How To Love A Libra Man (11 Ways To Show A Libra Man You Love Him)

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Showing a Libra man that you love him isn’t as hard as you think. Here are 9 easy and effective ways to show a Libra man you love him.

There are so many wonderful ways to show your Libra man how much you love him! You don’t need to hold back on the romance with this Zodiac sign – after all, Libra is the sign of love and relationships!

Showing a Libra man that you really love him isn’t as hard as you think. Libra men LOVE love, and they’ll notice every effort you put into expressing it.

When trying to show your Libra man how much you appreciate him, you can go to town with all the bells and whistles! Pull out all the stops for this man, because there really isn’t one thing that he’s not going to like – any romantic gesture will make him feel absolutely adored. 

You’re lucky to be able to show your love to a Libra guy – he’s a sign ruled by the love planet, Venus, making it quite easy to please him. After all, he tends to spoil you rotten, so it’s nice to return the favor!

Libra is influenced by the element air. This makes loving him whimsical and a little all over the place. Stepping into the role of being his will bring out the best in you – maybe sides you didn’t even know you had!

It isn’t always easy figuring out what you can do to make a Libra feel loved, so the following are the tips you need on how to love a Libra man to help keep the romance alive in your relationship for as long as possible.

How To Show A Libra Man That You Love Him

1. Buy Him A Gorgeous Gift

One of the Libra man’s love languages is gifts, gifts, and more gifts! He just loves nice things, whether they be small or large.

Your Libra man is also very susceptible to beauty, so make sure that whatever you get for him has visual appeal. He will love a stylish t-shirt, a meaningful piece of jewelry, or a beautifully embossed notebook. 

No money? No worries, honey! He’ll also love a nice bottle of wine, a bunch of flowers that you picked or even grew yourself, or a box of fine chocolate. Don’t be scared to spoil him! Check here for the perfect gifts to get your Libra man <<

2. Take Him To The Spa

The Libra man is one guy who will just love going to the Spa with you. He’ll adore something like a couple’s massage, a joint pedicure, or a facial.

This is a win-win way to show him how much you appreciate him, because you get to be spoiled too, plus you’ll get to spend some quality time together.

And, Libra men just love quality time, along with gifts. They’ll feel absolutely appreciated and loved when you combine this pampering with a date. Kudos to you, ladies!

3. Print And Frame A Gorgeous Photo For Him

Making A Libra Man Feel Appreciated

Let’s face it – Libra men can be rather vain. They are, after all, one of the most (if not the most!) handsome men in the Zodiac! They like looking after themselves, presenting well, and dressing stylishly.

One way that you can show him your appreciation and love is if you get him a lovely printed photograph of him at a time when he looked great. This can be a photo of him surfing, doing some other sexy sporting activity, or a picture of him with his family or friends. 

Can you print a photo of yourselves? Sure, but if you want to make it all about just him, then it’s best to take the focus onto him.

And remember to choose a good frame! His eye for beauty and detail will definitely pick up if you just chose a random one, so make an effort to choose well!

4. Make Him Laugh When He’s Stressed

Many of my clients get stumped on how to respond when their partner is stressed. Don’t seem helpless around your Libra; he’ll sense it and feel unnecessary guilt about making you feel that way. This could cause him to withhold sharing difficult emotions with you to protect you from getting upset.

Instead, listen sincerely and offer a playful and lighthearted take on the situation if possible. When he’s down in the dumps, he needs you to remind him of his carefree side. Joking, teasing, and making him laugh are the best ways to get a Libra man out of his own head.

If you’re able to cheer him up, he’ll begin to see you as his personal angel.

If you struggle with finding the right words to make your Libra man feel special, I strongly suggest getting my Forever Love With A Libra Man. It will help you speak to his core, and make your bond so much stronger.

5. Plan A Super Romantic Date

Super Romantic Date With A Libra Man

Libra men love, love, love a good date! It’s definitely one way to get into his good books and show him your love and appreciation. You can be as romantic as you like, and it will not be lost on him, nor will he think it too “mushy.”

In fact, the mushier, the better – just keep it classy, or not too cheesy, as that may put him off. You can take him to a restaurant you know he has been dying to go to, or to see a show of a band he’s always loved. You can go to an art gallery together (which he will love), or visit the theater. 

Get creative, and make it an event. Grab him some flowers, dress up and for the bill, even if he protests. Make him feel totally spoiled!

6. Be Waiting At Home For Him In Something Sexy

One of the very best ways you can show your Libra lover how much you appreciate and adore him is by waiting at home for him in something very sexy! Go and dig out your most gorgeous lingerie, or better yet, buy something new and tasty!

Leave a little note for him saying that dessert is before dinner tonight and leave a trail of petals leading to the bedroom. Be there, waiting, seductively for him with the lights turned low and the candles lit. You’ll leave him with memories he’ll never forget, and a feeling of appreciation!

Discover more tips on how to seduce a Libra man in bed here <<

7. Write Him A Love Letter

A beautiful, old fashioned, and memorable way to show him your appreciation is by penning him a special love letter.

This is a wonderful thing to do, as it can be read over and over again, right into old age! Remember – write the real deal instead of an email – it’s so much more meaningful and romantic!

Make it special. Go and buy some pretty (expensive) paper, scent it with some perfume and pour your feelings of gratitude for him and all eth ways that he lights up your life. Don’t forget to compliment and flatter him liberally throughout the letter, boosting his confidence!

You can seal it with a kiss (pop some lipstick on for that!), and place it in an envelope, leaving it for him to find on his desk, under his pillow, or in his postbox. He will be absolutely blown away at your creativity and effort!

Few More Ways To Make A Libra Man Feel Loved And Appreciated

8. Expand Your Comfort Zone & Challenge Him

Libra men are some of the more open-minded of the Zodiac. They are a cardinal sign within the air element. This allows them to be able to see multiple sides to every situation. If he sees that you’re stubborn and unrelenting, he may be put off.

Demonstrate that you’re open to having your mind changed. At the very least, try to understand the many aspects that he offers up on any given subject.

But, even though you’ll demonstrate open-mindedness, that doesn’t mean you should agree to everything. Nothing turns a Libra man on more than a woman who can confidently say what she means without backing down.

While you let him teach you a thing or two, don’t hesitate to do the same.

9. Be Spontaneous

Predictability is the bane of a Libra man’s existence. Yes, he craves stability and balance (the sign of the scales, after all!), but boredom is the quickest way to kill his passion.

Take a peek at his calendar, find out when he’ll have some time off, pick him up with a packed suitcase, and skip town. He will love the adventure and escapism of it all.

Spontaneity doesn’t require traveling, though. It could be bringing him his favorite meal on his lunch break, inviting his closest friends for a guy’s night, or surprising him with that item in his Amazon cart that he keeps putting off getting himself.

Whatever his love language is, speak it. Keep it fresh, exciting, and unexpected.

10. Discuss Your Intellectual Pursuits & Goals

The Libra man wants a woman who is not only jaw droppingly beautiful but exceedingly smart as well. The more you’re knowledgeable about him, the sexier you become to him.

Just be careful because he doesn’t like “knowing it all”. It’s good to let him know the things you are educated in and the experience you have. This is particularly helpful when you’re making future plans with him.

You want to appeal to things that you both enjoy or that you both want to try. The only way you can find that out is by talking to him, sharing your interests, and getting to know each other.

When you talk about the things you want to achieve in your life, you’re letting him see that you have motivation. He doesn’t like women who are lazy and have no willpower to make their lives better.

Libran men love women because they don’t have to take care of them and are independent. When you share with him how intellectual you are, what you want, and what your plans are, he’ll be very drawn to you.

11. Slow Down!

One of the things Libra man wants women to understand is that there is no real hurry when it comes to building the foundation of a long lasting love relationship. He wants to start with friendship and court you in the old fashioned way.

If you really want him to love you and stay with you, you’re going to have to be very patient with him. He’s indecisive and takes things slow because he doesn’t want to make a mistake.

Show him that you honor that about him and let him take his time. If he’s really into you, he’ll let you know in very sweet ways. He may send you gifts, or cards, or treat you somehow.

He won’t let you go for long periods of time without hearing from him. If he does that then he’s either confused or he’s losing interest. Otherwise, there is nothing for you to worry about.

Libra men love taking time apart and spending time alone. Don’t be alarmed. This is totally normal. Don’t freak out and start blowing up his phone with texts or telling him how hurt you are. If you do, he’ll be scared off.

Take it nice and easy. While it’s alright for you to suggest a get together from time to time, you need to also let him figure out what he wants to do. Can you text him daily? Sure. He won’t mind that as long as you don’t do it a bunch.

Libra men will normally be really good at touching base daily with someone he’s trying to have a future relationship with because he’s excited and he wants to form a bond before actually committing.

Just don’t ever pressure him to respond within a certain time or give him a hard time for not texting back. He will start to resent you and think you’re too dramatic for him. Stay nice and calm with your sensitive Libra man.

The 14 Words That Give Instant Youth To Your Relationship With A Libra Man…

Have you ever heard of a 14-word elixir that can rejuvenate relationships with a Libra man and grant eternal love?

Just as communication is the most important aspect of a relationship, one of the most important aspects of communication is knowing how to overcome disagreements and misunderstandings.

I knew many women who tragically failed with Libra guys just because they underestimated the importance of talks.

Some didn’t talk with them enough and some talked too much… Others talked just enough, but they said a few wrong things here and there which made their lovers sulk and brood.

Let me tell you, you never want to leave a Libra guy sulk because of something that you said.

It’s best to resolve any such conflict ASAP because his negativity could expand ad infinitum until one day he just snaps and decides that you’re not the one for him and that it’s all over.

The worst part is that 9 out of 10 times with a Libra, women are not even aware that they’ve said something wrong… or missed saying something that he expected them to say.

He doesn’t give off any signals when he’s hurt or disappointed. Instead, he usually just becomes quiet… but women never notice it. Even if they do, they never realize what to do in time.

That’s why whenever a disagreement occurs, it’s best to diffuse it with 14 words that could save your relationship.

Click here to learn the 14 words that give instant youth to your relationship with a Libra man <<

Sending you love,

Your friend and relationship astrologer,

Anna Kovach

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  • Hi Anna.. I have more of a question than a comment, so I hope you don’t mind. What if the only way you can communicate with your Libra man is through email? I have found that I can express how I feel for him and express how much I appreciate him, to be just as effective through email. I take your advice and apply it to what I say 🙂 Thank You! In your opinion and knowledge of a Libra Man, do you think that can still be an effective way to show/express your gratitude and appreciation? Thank You, I appreciate your answer.

    • Hi Erin!

      Well I mean, whatever works for you is how it should be done. Everyone is different and if he’s alright with hearing how you feel through email then so be it. I think Libra is open-minded enough for that. It absolutely can be effective as long as he seems to “get it” and acknowledge it. I truly wish you all the luck of the stars!