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How To Get A Libra Guy To Text And Call You First

Is your Libra guy not initiating contact very much with you? Does he know that you like him but he hasn’t taken steps to connect? Well you can change that right now! 

Below are some ways you can get a Libra man to chase you. Yes, it’s possible! I know you may be skeptical, but just read through and see if you can learn how to get a Libra guy to text and call you first. 

I want to give you all my best knowledge that I’ve obtained from my years as a Relationship Astrologer, studying the magnificent Libra man and also from all the women who have written in to me about their experiences.

Always Be Yourself

The Libra man is normally very proficient in knowing whether someone is authentic or not. You definitely need to charm him with whom you are. Why try to be someone you’re not?

He wants to know you and the only way he can do that is when you are absolutely yourself. So what if you don’t always wear dress clothes. It’s who you are on the inside that glows.

Libra does love a woman looking her best but that’s up to you as far as what you think your best really is. Jeans and T-shirt? No problem! Seriously ladies, be who you are and be confident.

Your confidence is absolutely sexy to him. Once he meets you and gets that image in his head, he will reach out to you if he is interested. He won’t forget you because you made an impression.

Trust me when I tell you that inner beauty is VERY important to a Libra man… You will be burned into his memory and he’ll definitely want to take more initiative with you!

Share Your Unique (Or Weird) Interests

How To Get A Libra Man To Text You First

Libra men are drawn to women who are different and unique much like the other air signs (Gemini, Aquarius).  He will find you to be a diamond in the rough. 

It’s likely that your Libra guy is into some pretty different things as well. He’ll love hearing about yours so that he can share his. It’s almost a relief to him, it shows him that you’re someone he can open up to.

Be zany, be weird, and don’t be afraid that you’ll freak him out! The weirder you are (or think you are), the more into you he’ll be… as long as you also bring the looks and the whit.

He will have this amazing memory of a gorgeous woman who is into some really cool and unique stuff, which will make him want to call you up or text you! 

Let Him See Your Confidence & Independence

Women who are dependent and clingy really freak Libra men out. Your guy will want you to be able to hold your own. Do your own thing and be confident in doing it.

You do not need him – you just would like him around for the ride. That’s what he wants, too. He wants to keep his personal freedom while being in a healthy relationship.

Being healthy means you two are alright if you spend a little time apart. It’s not going to hurt you both; it’s going to make you both stronger. 

To be totally honest with you, Libra men love successful women that have a career or job that they’re passionate about. Side projects are good too. Let it flow!

The trick here is for you to not always be at his beck and call. This can motivate Libra man to text or call you first. When he misses you, he will reach out. 

Don’t get into the habit of always reaching out to him first because not only will he be turned off by you pursuing him, but he will also find it annoying.  That being said, allow him to do the pursuing. 

The Libra man isn’t into chasing per say, but he is into showing the woman he likes how much he digs her by initiating contact. Trust me, if he wants you, you’ll know it!

Know What You Want

How To Get Libra Man To Call You First

Libra men are rather indecisive, so they depend on a woman to make her own choices (and sometimes his). If he asks you where you want to go eat, tell him. If you say you don’t know, you’ll end up driving all around town starving. 

Nope, I’m not kidding! He usually has a hard time choosing what he wants to do, where he wants to go, or what to eat. He’s more of a “schedule in advance” type of guy.

On-the-fly plans aren’t easy to accomplish with him. I would suggest piquing his interest; you could text him “The Park on Main St… you and me… 5pm next Wednesday.” 

How does this get your Libra man to text and call you first? You send him juicy tidbits that are decisive and he’ll love this. It might actually turn him on in all honesty!

A Libra loves a lady who knows what she’s doing, what she wants, when, how, and where. It helps him not have to stress himself out planning things. He can, but you may have to wait awhile.

This absolutely will get him to reach out to you more first because he knows if he asks what you want to do, you’ll have an answer. 

Always Be Considerate and Respectful

To stand out to your Libra guy or love interest, you will need to show him why you’re good for him. You’ll need to stand out from the crowd. 

Be really respectful to him and always be considerate. If you know he drinks black coffee every day, bring him one. If you notice he needs a paper towel while eating something messy, get him some. 

It’s the small things that show him how sweet you really are. He loves this. Yes, he’s quite independent himself, but doing things for him like this makes him happy. 

To get the ball rolling (if you haven’t already); text him and tell him: “Let’s chat, shall we?” Yes, that means you’d be texting first but after that he should be able to pick up the slack. 

It’s another way to showing him consideration. He doesn’t want to sit and sweat over whether or not he should reach out or when. Trust me; he gets stressed out over decisions like this.

When you take out the guess work for him, he is ready to be more assertive with you. So yes, to get him to initiate more, you’ve got to do the initial call or text. 

When he does anything for you or says something sweet, be sure you tell him thank you. This shows him you are classy and you appreciate him. He needs this!

Read next: What Turns A Libra Man On: 5 Things To Keep In Mind

Be Absolutely Honest With Your Libra Love

Look if he’s not putting in enough effort to reach out to him then you need to politely make it known. You need to do this in a respectful way, of course. 

What you would do is tell him something like, “I really do like talking to you and I’d love if you reached out to me a bit more.” If he cannot do it, he will tell you why. 

On the other hand, he may say “I’m sorry; I didn’t know you wanted me to.” Typically, the Libra man has a lot on his plate and sometimes is absent minded or even oblivious. 

Once he realizes that you love it when he reaches out you and he likes you, he will definitely put in more of an effort to do so. 

Remember to always be clear with your communication. He’s not good with guessing and relies on you to be bold. Be memorable and make him miss you by being the best you can be.

Libra loves success and that includes being with a beautiful woman such as yourself who is also on top of her game. 

Help influence him and make him want you by saying and doing the right things that are within your own personality. And don’t forget this… BE YOURSELF! 

You are confident, independent, and want to build a sweet bond with a Libra man. Romance can definitely brew with him if you are putting in the effort!

If you are expecting Libra guy to always take the lead, then you might lose out. I understand being old fashioned and to an extent, he is that way. You need to be bold and decisive where he is concerned. 

Decide to choose your Libra man today. Claim him! Tell him you want to get to know him better. Suggest calling or texting you. He will if he really likes you too! 

I hope this helps you figure out how to get your Libra guy more communicative with you. I think you can do it, personally. I do wish you nothing but all that you deserve! 

Did you get your Libra man to initiate more contact with you? What methods did you use? I’d love to know how you did it! 

Share your story (or situation) with our community in the comment section below (don’t worry, it’s anonymous).

Three Biggest Mistakes Women Make When Texting a Libra Man

Decide to choose your Libra man today. Claim him! Tell him you want to get to know him better. Suggest calling or texting you. He will if he really likes you too!

And now that you know exactly how to get your Libra guy to call and text you, I do have to warn you about one thing…

There are certain texting behaviors that will make a Libra man lose interest in you…

Communicating with a love interest is a very delicate dance (and so much trickier to do over text!) and all it takes is one wrong message to send him walking the other way…

Just to be safe – you need to check out the three big texting “no-no”s you should avoid, before you make a mistake that leaves you on read!

Find out right here how to avoid the biggest texting mistakes with a Libra man. You won’t regret it!

Wishing you lots of luck and love on your journey.

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach



4 thoughts on “How To Get A Libra Guy To Text And Call You First

  1. First I can say all that I have read about a libra man from A. Kovach has been dean spot on!!! I had my libra for like seven months really falling hard, I even told me he was falling in love. Then he moved in, slowly but surely he began to change. every thing started becoming a problem and he expected me to read his mind or what side of the scales he was coming from. every thing I did was not good enough and he said I’m not the woman he thought I was. he said I don’t listen to him and I don’t follow the directions he gives me. he became verbally abusive putting me down when ever he was up set, irritated or anxious. he said I broke his trust by going threw his phone. now a year later he has broke up with for good this time. I followed all avice but I think he is a bit Narcissist everything was about what he wanted and needed. I tried to voice my thoughts or ideas, I was told I just want to do things my way. If I tried to discuss my likes and wants it went over his head and he changes the subject. I’m done I feel emotionally drained, libra never again.

    1. Hi tea!

      Thank you for sharing your experience sweetheart. I’m glad you’ve found my material useful when it comes to Libra man but I must tell you something… Not all Libra men are the way you experienced. They each will have different aspects in their charts that will make their personality and actions slightly different than another Libra. It’s really all in what they’ve learned, experienced, and how they were raised. Don’t write of all Libra men just yet. Next time you meet one, check his chart out (or have someone else do it) because you may hit the jackpot with one. I wish you all the best and again, thank you for your feedback honey.

  2. My ex libra man thinks he’s in love with a woman he’s never met , lives over a 1000 miles away and only talks on the phone with. Yet he continues to want contact with me. His text messages can be taken two different ways, l’m completely confused.

    1. Hi Elizabeth!

      No kidding! That makes no sense. You need to tell him to either focus on you or go follow up with her. You don’t deserve his indecision. Honestly it’s not even right that he thinks he’s in love with someone else. You deserve better than that. Tell him to figure it out because if he doesn’t want you then you can find someone better who loves YOU. I wish you all the best sweetheart!

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