while he is involved with a woman…I was shaking my head the whole time. This description has never fit me even in the worst of times. I myself on the other hand have always remained alone and would cruise through life waiting for someone to stand out. When someone caught my attention I would simply observe them for awhile to see what traits they might exhibit. If I found them intriguing I would attempt to get to know them and see how things go, but when interested in someone in particular the radar was turned off toward anyone else until this potential was either pursued or abandoned. In whatever case I would remain a friend or at the least an acquaintance. After all, if they exhibited so much quality to catch my attention as a potential partner then surely they would be someone worth building a friendship with as well.
    Having said that I should interject that my being a Libra-Scorpio mix is very much affected by the fact that I am also and INTJ on the Myers/Briggs personality scale…also known as the Keirsey Temperament Sorter.
    There are also many variables in life which can alter how the various traits of an individual might manifest as well as how they present to others. Nature is one way to consider the personality and psychosocial makeup of a person, but nurture has a huge impact as well.
    It is interesting reading though and I can appreciate the time involved in the assembly of data.
    I hope that you are well and continue to be. Just wanted to share my slant.

    • Hi Rob!

      Thank you for chiming in. You actually sound like you have some Virgo or earth sign influence in the way you are. They are very picky and yes, will observe before they decide to be with someone. I completely agree with you that there are a bunch of other factors that make a person. We have all 12 signs in our birth charts and planets that are located in different place which make us different from someone else. Sun signs are very basic. Thank you for sharing your insight. I appreciate it!

  • Thank you for your response.
    I have to wonder that your suggestion that I have characteristics of Virgo has any bearing of the application of Ophiuchus which implies that a Libra is actually a Virgo. Is there any validity to the claim of Ophiuchus being left out in history?
    I don’t follow the stars as a personal guide although I can see that some of the characteristics are uncanny, but I do see the celestials as sort of magnificent clockwork of times and events. I do try to stay informed regarding the many aspects of life and living. It seems the more we learn the more we realize how very little we actually do know.
    Thanks for your time.

  • For heavens sake, I am a 23rd of October born. I am that libra/scorpio casp man, and damn; you describe me not only like you know me but like we have lived together forever

    • Hi Francis!

      Wow that is amazing that you say that. I’m glad to hear it! You should check out my books. I think you’d really enjoy them. My series “Scorpio Man Secrets” opens all kinds of cans that you’d probably really like.

  • I’m with Francis! This was spot on, I am also born on the 23. Do any of your books go into compatibility with other signs? Thanks for this post!

    • Hi Greg!

      I have many guides that can help you depending on your own sign. Simply go to my main site and then take a look. Find what you think fits for you and there you go! My main website is found here: Thank you for writing in!

  • This is honestly the most accurate thing I’ve ever seen! I always wondered why there was a “piece” missing on my zodiac charts. . I’m not proud but definitely not disappointed in being a LORPIO cusp! 😇😈😘