The Libra Man on the Cusp of Virgo – What is he really like?

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
The Libra man on the cusp of Virgo will be a very tender hearted, beautiful soul on the inside and quite attractive on the outside. Keep reading...

Sometimes a person’s birth date is so close to the line between signs that they’re known as a cuspian. This means that they may actually have traits from both signs and are interchangeable depending on their life situations. Keep reading to find out what a Libra man with a Virgo cusp might be like.

Beauty On The Inside And Out

The Libra man on the cusp of Virgo will be a very tender hearted, beautiful soul on the inside and quite attractive on the outside. He will be very appealing to anyone who comes in contact with him.

Libra man likes justice and likes to view both sides of any situation. Virgo cusp will show a more analytical look at things and will fortify his strengths in being able to be fair in whatever situation he’s dealing with.

He’s charming, funny, witty, and yet he almost seems as though he’s untouchable. He can be somewhat intimidating to women who maybe think that he’s someone that surely wouldn’t go for them.

Of course a self-confident woman may still attempt to win his attention regardless of how he appears. She may think that she’s the one that will make the difference. However; her arrogance or cocky demeanor will turn him off.

So much for the woman who believes that she’s all that. He’ll read right through it and will cast her aside. He doesn’t like superficial women. He loves women who have heart and care deeply about life.

This man is a heavy thinker. He was born under the planet of Mercury which will make him an analyzer. Yes Virgo is already like this. Libra is an intellectual but he’ll become more so on the cusp of Virgo.

Falling In Love & Sex

The Libra man on the cusp of Virgo is likely to be rather old fashioned, reserved, and slow in his deliberation. He’s not one to dive in and hurry into any situation. He wants to be 100% sure of what he’s doing and who he’s with.

He wants a relationship that will last a lifetime but he’s willing to wait for the right one. Virgo helps him keep his feet firmly planted in the ground so he doesn’t let his feelings get away with him.

This is the most sensible version of Libra there is. Once he does commit; he’s extremely loyal, he’s one that wants to take care of his woman but still wants her to take care of herself also.

In other words; he’s happy to help you as long as you’re working at helping yourself. He’s not one to play money maker to someone who will lounge on the sofa all day watching television.

If you’re working hard and trying to do your very best; he’ll want to cook you dinner, take you out and show you a good time, and even buy you gifts that he knows you’ll love.

This is how he acts when he’s in love. He may even call you and talk to you on the phone for hours. This is his way of getting to know you and spending time even if you cannot in person.

As far as sex goes; he’s likely to hold off on that if he’s interested in you. It’s not that he doesn’t want to do it; it’s more that he actually likes you and wants to make sure that the relationship isn’t just about sex.

He wants and needs to be sure that you are in it for the long haul and not just looking for someone to bed you down. Though he may be open to a fling in his life; he would prefer sex to mean something.

He attaches love and spirituality with sex. Though it may not seem like it sometimes during sex; deep inside; he really doesn’t want to have meaningless sex. He wants it to be with someone he deeply cares for and cares for him.

When he finally does have sex with you; he is likely to start bringing out his inner freak which means you’ll have plenty of pleasure in the bedroom. With the Libra/Virgo cusp mix; some nights he’ll be the aggressor and some nights you will be.

Read next: Libra Man Personality – Far Better than Others

Communication And Life

The Libra man on the Virgo cusp is very well spoken. He knows what to say and when. He can be critical at times and yet; you’d rather hear the truth than hear not I’m sure.

Libra man isn’t that great at expressing his emotions and neither is Virgo really. So he won’t have an improved way to talk to you about deeply personal things or his feelings.

However; if you sit him down and talk to him calmly and rationally; he’ll be more comfortable telling you how he feels and what he wants. If you go at him with emotion or in a critical state of mind; his Virgo will kick in and he will cut you back with his own words.

Libra is such a nice guy he sometimes has a hard time putting his foot down and saying no. In truth; Virgo man may have the same issue. Then again; if Virgo gets hurt or pissed off; he’ll lay it all on the line whether you like it or not.

It’s best to be honest when you can and without any sort of critical comments or drama. This guy has high standards and again; this can make you feel insecure about yourself or not worthy.

Fear not; he will occasionally surprise you with sweet nothings in your ear and tell you how amazing you are when you least expect it. So even if he sometimes seems abrasive; he’ll still have times where he’s extremely sweet.

This is a fantastic guy all around really. He can be short with is words but he doesn’t typically get angry very easily. The Libra/Virgo cusp guy will add things up though and keep track of any sleights to be careful ladies!

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Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

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  • I love the mother of my child,( she is a cancer. ) She shows signs of a narcissistic person. it feels like she’s uses me at times, she’s always on the defensive, never wants to talk about any issues, always brings up the your past or ramdom left field things. Then when I attempt to to get my side across she doesn’t want to talk anymore and she has never once given me a straight answer. It’s like it’s her way, Ok my question is how do I leave? I am virgo libra cusp man.

    • Hi Ricky!

      It sounds like she’s very wounded from past events and is still carrying it around. Until she gets herself some help to heal, she’s not going to change much. Being on the defensive comes from having been attacked many times before. Yes, bringing up the past is a sign she has troubles letting go. If you truly want to end it with her, you’re going to have to be very direct and tell her that she needs to get some assistance and that you cannot help her so it’s time you’ve moved on in your personal life. Assure her that you will not abandon your child and that you two will always be friends due to that fact. I hope this helps!

  • Hi Ricky
    I know this post was in Jan however, am hoping you haven’t just left your partner – I am a cancer woman and yes she needs professional help/support however, by you walking away when she needs it most I feel is not the right thing for your relationship. Deep down if she is anything like me not only is she a great mother but also past all the hurt and pain a loving, kind and generous woman who has just been hurt by one too many people in life. She is lashing out because she has not even accepted that she has an issue so I would recommend you talk to her about how she makes you feel and that you are happy to support her and walk that path with her. It will take time as all these things do however, no relationship is plain sailing and it isnt always bad. However, of course it is your decision ultimately.

    • Hi Pal!

      Thank you for tuning in but I must say, you’re recommending he stay in the relationship may not be the right thing here. I mean yes, he can offer to stick it out with her but if he’s going to be acting the way she has then it might not be healthy for either of them. She needs to spend time getting therapy and healing herself before she can worry about being with someone in a commitment. He doesn’t have to give up on her at all. He simply needs to let her do what she needs to do so that they can all be healthy together in the end.

  • Causing some commotion with my love potion to my Scorpio wife, leave it to me… wait I need some romantic music to show me the way, I let shaggy or any other romantic musical artist speak the words that I cannot to her.
    I am good with words but oh singing even one tone that is over my line.
    Leaving the singing and guitar to my wife and my Sagitarrius best friend, hearing them making music together so beautiful.

    • Hi Patrik!

      I thank you for writing in and sharing your artistic talents. Interesting how you put the signs in perspective. It’s very nice to see words put into poetry. You’re gifted. Again, thank you for sharing!