How To Text A Libra Man – A Complete Guide To Texting a Libra Man

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
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Texting a Libra man can be so much fun when you first start dating. You have likely never met a man who is so flirtatious, charming, and witty. The Libra man just ticks all of these boxes!

But as a relationship Astrologer, I often get asked by my clients how to text a Libra man. It seems like everyone wants to know how to impress these very interesting men and wants to make a perfect impression on them.


One of the best ways to work your way into a Libra man’s heart is knowing exactly how to text a Libra man. He is an Air sign, which means that communication is of the utmost importance to him. 

If you don’t know how to text or talk to a Libra man, then it might be quite disastrous for your chances to get to know him better. Intellectual stimulation and good conversation are of the utmost importance to him, especially regarding his romantic side.

This is why I have taken it upon myself to create this incredible guide to help all my lovely ladies know how to text a Libra man exactly. You will learn absolutely everything you need to know about texting a Libra man and his behaviour. 

I can promise you that there is no other guide online that covers every single situation you might find yourself in when texting a Libra man. I have laid everything out for you so that you always know what to do when you find yourself in a sticky situation with your Libra man. 

If you feel like this is exactly what you need to know and find out more about, then I urge you to keep on reading. This should definitely help you create the most fun and exciting relationship with your Libra man.

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Texting a Libra man – Basics – Where to Start? 

First things first – Common Libra Man Texting Style 

When thinking about a Libra man and his texting style, there are 2 very important things you need to remember about him. Firstly, he is an Air sign, which means that he is always full of ideas and thoroughly enjoys communication. 

Being intellectually stimulated is very important to this man. He enjoys wit and banter and being able to express his ideas to the world. He likes thinking about things deeply and is incredibly open-minded and willing to see things from a different perspective.

The second thing you need to remember is that his ruling planet is Venus. Venus is the planet of love, beauty, romance, and relationships. This says a lot about the Libra man and means that he is probably quite flirtatious and enjoys chatting with his romantic interest.

In real life, or in the texting world, a Libra man enjoys a good chat full of witty banter. He likes to make jokes or charm people with the way he so cleverly weaves his words. 

Texting is probably more important to a Libra man than the average guy, this is because he likes to communicate and keep in touch with his romantic conquests to see if they are actually compatible. 

Texting for a Libra man can be a lot of fun and this is the point in the relationship that can make or break the future. The Libra man will sometimes send short, brief text messages and other times longer more in-depth ones. 

A Libra man’s texting style is definitely a lot more flirtatious and light, than deep and serious. However, he can become quite deep and serious if the situation calls for it. 

He is definitely more on the playful side, but an intellectual rapport is of the utmost importance to him. This means he will also often share cool facts or ideas he is interested in with the woman he is chatting with. 


He is a big flirt, and until he has settled down and committed to one special person, he is probably going to have a string of women he is communicating with until he makes his decision.

A Libra man is luckily quite smart and very open-minded. He will know exactly what you mean and isn’t the type of guy to get too offended if you have any extreme views. He likes understanding a different perspective.

You don’t have to be too careful when texting a Libra man as he is open to learning and knows that everyone is different. As long as you have fun and are yourself, your Libra man will be able to pick up on this.

You can check out more about the Libra man’s texting style by clicking here.

Libra Man’s Texting Habits – Where Does He Place Texting In His Mind?

As I mentioned previously, Libra men love to communicate so it makes sense that these guys find texting quite important. They really like to stay connected and text whenever they can. 

He is the type of guy to text often, but only if he is super into the woman he is texting with. If someone hasn’t made an impression on him, he won’t really put in much effort, to be honest. 

Texting in his romantic relationships ranks quite high on his list of priorities and it is quite uncommon for a Libra man to take ages to respond. This is unless they are busy with something really important. 

However, you need to remember that a Libra man is a bit of a casanova and he knows his way around love and romance. So he might use delayed responding as a dating tactic to get him addicted to you. 

He is the master of playing hard to get and if you are aware of this you will be able to play this game with him. So if he takes a while to respond one day, be sure to do the same with him. You need to match his energy at all times. 

Will a Libra Man Text You First? 

Libra men love romance, and they are quite old school, but there is a side to a Libra man that can be a little passive. Sometimes the gentleman expects people to come to them instead of doing any of the work.

So often you might feel like you are texting your Libra man first, however, when a Libra man is smitten and totally in love he will probably text you all day, every day. He can get pretty into it once he’s solidified his feelings for someone. 

When a Libra man is still making up his mind about his feelings – and if you don’t know this about a Libra man, they can be pretty indecisive and take forever to make a decision about someone. 

… This is why you might need my help to get your Libra man to text you first. If you want him to be the first one to reach out, then there are a couple of things I suggest you do… But you need to promise to stick with the script if you want to see it work.

Should You Text a Libra Man First? 

As a general rule, I see no problem with a woman texting a man first. This shows your interest in him and that you are happy to take a risk for love. However, I wouldn’t recommend you do this every time. 

You need to let the Libra man do some of the work and come to you, or else it is going to feel like you were the one that chased him, and trust me, for a woman this is never a good feeling. 

You can definitely text a Libra man first to say thank you for a date, or perhaps to ask him about the time the two of you are meeting. You can also text him first when you are in a committed relationship and you know where you stand with him. 

A nice thing to do as well is, if your Libra man is always the one texting you first, you can surprise him by sending the good morning text first. This should make him feel really special. 

If you are confused as to when and if you should text a Libra man, then I have just the thing that could help you out. I have a quiz called “Should You Text a Libra Man First.

If you feel that you might need an answer right now, then I suggest you follow the link so that I can help you to determine if you should be texting your Libra man first. 

How Often to Text a Libra Man?

The frequency in which you text a Libra man depends solely on where the two of you are in your relationship phase. If you just met a Libra man and you’re constantly texting him, of course, this isn’t a good idea, but if you’ve been with him a while it will be more acceptable. 

If you notice your Libra man pulling away and texting you less frequently then don’t start increasing how often he hears from you. I always suggest leaning back and letting him come to you first.

If you notice him reaching out often, then, of course, this is a brilliant sign that the Libra man likes you. But you can never be too certain, can you?

It is situation-dependent, here are some situations you might find yourself in.

1. You Just Met Your Libra Man

If you have just met your Libra man it can feel totally intoxicating and exciting! This will make you want to be in contact with him all of the time. However, this is the relationship stage you want to be most careful with because it is a precarious time. 

Your actions can make or break the relationship if you aren’t careful. I would suggest waiting for him to reach out to you first. You want to lean back and get him to pursue you.  

If he texts you and is in a chatty mood, then you can respond to him, but I wouldn’t suggest being the one to initiate things with him. This may very well push him away and scare him off. 

2. You Have Been On A Couple Of Dates

If you have been on a couple of dates with your Libra man then it is perfectly fine for you to reach out more often and let him know that you are thinking of him. Still, you need to be cautious, but you can show him that you are interested in him. 

You can send him a good morning text once in a while, or say good night to him once or twice a week. I think it would also be alright for you to initiate a date with him to change things up and take the pressure off of him.

3. You Are In A Committed Relationship

If you are in a solid and committed relationship with your Libra man, then I see no harm in you texting him first. The two of you are in a partnership after all and it would be a little strange if you didn’t reach out to him. 

Checking in with him or letting your Libra man know what you are thinking of him can be quite invaluable to your relationship. Of course, you don’t want to bombard him with constant text. Be cool, and relaxed about it all! You can be a little more relaxed with how often you text him when the two of you are in a committed relationship.

The Biggest Texting Mistakes Women Make with Libra Men 

There are some things that you absolutely need to avoid when texting any man, but especially a Libra man. Knowing what these things are will set you apart from the rest and help you to get out of big trouble. 

Firstly, you need to stop being so needy and clingy in your texts. You can’t make it so obvious that you miss him and that you want his attention. I promise you, you are only going to push him away because a Libra man likes a woman who is independent and doesn’t always need him. 

Secondly, be careful with becoming too emotional or too personal too quickly with your Libra man. He is more of an intellectual and sometimes emotions can freak him out, especially if the two of you barely know each other…

Thirdly, don’t put too much pressure on him to make a decision about you or your relationship. Remember, a Libra man is extremely indecisive, if you force him to make a decision you are going to make him regret it. It is important that you are chilled and show him that you can go with the flow. 

These mistakes are very commonly made by women when texting Libra men. I invite you to take a look at Most Common Texting Mistakes With Libra Men to know what behaviors to avoid in the future.

Irresistible Texts To Send To a Libra Man

In this section of the guide, I am happy to say that I’ll be sharing many ideas with you on what to text a Libra man depending on the results you want to get from him.

Knowing how to master the skill of texting a Libra man should help you indefinitely to be the most alluring woman you can possibly be to a Libra man. Why wouldn’t you want this? 

Master your Libra man’s texting style and know the best texts to send him to make him crazy for you, then you should definitely check out my Libra Text Magic guide to get the best possible results for your relationship and have many ready-to-send messages that you can use in different situations.


How To Get a Libra Man’s Attention Through Texts?  – What To Text a Libra Man To Get His Attention?

The number one thing that will always grab a Libra man’s attention is most definitely beauty, this guy loves it when a woman looks good and if physically attractive. 

You need to make sure that your profile pictures are absolutely stunning so that you can blow him away with your beauty by reminding him how gorgeous you are. 

The second thing you need to remember is that a Libra man likes beauty AND brains. So it is important that you need to have a few interesting topics you know how to talk about. 

Beauty is what is going to attract your Libra man to you, but your intelligence is what is going to make him stay with you. Have a few witty one-liners that can help you banter with your Libra man.

This guy is very easy to pull into a conversation, you just need to know what to say to get his attention. Remember, he is very flirtatious, so start flirting with him and see where this leads you. 

I invite you to discover some more secrets on how to get a Libra man’s attention through texts. You need to know what you are doing if you want to pull this very special man into your life.

How To Keep a Libra Man In The Conversation 

I feel like it is important in noting that not all Libra men are designed equally. They might all have their sun sign in Libra, but their Mercury sign might be in Virgo, Libra, or Scorpio. 

If you don’t know what a Mercury sign is, it is the planet that rules communication, thoughts, ideas, and messages. So it definitely rules texting as well. 

Depending on where a Libra man’s Mercury sign is, can often make the things he is interested in talking about quite different. It is also important to note that it might change the way he communicates. 

A Libra man with Mercury in Virgo might be quite analytical and logical in his thinking. He’ll like facts and enjoy discussing very practical topics. Then a Mercury in Libra man will talk about ideas, and try to learn a different point of view because they’re always interested in other people’s opinions. 

A Libra man with Mercury in Scorpio is going to be quite secretive, he is going to be a bit darker and more mysterious than the latter two. He’ll enjoy talking about occult things, mysteries, or things that aren’t easily explainable. He’ll be very deep and penetrating.

You can definitely master knowing how to speak to a Libra man and his particular Mercury sign if you know the right communication hooks to use based on his Mercury position. 

How To Flirt With a Libra Man Over Text?

If you’ve ever met a Libra man, then you will know exactly how much this guy loves to flirt. I am guessing, but this is probably his favourite hobby and what makes him feel most excited and alive in his life. He just loves whooing the girls and making them feel loved and desired. 

They absolutely love flirting over text, this is the perfect place for them to share their witty banter and show you what a romantic he is. It is a great source of fun for him. 

If you want to make him addicted to you, then I definitely suggest you be open to his flirting and just go with it. Show him that there is a flirt within you as well and that you know how to have fun. This is what gives a Libra man life!

If you’re struggling to find the perfect flirty texts to send a Libra man, don’t you worry! I have got you covered. Let me know what you think about my suggestions and if they worked for you?

How To Seduce A Libra And Make Him Crazy For You 

A Libra man is a classic when it comes to his sexuality. He isn’t someone with any crazy kinks. He likes to keep things plain, and simple, yet incredibly romantic. Romance is definitely what gets him going. 

He is the type of guy who really likes classic lingerie with lace and silk, and a lot of texture. If you trust him enough, you can always send him a sexy picture of you in some lingerie. This will work like magic, but I have a few more text ideas to make that Libra man crazy for you. 

He is definitely most turned on by his mind, so perhaps sharing in one of your fantasies over a few text messages is the thing that is going to push him over the edge. 

Seducing a Libra man over text is relatively easy, you just need to know what you are doing. Don’t panic about this, I am here to guide you every step of the way so that you can get your Libra man to fall for you hard and fast!

More Texts That Make a Libra Man’s Heart Melt

A Libra man is definitely a romantic, he is a sensual guy that is absolutely in love with the idea of love. He likes being in a fairytale, this is exactly what he needs to make his heart melt. He wants all the sop and romance in his life. 

His weak point in a woman is someone who is beautiful and knows how to make herself stand out. He loves femininity and a woman who isn’t afraid to show to the world that she is indeed a beautiful woman. 

He wants someone who can take pride in herself and isn’t afraid to make the extra effort. He loves romance, so when he sends a soppy text, he wants to know that she enjoys it and doesn’t find it cringe. 

If you want to be very sweet and affectionate when sending him a text message, but you aren’t sure what to say to get his heart racing, then you can discover here the right texts to send a Libra man to melt his heart

The best thing about these texts is that you can use these to melt his heart by sending him these as good morning texts as well!

What To Text Him After A Breakup If You Want Your Libra Man Back

Your Libra man might’ve been a player before you met him, and if the two of you break up he is definitely going to revert back to this behavior. Remember, it is totally impossible for a Libra man to be single. He needs to be in a relationship to feel like he is living his full potential.

I know you will hate to hear this, but out of all the signs, a Libra man is most likely to get a rebound after he has broken up with someone. Being alone is just way too scary for him. 

This doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about you, on the contrary, he does and that is why he needs to find distraction with someone else. He can’t get the words out to tell you how he feels because he is so terrified of being vulnerable. 

It is hard to talk to a Libra man after a breakup because he will pretend like nothing happened and be quite passive-aggressive. You’ll be shocked at how mean this guy can actually be. 

There are a couple of things you can do if you really want to reach out to him and have something you need to say. Here are some ideas on what to text a Libra man after a breakup.

How to Text a Libra man After an Argument?

It isn’t always easy to know what to text a man after an argument, especially a Libra man because it may come across like he doesn’t actually care because he can be so passive-aggressive at times.

Take note of these things when texting a Libra man after an argument:

  • Give him some space and let him cool down
  • Don’t text him immediately as you also need to figure out what you are feeling
  • When you are ready to talk, let him know how you feel and what you are sorry about
  • Let him know that you are here for him when he feels ready to talk
  • Be open and honest with him
  • Try not to be defensive or let another argument unfold

Libra Man Texting Situationships – Decode His Strange Behavior and Learn What to Do 

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When you are not quite in a relationship with a Libra, but you also aren’t single it can sometimes be terrifying to try and navigate his strange behavior because it isn’t always obvious what you need to do. 

Follow these steps to master exactly what you need to do when you find yourself in a situationship with a Libra man:

Libra Man Stops Texting You Or Never Texts Back

When a Libra man never texts back it can be quite worrying and make you feel incredibly insecure especially if you thought that he was once really into you… There is nothing that feels more terrible than this. Here are some reasons he might not be texting back:

  • He is busy with work
  • He feels bored with the conversation
  • He has lost interest in you and is trying to slowly let things fizzle out
  • He is going through something and isn’t ready to talk
  • He forgot to reply

Here is what to do when a Libra man stops texting back.

Libra Man Avoids Your Texts – He’s Ignoring Your Texts – Why?

When things are going so well with you and a Libra man it can be really hard to understand why he is suddenly avoiding and ignoring your texts. How did things change so quickly?

I hate to say this ladies, but when a Libra man starts avoiding you or ignoring your text it is often because there is another woman in the picture. It is very likely that he met someone else, or that his ex has come back into his life. 

Remember, a Libra man is a major flirt and a bit of a casanova, it isn’t difficult for him to meet women and they are usually under his charming spell. It is so easy to fall into his trap, you probably did as well. 

When a Libra man goes silent is usually because he has replaced you with someone else. It is so easy for him to jump from one person to the next and he often doesn’t feel any remorse. 

He isn’t very mature if he isn’t reaching out and telling you the truth. You deserve someone who is a grown-up and can be honest with you. 

Want to know why a Libra man would avoid you? I Invite you to discover the number one reason a Libra man avoids your text… 

Should You Ignore A Libra Man’s Texts?

There are a couple of situations I would suggest you to ignore a Libra man’s texts… The main one would be after the two of you have broken up, I always suggest to my clients that they need to go No Contact so that they can figure out what they want and what they are feeling. 

This effect only works if you’ve had an argument or a breakup with a Libra man. I would never suggest you do this while you are in a happy relationship with him because the results of this would just be disastrous for your relationship. 

If you want to know when to apply the no contact rule with your Libra man, then you can check this out to make sure that you implement this rule correctly. 

Libra Ex Messages You Out of The Blue – What does it mean?

There is no one straightforward answer to the question as you can never know exactly what is going on in the mind of a Libra man when he texts you out of the blue. 

Libra men are definitely the type of guys to text their exes often. They have the people-pleaser complex where they want everyone to like them and they will do anything to get people to like them. 

Breakups can be pretty hard for Libra men as they don’t like hurting people’s feelings. They want everything to be perfect. When a Libra ex texts you out of the blue it is usually because he wants to check if you still have a fondness for him. 

This could also mean that your Libra ex misses you and there is a chance that he wants to get back with you. If you want to get back with him then you can definitely consider texting him back, but you need to be prepared for the consequences.

If you want to see how this situation might play out and what to do when your Libra ex texts you out of the blue, then I would suggest you follow these guidelines.

Libra Man Never Initiates Conversation or Texts You First 

It can be so frustrating when you are dating a Libra man or are interested in him at the very least but he never reaches out to you. The only time you hear from him is when he responds to one of your text messages. 

I can understand that this might be frustrating or confusing for you because you might never know how he truly feels about you if you are the one always making the effort with him. 

The reasons this happens don’t always have to be bad, and it might just be because he is shy and afraid of your rejection. Of course, another reason might be is that he isn’t really romantically interested in you and is just texting back to be polite. As I have mentioned before, Libra men are people pleasers. 

This can be very problematic in any stage of a relationship because you will always feel like your Libra man isn’t making an effort if you are the one foing all of the work to contact him. 

You need a mind hack to get your Libra man to text you first. Otherwise, you’re going to be a year into this relationship and feel deeply saddened because you feel like you Libra man never chases or pursues you.

Libra Man Takes Forever To Respond / AKA Libra Man Slow Texter

It is crazy how valuable texting has become with modern dating. Everyone reads so much into every situation, sometimes this is necessary, and sometimes this really isn’t. It all depends on your specific situation. 

If a Libra man takes forever to respond or is a slow texter after a period where he seemed really into communicating with you, then I would be worried. It might mean that he has lost interest in pursuing you.

However, if a Libra man has always been slow to text or respond then it often just means that this is how he is. There isn’t anything you can do about this and you need to respect that maybe he’s just not very big on texting and there is nothing wrong with this. 

Try not to take everything too personally when it comes to texting because it often really isn’t. You are going to drive yourself mad if you think everything is your fault if you don’t fix it or do it right. Be gentle with yourself. 

Libra Man Texting Me Everyday – Should I Be Happy About It?

This is great news and of course, you should be happy about a Libra man texting you every day. You have clearly left quite an impression on him and he wants to get closer to you. 

It must feel really amazing to know that you have his attention and admiration. I would be a little worried if he only left communication to texting with you and never made plans to see you. 

If he does that, then chances are good that he is leading you on… This is only good news if you see him regularly for dates and he still keeps in touch by texting often. 

3 Signs a Libra Man Likes You Through Text

There is nothing more annoying than not being totally sure if someone is interested in you or not. You might think something is a sign, but you can’t be totally sure. 

I think it is safe to say that when a Libra man is quite affectionate over text that he is probably very interested in you. This means that he can sometimes be rather flirty and naughty too. And sometimes he will tell you exactly how he feels about you so that you know with certainty!

The signs he likes you through text are:

  1. He is affectionate
  2. He is flirtatious and naughty
  3. He tells you how he feels

If you are interested in knowing more signs a Libra man likes you through text, then check out this article. 

Conclusion – Libra Man And Texting

As you can see Libra men quite enjoy texting and it is a fun way for them to flirt with the women in their life. Texting is important to them as they get to have fun and get to know people. 

I hope you have learned a lot from this article and that you can carry this information with you into your relationship with your Libra man. It should definitely help you get the relationship of your dreams.

Your Libra man will text you quickly when you do this…

It can be so frustrating to send your Libra man a text message and see “seen”…

But then have no reply for hours or maybe even days.

Why in the world would he do this?

You might start feeling anxious or wondering if he even cares at ALL!

Unfortunately, a lot of dating advice written for men in general just WON’T work with a Libra.

They are wired a bit differently than men of other sun signs.

And if you treat your Libra man the same as other men, you might lose him forever.

There are so many dating coaches that tell you exactly what to do when you text your man…

And what NOT to do.

Unfortunately, their advice can REALLY backfire with a Libra.

And there are three specific mistakes you NEVER want to make when texting your Libra.

I don’t want you to drive him away,

Especially when it can be incredibly easy to capture his heart through text messages… 

IF you know what you are doing!

Don’t worry, I’ve got your back!

When you know EXACTLY what to text him… and what to NEVER text him…

He will be putty in your hands.

And he’ll make sure to reply to you quickly and lovingly.

Go check out what I mean here now so you keep him in your life forever.

Love and light,

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,


About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.