You’re smitten with a sexy and inviting Libra man but you’re not sure what you can do to win over his attention. There are things you can do to make yourself stand out to him. Keep reading to learn exactly how to love a Libra man so that you can snag him up for yourself.

Discuss Your Intellectual Pursuits and Goals

The Libra man wants a woman who is not only jaw dropping beautiful but exceedingly smart as well. The more you’re knowledgeable of, the sexier you become to him.

Just be careful because he doesn’t like a “know it all”. It’s good to let him know the things you are educated in and the experience you have. This is particularly helpful when you’re making future plans with him.

You want to appeal to things that you both enjoy or that you both want to try. The only way you can find that out is by talking to him, sharing your interests, and getting to know each other.

When you talk about the things you want to achieve in your life, you’re letting him see that you have motivation in your life. He doesn’t like women who are lazy and have no willpower to make their lives improve.

Libra men love women they don’t have to take care of and are independent. When you share with him how intellectual you are, what you want, and what your plans are, he’ll be very drawn to you .

Always Look Like A Million Bucks

The Libra man loves the beauty in life. He also loves beautiful women. He wants to see a woman who is dressed as though she’s either prepped to go to an expensive restaurant or to a business meeting.

He feels as though one should always be appealing because you never know who you might meet and what may happen to make your life improve. That being said, he wants a woman who shows this same type of zeal in her own appearance.

When you’re going to be around him, always fix your hair, your makeup, and make sure what you’re wearing looks very alluring. He’ll absolutely love it and want to take you out.

Of course, when you hit the bedroom, you’ll also want to appeal to his sexual side by wearing very sexy lingerie underneath your clothing or bring it with you in a bag so you can quickly change into it. He loves dresses, skirts, and high heels.

Wear a really pleasant scent that makes him want to lean into you and kiss. He loves making out and lots of foreplay. You may want to read up on his erogenous zones and desires in the bedroom.

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No Hurry, Slow Down!

One of the things Libra man wants women to understand is that there is no real hurry when it comes to building the foundation of a long lasting love relationship. He wants to start with friendship and court you in the old fashioned way.

If you really want him to love you and stay with you, you’re going to have to be very patient with him. He’s indecisive and takes things slow because he doesn’t want to make a mistake.

Show him that you honor that about him and let him take his time. If he’s really into you, he’ll let you know in very sweet ways. He may send you gifts, cards, or treat you somehow.

He won’t let you go long periods of time without hearing from him. If he does that then he’s either confused or he’s losing interest. Otherwise there is nothing for you to worry about.

Libra men love taking time apart and spending time alone. Don’t be alarmed. This is totally normal. Don’t freak out and start blowing up his phone with texts or telling him how hurt you are. If you do, he’ll be scared off.

Take it nice and easy. While it’s alright for you to suggest a get together from time to time, you need to also let him figure out what he wants to do. Can you text him daily? Sure. He won’t mind that as long as you don’t do it a bunch.

Libra men will normally be really good at touching base daily with someone he’s trying to have a future relationship with because he’s excited and he wants to form a bond before actually committing.

Just don’t ever pressure him to respond within a certain time or give him a hard time for not texting back. He will start to resent you and think you’re too dramatic for him. Stay nice and calm with your sensitive Libra man.

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Considerately Sweet

Naturally the Libra man is a sucker for attention and affection. He’s also a sucker for a woman who is considerate of him. That actually is something he looks for in a woman. He wants someone who thinks of him.

To do this you would do very simple things like send him small gifts, cards, or some kind of tasty treat. You can offer to cook for him at your place or his then wash the dishes.

You can offer to pay the bill sometimes when you two go out. You can also offer to pet sit for him if he needs to go out of town for work or vacation. Offering your service for whatever he needs is very considerate and he will reward you for it.

Do sweet things for him, say sweet things to him, and make him feel really special. When you do this, he will return the favor by treating you like his Queen. He’ll also be more likely to have a long lasting love relationship with you.

Always be on your best behavior, be polite, be smart, and try asking him for advice. He’s really good at thinking other people’s problems through and coming up with some fabulous solutions.

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Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach