How To Comfort A Libra Man When He’s Feeling Depressed

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Have you noticed your Libra guy feeling down or perhaps withdrawn? If you want to make him feel better, read on how to comfort a Libra man.

A Libra man depressed is definitely something that may come as a surprise to you because this guy is usually in such a good mood. It is important to him that he maintains peace and harmony in his relationships.

So you might be wondering how to comfort a Libra man when he is sad or depressed. He does so much for you when you’re not feeling well that you obviously want to return the favour and put a smile back on his face.

How to cheer up a Libra man is easier than what you might expect. These guys are pretty simple and it is often the case that the little things in life are what makes them feel happiest so you really don’t have to overthink things.

Are you dealing with a depressed Libra man? Then you have definitely come to the right place. Keep on reading to find out all the ways to comfort a Libra man when he is feeling down and depressed. Hopefully, this should help to bring you closer and closer to each other.

When a Libra Man Is Depressed — How Does A Libra Act When Depressed?

When a Libra man is depressed, he is really unlikely to be his sparkling and charming self. You will notice he won’t pretend that he is feeling good when he isn’t. Although he is usually the type of guy who likes to avoid conflict, you’ll still pick up that something is brewing inside. 

He’ll try his best to keep face, but you’ll know something is up because his sparkly cheer just won’t be there anymore. In fact, you may even notice your Libra man acting a little annoyed and passive-aggressive at times.

He’ll swear up and down that he is okay, but you’ll be able to tell that something is definitely off in the way he is behaving. He isn’t going to be direct about the way he is feeling, because he actually feels guilty about not feeling his best.

It is possible that he may gaslight you a bit and make you feel crazy for thinking that something is wrong with him. But you’ll know something is up because he’ll act less social and more irritable than usual.

Your Libra may be a little distant and not want to hang out as much as he usually would. He won’t totally ignore you, but you will notice that communication definitely takes a hit and the two of you aren’t talking as much as usual anymore.

If you’re struggling with finding ways to connect with your Libra man on a deeper level, then you need to check out the 21 Questions to Ask a Libra Man to Share His True Feelings and become emotionally available. These questions will set you on the right track with your Libra and make you two feel connected like never before.

How To Comfort A Libra Man

Be Considerate

This is one of the most important foundations for forming a long lasting bond with a Libra man. When you notice he’s feeling down or “off”, try to approach him and tell him you noticed that he’s not doing well.

Ask him if everything is alright and ask him if it’s something he’d like to talk about so he can get it off his chest. Either he’ll easily open up to you or he’ll tell you that he isn’t really ready to open up and talk but he’ll be VERY grateful you expressed concern.

He’ll see your effort as you being very considerate and this is something he looks for in a partner, especially a partner he may be with for the long haul. So be sweet and ask him what’s wrong.

Get Him a Gift

When you know your Libra man enough to know what he likes, you can pick him up something that will essentially elevate his mood. This could be something very small yet pragmatic.

He’ll appreciate the effort you are putting in and again, will see you as very sweet and considerate which makes you look like someone he wants to continue being with in the future.

Even just a card with a simple “pick me up” type of poem in it will show him that he’s in your thoughts and that you care for him. There is NO way he won’t smile upon receiving something sweet from you.

You can either drop it off for him at his doorstep and let him know it’s there to give him a little privacy and alone time or you can ask if it’s alright if you drop by. If you see each other while you’re out and about though, you can just give it to him at that point and tell him you just want to give him a little happiness.

He’ll be floored and it may actually make him cry but if it does, it will be happy tears that make your Libra guy feel very cared for! Check here how to get a Libra man the perfect gift.

Take Him Out

As you know, a good laugh can make a huge difference in someone’s mood. Good food and a different environment can also make your Libra man feel better. Take him to his favorite place.

Whether it’s for food, drinks, or a funny movie, take him somewhere that you know will make him happy. Not only will it make your Libra feel better, but it will also make you look like a saint who knows what he needs.

Seriously, ladies, showing your guy that you “get” him and that you know what to do to make him feel alright again truly wins their heart and possibly their finger in marriage, just so you know.

If he has a certain pub he likes to visit often, take him there. Maybe being in a familiar place where friends will also be there will make him feel better. If he isn’t feeling social, though, don’t try to coax him. Understandably, he wants to be left alone to think for awhile. Respect that, and make sure you don’t cross his boundary.

Funny Movies

Get him his favorite alcoholic beverage or favorite food and bring it over to his place with a comedy movie that you know he’ll love. You can also set it up at your place and have him come over.

If you live together, then it’s really simple. Set up a really funny movie, make him dinner, and then when he gets home, serve him. Sit down and enjoy the movie and food with him, and be there for him.

He will truly adore that you went out of your way to do something special for him.No matter what mood he was in before, your Libra man will cheer up and will enjoy spending special time with you. He’ll forget the misery he was in before, or at the very least, he’ll put it on the back burner.

Laughing is always a good way to transform someone who is in a bad mood into someone with much more pleasant energy. If he’s really depressed, it may take a bit more than just a funny move.

If he turns you down to watch one, then you know he’s really out of it. At that point, you should try one of the other tips, or more than one. Surely if you tackle him in different ways, you’ll get him feeling better.

More Ways To Cheer Up A Libra Man

If you see that he’s going through a rough time but he isn’t opening up to you about it, simply being present will help comfort a Libra man. Give him a hug, put your arm around him, or bring him a cup of hot tea/coffee.

Even if you don’t say a word, he will absolutely appreciate the time and effort you are putting in to pay attention to him. That may coax him to want to talk to you but if it doesn’t, that’s alright.

You’re proving that no matter what he goes through, you’re there for him if he really and truly needs you. This shows him how strong you are and why he’d want to keep you in his life for the long haul.

He may actually ask you to leave if he’s feeling out of control with his emotions. He doesn’t want you to see him in despair or in anger so he’d rather be by himself where he can get himself back to a normal pace again.

That’s alright though. As long as you’ve shown him that you’ll be there for him, it’s the thought that counts, and trust me, he won’t forget it either. He’ll likely still thank you and try to make it up to you another time.

When A Libra Man Suddenly Goes Quiet — How To Get Him To Open Up

Perspective and balance are very important for a Libra man, and although these things usually come easily to him, when he is out of balance, this is when he often becomes sad and depressed. This is why it is so important to have a partner like you to give him a fresh perspective on things.

It is important that you give an empathetic ear to your Libra man and make him understand that you are supportive of him and are there for him if he needs someone to listen to how he is feeling. It is better not to put pressure on him because that will just cause him to shut up.

You can try to offer some solutions to how he is feeling, but always back off and let him come around by himself. Too much pressure will make him feel like you are putting pressure on him, and this is something he is trying to avoid right now.

Avoidance is definitely something a Libra man tends to do when he is feeling down and depressed. He’ll try to run away from his problems for a bit. You should give him the space to do this, as eventually he will come around and recognize that something needs to change.

A Libra man will open up when he is ready, but a few gentle nudges from your direction should definitely help to move things along in the right direction. However, too much pressure and nagging are just going to make him clam up even more.

FAQs On Libra Man Depressed

How Does The Libra Man Deal With Stress?

Libra men tend to be quite proactive when it comes to stress. This is because they can easily see a situation from different perspectives, which makes it easy for them to find the right solutions to their problems.

However, when things become too much for these guys to handle, they often have a tendency to want to run away from their troubles and just avoid everything that is happening. A more immature side of them will come to the forefront.

They might blame others for what is happening to them, and they will become very passive-aggressive when talking about what they are going through.

Do Libra Hide Their Feelings?

Libras are very used to putting their best foot forward, as they know how important appearances are. These guys have this natural ability to try and make everyone happy and comfortable in their lives.

This means that they are often wearing a mask in order to help others feel better. The last thing a Libra wants to do is make a situation awkward in any way. This means that they are very good at hiding their feelings.

Emotional intimacy can actually be quite difficult for most Libra men. They are very good with the intellectual stuff, but emotionally, they can be quite immature or find it challenging to be open and honest about the way they really feel.

You may also want to readThe Most Common Libra Man Weakness In Love

How Do You Make A Libra Man Feel Loved?

Love, romance, and relationships are really important to most Libra men. Their sign literally rules relationships and partnerships in astrology, so feeling loved is very important to these guys. They are always on the lookout for someone who will fit just perfectly into their lives.

To make a Libra man feel loved, it is important to just be yourself. These guys tend to go for women who are feminine and attractive, as they really like beautiful things. But they also like to be with women who are good at conversations, as a mental connection is also really important to a Libra man.

Here’s exactly how to show a Libra man you love him.

Make A Libra Man’s Heart Yours…

The Libra man can seem like a fortress, but it turns out that there are ways to soften him up. The sweet Libra man will be showing his true colors in due time if you’re patient and genuinely loving…

Now that you know some methods of assisting the Libra in letting his guard down, I have techniques that get right to the core of who the Libra man really is.

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If you know what the core techniques are, you can open the heart of the Libra forever…

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I’ve gathered all of the most useful tips that I have to open up the heart of Libra to your affections and elevate your romance to new growth possibilities.

So, if you truly want to make a breakthrough and make this relationship a success, then you are going to have to work for it…

Learn more on how to soften your Libra man and get him to share his true feelings with you <<

Don’t be disheartened if he doesn’t commit or show his feelings right away.

Libra men need to be sure they’re not being played. They need to be completely sure about the woman they are committing to because for a Libra man, any relationship is for life and he needs to know 100% that you are in it with him.

Show him that you are serious, but just be patient because this may take a while…

Wishing you all the luck of the Universe.

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

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